Kawajiri Sheng was enjoying college life in Tokyo. One day, his father suddenly visited and told him that his aunt Matsuko, who disappeared more than 30 years ago, had recently been murdered in Tokyo. Sheng, who was responsible for sorting out his aunt's belongings, began to investigate Songzi's life. From a middle school teacher to a fashionable girl, Songzi has been pursuing the thing called love all her life. She has been driven away by her family, abandoned by her lover, and humiliated by fate in every possible way, but she has always been unwary of people's hearts. For love, she doesn't know what despair is, she only knows to pursue it bravely. Her life was an absurd life and a life of failure, but it was also a life of never giving up hope and a life lived seriously.
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You can never truly understand a person unless you think about things from her perspective, but when you actually walk through her path, you feel sad even passing by.
The most poignant film review I saw on Douban: "It's a sarcasm, right? When you think life is over, it's still going on. When you think life can start over, life is over." Songzi, love yourself well in the next life and be your own God.
After watching the movie version and reading the book, the themes of the book and the movie are different. The relationship between Songzi and his father is only mentioned in one sentence at the end. The book is more real and touching. It does not exaggerate the character's mood but creates "the most authentic human nature and the most authentic emotions". Songzi's life was painful and profound. She suffered from a severe lack of love and a please-pleaser personality, which led her to place her love on men. However, she did not know how to love, nor did she know what true love was...
I've seen half of it and want to become a member
But I have seen the movie version, and Songzi in it is really pitiful. She has longed for her father's love since she was a child, but her father gave all his love to her sister, and then was cheated by a scumbag, and so on. She has been hurt so many times, but she still simply believed that someone would love her, but no one really loved her until she died.
Songzi's life is so long, but I read it in just a few hours. As the story progressed, I couldn't help but feel sorry for what happened to Songzi. When I saw Songzi begin to deteriorate, I felt very sorry and even a little incomprehensible. But then I thought again, there is no real empathy in the world. I am not Songzi. I have not experienced anything she has experienced, so I am not qualified to question Songzi's life. Throughout his long life, Songzi seemed to be experiencing hurt, betrayal and departure. From the scumbag principal at the beginning, to his students, to his colleagues, to his later boyfriend, to his younger brother... Songzi always seems to be the one who is not chosen in the choice. What kind of person is Songzi, a good person or a bad person. I think, I have no way to evaluate, I am just a reader... This book is worth reading, and I was really touched after reading it. A very important reason for Songzi's unfortunate life is the "love" she is looking for. But when you love others, you must love yourself first. Regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, you must learn to love yourself [I'm about to cry][I'm about to cry][I'm about to cry]
It was very depressing after reading it. If I were Songzi, how would I live? Would I be like her? [Almost crying]
After reading the whole book, the book explains it from multiple perspectives and tells it like a story, which is very moving. Songzi's life was too bumpy, constantly experiencing encounters and partings. This may be a bit similar to what people often say: character determines destiny. Songzi has been longing to be loved and affirmed all his life, but he has forgotten that loving yourself is the proposition of life. It is better to rely on yourself than to rely on others. Stay independent, sober, and confident. You must understand at all times that love is overflowing, not empty. Life lasts only thirty thousand days, and apart from life and death, there is nothing that cannot be overcome. If everything will eventually return to its original point, then first of all, I will still be me, and everything else will be others.
This book was originally recommended by a teacher. At first I was just curious and read a few chapters. I didn't have the patience to continue reading. I stopped reading it for a long time. Now I have the patience to read it. The more I read, the more I have the desire to continue reading. In the final analysis, Songzi still lacks father's love. She replaces the men she meets and wants to rely on with men like her father, wants to get love from them, and is willing to give up other things for this. Perhaps there is a saying that is quite right, some people spend their whole lives making up for their childhood. She kept losing and looking for new hope again and again, because she didn't get enough love, so she couldn't live for herself independently. She had to have someone to rely on, and even if this reliance would hurt her, she was unwilling to lose it. This is a tragedy.
It's very interesting. It tells about the good and evil of human nature. Songzi's life is very miserable.
