I Started as a Granddaughter-In-Law, and Now I Am a Great-Grandmother

I started as a grandson-in-law, and now I am a great-grandmother. I am almost eighty years old. I live alone in a big yard. I occasionally think of my wife who has been indifferent for half my life. Everything about me seems to have to be done according to the likes and dislikes of my three daughters-in-law. They are all people who have been set by rules by me, but now they still don't understand any rules.