I Am Willing to Exchange My Country for Your Wishful Thinking

(Normal development in the early stage + crazy criticism of the male protagonist in the later stage + love but not sadomasochism plot) In order to protect herself and her family, the Queen Mother forced her to disguise herself as a man and become the emperor of the Chaoyang Kingdom where men were superior to women. She could seize goddesses, stabilize the country, and eradicate alien parties. However, she never wanted to be betrayed by someone, leading to the destruction of the country and the family. He was the ninth prince of Mobei. To achieve his goal, he would do anything to seize the throne, destroy her country, expose her daughter's identity, destroy her desire to restore the country, and force her to stay with him.