I feel very depressed after reading this. Don't put your trust in others. You don't love money as much as you love men.
Songzi's life is wonderful and tragic at the same time. Due to the reasons of her original family, her father's unfair love and her mother's lack of opinion, her personality is too sensitive and lacks love. If she has no love brain and is not attached to men, she will be a real winner in life, smart, beautiful and in good shape! At the beginning, Songzi thought she was being disliked, but at the end, Songzi was really disliked.
A sigh, the origin of a person's character is too complicated. There are many turning points in Songzi's life, but she really wants to love and be loved so much that she can't see her turning point. She is definitely unlucky, but at the same time she is lucky, because at every low point, she can meet noble people who appreciate her and think highly of her. But in the end, she failed to catch it, and this tragic life was doomed in the end. Alas. . .
Before I fully watched the final chapter, I had always been from the perspective of a bystander, speaking arrogantly and accusingly, hating Songzi for not living up to expectations and not living for herself, being confused by the appearances of multiple men, not being able to see clearly and not cherishing herself. As stated in the ruling, the problems caused by the lack of father's love are stated, but the character defects cannot be entirely attributed to this. She is self-centered, does not hate completely, and does not love completely. She indulges herself and is led by others. In essence, she just blindly repeats the past and places her hopes on others several times without mentally killing herself who was influenced by her family. Therefore, throughout the whole text, she has never grown up and is still a girl. In another sense, she has not forgotten her original intention and has been pursuing hope, but she has found the wrong direction. As the end came to a close, when she finally realized where the beam of light was, her unbearable mood forced her to immediately pick up the business card, but by God's will, her hope was completely wiped out by a group of nasty young people. With such sadness, I actually had the urge to cry for her. It's never too late to restart life at any stage, but it ended like this. Such Songzi returned home at the end of her life, the home she had never abandoned in her heart, and said, "I'm back."
Alas, I was angry at Matsuko's character at first, and why there was such an idiot who always gave the worst answer to any choice he made, but the more I watched it, the more I felt sorry for him. Everyone often says that everyone has his own destiny, and destiny is often formed by a person's character plus a little bit of luck. So I have always felt that rebirth stories are fake. People are still the same person. Even if they choose the right path again under the same choice back then, will they be able to reach the other side of success calmly? In fact, it is not the case. In the end, you will still be limited by your own personality, and the result will be the same in the end. It is a very pessimistic thought... I spent many days reading this book. I always did not understand and hated it before, with the pride of "if I were Songzi, I would never be like this", but is this really the case? Pine nuts are just the extremes of us readers. Now when I dream about it at midnight and think back on the past, I have been regretting why I did this/that in the first place. But what seemed like a stupid choice to me now, seemed to me at that time to be the optimal solution. Really in tears. The author of this book tells us to have God in our hearts and forgive those who should not be forgiven. It sounds strange, but in fact, I think what he wants to say is to forgive yourself. Let yourself go. Regardless of whether you forgive those who have hurt you, the facts will not change. All you can do is let yourself go. Otherwise, you will be dragged into the quagmire of regret and hatred from which you cannot extricate yourself.
The book is very nice. Songzi has been searching for love her whole life, and when she finds the love she thinks she will fight for love at all costs. But her efforts were not rewarded, even so she always believed in love. Songzi believes that if no one loves her, her life will be bleak and hopeless. Finally, after a long period of self-destruction, she realized that even if no one loved her, her hairdressing skills could bring her hope and happiness. Just when she was about to start over, she was killed and ended her life.
Songzi's story actually shows us that we cannot get true happiness by living for others. We must believe in love and love bravely, but we must never forget ourselves. While loving others, we must also love ourselves. Life is lonely, and the only thing that will accompany you in the end and never leave is what you really own.
I read the book after watching the movie. It turns out that Songzi does have her own character flaws. Maybe some people don't understand why she is so devoted to those men, but in fact, Songzi regards them as the sustenance and spiritual support of her existence.
She has a silly and naive persistence, so she always chooses the other person resolutely. Even if the other person is bad, she thinks he will change. In fact, Songzi is very kind, smart and down-to-earth. Just as she cared for students who got carsick, she quickly learned how to cut hair.
