A Guide to Sobriety in Marriage and Love

As the book says, a good match is not just about the same economic conditions, but more importantly, the matching of living habits, interests and hobbies. I used to be a bit "self-righteous" and always felt that I needed to find someone who was better than me in all aspects. But after reading this book, I understand that if you want to find the right person, you must first have a correct assessment of yourself. Moreover, the book also mentioned the doctor-patient relationship, which also touched me very much. There are quite a lot of conflicts between doctors and patients now. It would be great if everyone could have more understanding and trust. All in all, this is a book worth reading and I recommend it to everyone!

Well said, not only suitable for love, but also for friendship. The words in it are really hard to hear, but they are indeed extracted from reality. For example, think more about your virtues and abilities and talk less about the criteria for choosing a mate. I think many people are single because they have high demands on each other but ignore their own conditions, including myself. Now I think about it, if I put my conditions in the marriage market, Gao Fushuai will definitely not work. I still want to talk about Gao Fushuai (ಥ_ಥ). Maybe I have that disease where I want to talk but am afraid of actually talking about it😮‍💨. Also, I have watched too many TV series and novels, and I always think of love as very grand and romantic. I feel that it is destiny and a good match sent by God that is love. But how can there be so many coincidences and perfectly matched male and female protagonists in reality. The author believes that feelings can be cultivated slowly. 🌚Although, I still long for romantic love♡╰(´`)╯🌹 At the same time, I agree with the author's point of view: Don't use love to test human nature. In the face of interests, I think love is still very fragile. Of course, when two people are together, their economic foundation and character are very important.

I agree with most of the views in the book. The author is very sober and realistic, and writes about many of the current pain points. This book mainly talks about marriage and love, but it is also suitable for friends who are confused about interpersonal relationships other than love. Those who want to seek guidance in life can also read it [Like]

It can be finished in about an hour or two, and I don't have any choice between watching them all. I feel that the author is an INTJ (guessed). After reading the book, I feel that the most important thing is myself. It is never too much to improve yourself. Wherever you are at your best, your way of handling things will be. The author writes in great detail. The same principles appear in different chapters. Many things are emanated from a core principle. He is very observant and knows how to understand himself.

After reading it, I realized that it is a book for girls. No wonder most of the parts in the book are told from a female perspective. The content is very in line with the current life situation of most people, and some of the views are quite useful for reference. Let go of your vague understanding of marriage, face reality and experience it [laughing evilly]

Love is fragile and short-lived, so humans enter into marriage. Marriage binds both parties with family affection and binds each other with material things. The root cause of many women's unhappy marriages is that they are too emotional and too dependent on love. They always long for a perfect marriage and hope that the other party will always love them unconditionally. If a marriage is maintained only by a few empty words of love, it will eventually return to dullness after the excitement of hormonal excitement wears off.

People are individuals first. You must first learn to love yourself before others will love you. No one is a fool. Many women get married passively in order to make themselves better. When things get worse, they must either correct or start over. If financial conditions support it, marriage is not the only option.

The views of this book are very pragmatic and practical. It is helpful for work and life. It is full of useful information. Overall, I feel that I have gained something from reading it and I feel much more awake.

It covers many areas, including love, marriage, education, and accepting one's own mediocrity... I think the views expressed are to the point, neutral in attitude, neither flattering to men nor flattering to women.

This book is not only about marriage and love, but also covers many things in life. Life is not simple, so you must live it well!

It's really good. Many of the views are very consistent with reality.

It's very suitable for me to read at this stage. After reading it, I felt a lot more enlightened. Many things that I couldn't think about or couldn't understand were slowly solved.

Absolutely a good book. The content is full of useful information. The author's views are also very pertinent. The author has something. In addition, I hope the author will not remove this book from the shelves. If you encounter problems in life that day, you can still read it and get likes.

Don't compare, cultivate your mind

Optimistic, rational and reference value

Add some spiritual food

For a 21-year-old unmarried woman, it is much better to recognize herself and reality early. This book is very practical and worth reading [Like][Like]

Okay, good 😊 Good, good, good

A very good book! Benefited a lot

It's very good. It's written very realistically [full]

The harvest is profound and worth savoring.