Songzi, you are actually very good, but the road you have traveled has been too tortuous.
It was very depressing after watching it, just like Dazai Osamu's disqualification in the world.
Anyone who expects recognition will be enslaved by anyone. Love others first and love yourself first.
In piecing together one memory after another, we gradually understand Songzi's life. She longed for love, and even abandoned her bottom line again and again for the so-called love. She spent her whole life looking for love, but in the end she died alone. Songzi The relationship with his father was the starting point of his life's tragedy. The trauma of his original family was deeply imprinted in his life like original sin. The title of the book "The Disliked" not only refers to the abandonment and contempt of Songzi by the outside world, but also refers to the "dislike" of Songzi deep in his heart. She believed that she did not deserve to be treated well, and her sense of self-worth was extremely low. This inner "disgust" drove her to constantly make bad choices, and it also made it difficult for her to truly accept and love herself. I'm sorry for being a human being
It's so beautiful. I highly recommend this book to those who want to be angry. Hahahahaha. I haven't finished reading the first book yet, so I can't help but review it [smile]. I strongly disagree with the idea that all the mistakes Songzi has made because of men in her life are attributed to her father's favoritism, her lack of love, etc. The original family will have a great impact on a person, but! It does not determine the future direction of your life. Could it be that her father asked her to choose to be with so many rotten cucumbers and let her choose to be domestically abused again and again? It was never the case, it was all her own choice. There were obviously so many people around Songzi who sincerely wished her well, guided her in her future direction, and treated her as a friend, but she didn't cherish them! Even though he has grown older, his mind can still be said to be completely underdeveloped, but he clearly has a good hand: he has strong learning ability, excellent grades, is beautiful and smart. They were all beaten to a pulp [laugh][laugh][laugh][laugh][laugh]
If she is unwilling to save herself and is willing to fall, no one can save her, and she will also attract parasites that will slowly corrode her.
Because her father favored her disabled sister, Songzi had a desire to "compete for favor". She studied and worked according to her father's requirements. She only hoped that her father could also see her existence and affirm her own value. Because she did not develop a correct sense of self-protection and did not receive a correct concept of education, she did not know how to deal with it when she was raped by the principal. She did not know how to educate children who stole. She could not accept the love of Mr. Akagi, but she could fall in love with bad men. Matsuko She has no sense of self-identity. Her sense of identity comes from the needs of others. Akagi's love is too pure and introverted, or she thinks that she is not worthy of Akagi's sincere treatment of her. She needs others to tell her that they love her and need her in order to feel the meaning of her survival. , Many factors led to Songzi's miserable life. No matter whether he is a man or a woman, he cannot place his hope on others. The meaning and value of life need to be found in himself. Only by accepting yourself, affirming yourself, loving yourself and loving life can others love you.
This book allowed me to see Songzi's absurd and brave life. She keeps searching for love, but always gets hurt. I especially hate Songzi's father, he is too indifferent to Songzi. However, Songzi never gave up hope in life. This spirit is very touching. The storyline was engaging and kept me wondering what the fate of Matsuko would be.
As a human being, why is she always apologizing?
The world is so big, but pine nuts tolerate evil, it's hard to judge
Songzi lacks love, longs for love, chases love, but forgets to love herself.
Loving yourself is the ultimate goal
I read the original work after watching the movie, and left a mark
Songzi planned to live for herself, but this time God never gave her a chance to innovate and cheer up. She was completely beaten down by fate, with no strength or possibility to fight back. Perhaps every time I stand on the embankment and cry, I want to express the port of healing that a person longs for after being injured. Whether it is a man or a woman, the main thing is to have a port. Everyone needs a port that fully accepts us.
The true love in the world that she wants to capture every time is only that she devotes herself to it unilaterally. Perhaps there is no one in the world who is worthy of her sincere affection.
Some people blame her for not always focusing on others, as if she doesn't deserve to live for herself if she doesn't do it for others. Don't people always want to seize what they have never had? If you are lacking something, you will do everything you can to get it. Those who truly lack nothing want nothing. When you were young, who didn't make the wrong choice and have some obsessions that you thought you had to have? Everyone knows how to live their life after being severely beaten by reality again and again. But the moment of complete awakening often occurs when we are powerless to reverse our fate.
Just like pine nuts, and like a game that cannot be repeated, it is time to quit when you have fully understood the rules of the game, leaving this game for newcomers to experience and break through.
Songzi is a person with strong learning ability. She is an excellent person in everything she does: but because she was born in a family of origin where she was not cared for and was not loved by her family, she became someone who would please others and place her hopes on others in order to seek to be needed and prove that she has a sense of existence. Songzi has been disliked by others all his life, and even himself does not recognize himself. Songzi's tragic life can even be summed up in one paragraph, so much suffering she suffered. She did nothing wrong, she just longed to be loved, and finally met such a tragic end. The influence of the original family on people is lifelong, but the person who saves them can only be themselves, not anyone else. A person can only rely on or persist in his beliefs. If it is someone else, then when this person leaves, his world will collapse, the straw that will crush him, and become a ruin.
His father favored Kumi, and Songzi was jealous of Kumi. In order to gain his father's love, Songzi kept trying to please his father, and brought this habit into adult society, which led to the final tragedy.
Songzi has been pursuing someone to rely on and looking for the love of others all his life. He has forgotten that only by loving himself can he be loved. It is really a miserable life, but every step is his own choice.
Start reviewing Songzi's life on February 11, 2025.
Song Zi's tragic life seems to have been chosen by himself, but it seems so natural.
Songzi pursues love in life, relies on love, and maintains the courage to keep moving forward when encountering setbacks. Even if it doesn't happen at the moment, it will appear at some point in the future.
You can never truly understand a person unless you think about things from her perspective, but when you actually walk through her path, you feel sad even passing by.
The most poignant film review I saw on Douban: "It's a sarcasm, right? When you think life is over, it's still going on. When you think life can start over, life is over." Songzi, love yourself well in the next life and be your own God.
After watching the movie version and reading the book, the themes of the book and the movie are different. The relationship between Songzi and his father is only mentioned in one sentence at the end. The book is more real and touching. It does not exaggerate the character's mood but creates "the most authentic human nature and the most authentic emotions". Songzi's life was painful and profound. She suffered from a severe lack of love and a please-pleaser personality, which led her to place her love on men. However, she did not know how to love, nor did she know what true love was...
I've seen half of it and want to become a member But I have seen the movie version, and Songzi in it is really pitiful. She has longed for her father's love since she was a child, but her father gave all his love to her sister, and then was cheated by a scumbag, and so on. She has been hurt so many times, but she still simply believed that someone would love her, but no one really loved her until she died.
Songzi's life is so long, but I read it in just a few hours. As the story progressed, I couldn't help but feel sorry for what happened to Songzi. When I saw Songzi begin to deteriorate, I felt very sorry and even a little incomprehensible. But then I thought again, there is no real empathy in the world. I am not Songzi. I have not experienced anything she has experienced, so I am not qualified to question Songzi's life. Throughout his long life, Songzi seemed to be experiencing hurt, betrayal and departure. From the scumbag principal at the beginning, to his students, to his colleagues, to his later boyfriend, to his younger brother... Songzi always seems to be the one who is not chosen in the choice. What kind of person is Songzi, a good person or a bad person. I think, I have no way to evaluate, I am just a reader... This book is worth reading, and I was really touched after reading it. A very important reason for Songzi's unfortunate life is the "love" she is looking for. But when you love others, you must love yourself first. Regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, you must learn to love yourself [I'm about to cry][I'm about to cry][I'm about to cry]
It was very depressing after reading it. If I were Songzi, how would I live? Would I be like her? [Almost crying]
After reading the whole book, the book explains it from multiple perspectives and tells it like a story, which is very moving. Songzi's life was too bumpy, constantly experiencing encounters and partings. This may be a bit similar to what people often say: character determines destiny. Songzi has been longing to be loved and affirmed all his life, but he has forgotten that loving yourself is the proposition of life. It is better to rely on yourself than to rely on others. Stay independent, sober, and confident. You must understand at all times that love is overflowing, not empty. Life lasts only thirty thousand days, and apart from life and death, there is nothing that cannot be overcome. If everything will eventually return to its original point, then first of all, I will still be me, and everything else will be others.
This book was originally recommended by a teacher. At first I was just curious and read a few chapters. I didn't have the patience to continue reading. I stopped reading it for a long time. Now I have the patience to read it. The more I read, the more I have the desire to continue reading. In the final analysis, Songzi still lacks father's love. She replaces the men she meets and wants to rely on with men like her father, wants to get love from them, and is willing to give up other things for this. Perhaps there is a saying that is quite right, some people spend their whole lives making up for their childhood. She kept losing and looking for new hope again and again, because she didn't get enough love, so she couldn't live for herself independently. She had to have someone to rely on, and even if this reliance would hurt her, she was unwilling to lose it. This is a tragedy.
It's very interesting. It tells about the good and evil of human nature. Songzi's life is very miserable. I feel very depressed after reading this. Don't put your trust in others. You don't love money as much as you love men.
Songzi's life is wonderful and tragic at the same time. Due to the reasons of her original family, her father's unfair love and her mother's lack of opinion, her personality is too sensitive and lacks love. If she has no love brain and is not attached to men, she will be a real winner in life, smart, beautiful and in good shape! At the beginning, Songzi thought she was being disliked, but at the end, Songzi was really disliked.
A sigh, the origin of a person's character is too complicated. There are many turning points in Songzi's life, but she really wants to love and be loved so much that she can't see her turning point. She is definitely unlucky, but at the same time she is lucky, because at every low point, she can meet noble people who appreciate her and think highly of her. But in the end, she failed to catch it, and this tragic life was doomed in the end. Alas. . .
Before I fully watched the final chapter, I had always been from the perspective of a bystander, speaking arrogantly and accusingly, hating Songzi for not living up to expectations and not living for herself, being confused by the appearances of multiple men, not being able to see clearly and not cherishing herself. As stated in the ruling, the problems caused by the lack of father's love are stated, but the character defects cannot be entirely attributed to this. She is self-centered, does not hate completely, and does not love completely. She indulges herself and is led by others. In essence, she just blindly repeats the past and places her hopes on others several times without mentally killing herself who was influenced by her family. Therefore, throughout the whole text, she has never grown up and is still a girl. In another sense, she has not forgotten her original intention and has been pursuing hope, but she has found the wrong direction. As the end came to a close, when she finally realized where the beam of light was, her unbearable mood forced her to immediately pick up the business card, but by God's will, her hope was completely wiped out by a group of nasty young people. With such sadness, I actually had the urge to cry for her. It's never too late to restart life at any stage, but it ended like this. Such Songzi returned home at the end of her life, the home she had never abandoned in her heart, and said, "I'm back."
Alas, I was angry at Matsuko's character at first, and why there was such an idiot who always gave the worst answer to any choice he made, but the more I watched it, the more I felt sorry for him. Everyone often says that everyone has his own destiny, and destiny is often formed by a person's character plus a little bit of luck. So I have always felt that rebirth stories are fake. People are still the same person. Even if they choose the right path again under the same choice back then, will they be able to reach the other side of success calmly? In fact, it is not the case. In the end, you will still be limited by your own personality, and the result will be the same in the end. It is a very pessimistic thought... I spent many days reading this book. I always did not understand and hated it before, with the pride of "if I were Songzi, I would never be like this", but is this really the case? Pine nuts are just the extremes of us readers. Now when I dream about it at midnight and think back on the past, I have been regretting why I did this/that in the first place. But what seemed like a stupid choice to me now, seemed to me at that time to be the optimal solution. Really in tears. The author of this book tells us to have God in our hearts and forgive those who should not be forgiven. It sounds strange, but in fact, I think what he wants to say is to forgive yourself. Let yourself go. Regardless of whether you forgive those who have hurt you, the facts will not change. All you can do is let yourself go. Otherwise, you will be dragged into the quagmire of regret and hatred from which you cannot extricate yourself.
The book is very nice. Songzi has been searching for love her whole life, and when she finds the love she thinks she will fight for love at all costs. But her efforts were not rewarded, even so she always believed in love. Songzi believes that if no one loves her, her life will be bleak and hopeless. Finally, after a long period of self-destruction, she realized that even if no one loved her, her hairdressing skills could bring her hope and happiness. Just when she was about to start over, she was killed and ended her life. Songzi's story actually shows us that we cannot get true happiness by living for others. We must believe in love and love bravely, but we must never forget ourselves. While loving others, we must also love ourselves. Life is lonely, and the only thing that will accompany you in the end and never leave is what you really own.
I read the book after watching the movie. It turns out that Songzi does have her own character flaws. Maybe some people don't understand why she is so devoted to those men, but in fact, Songzi regards them as the sustenance and spiritual support of her existence. She has a silly and naive persistence, so she always chooses the other person resolutely. Even if the other person is bad, she thinks he will change. In fact, Songzi is very kind, smart and down-to-earth. Just as she cared for students who got carsick, she quickly learned how to cut hair. Songzi, you are actually very good, but the road you have traveled has been too tortuous.
It was very depressing after watching it, just like Dazai Osamu's disqualification in the world. Anyone who expects recognition will be enslaved by anyone. Love others first and love yourself first.
In piecing together one memory after another, we gradually understand Songzi's life. She longed for love, and even abandoned her bottom line again and again for the so-called love. She spent her whole life looking for love, but in the end she died alone. Songzi The relationship with his father was the starting point of his life's tragedy. The trauma of his original family was deeply imprinted in his life like original sin. The title of the book "The Disliked" not only refers to the abandonment and contempt of Songzi by the outside world, but also refers to the "dislike" of Songzi deep in his heart. She believed that she did not deserve to be treated well, and her sense of self-worth was extremely low. This inner "disgust" drove her to constantly make bad choices, and it also made it difficult for her to truly accept and love herself. I'm sorry for being a human being
It's so beautiful. I highly recommend this book to those who want to be angry. Hahahahaha. I haven't finished reading the first book yet, so I can't help but review it [smile]. I strongly disagree with the idea that all the mistakes Songzi has made because of men in her life are attributed to her father's favoritism, her lack of love, etc. The original family will have a great impact on a person, but! It does not determine the future direction of your life. Could it be that her father asked her to choose to be with so many rotten cucumbers and let her choose to be domestically abused again and again? It was never the case, it was all her own choice. There were obviously so many people around Songzi who sincerely wished her well, guided her in her future direction, and treated her as a friend, but she didn't cherish them! Even though he has grown older, his mind can still be said to be completely underdeveloped, but he clearly has a good hand: he has strong learning ability, excellent grades, is beautiful and smart. They were all beaten to a pulp [laugh][laugh][laugh][laugh][laugh] If she is unwilling to save herself and is willing to fall, no one can save her, and she will also attract parasites that will slowly corrode her.
Because her father favored her disabled sister, Songzi had a desire to "compete for favor". She studied and worked according to her father's requirements. She only hoped that her father could also see her existence and affirm her own value. Because she did not develop a correct sense of self-protection and did not receive a correct concept of education, she did not know how to deal with it when she was raped by the principal. She did not know how to educate children who stole. She could not accept the love of Mr. Akagi, but she could fall in love with bad men. Matsuko She has no sense of self-identity. Her sense of identity comes from the needs of others. Akagi's love is too pure and introverted, or she thinks that she is not worthy of Akagi's sincere treatment of her. She needs others to tell her that they love her and need her in order to feel the meaning of her survival. , Many factors led to Songzi's miserable life. No matter whether he is a man or a woman, he cannot place his hope on others. The meaning and value of life need to be found in himself. Only by accepting yourself, affirming yourself, loving yourself and loving life can others love you.
This book allowed me to see Songzi's absurd and brave life. She keeps searching for love, but always gets hurt. I especially hate Songzi's father, he is too indifferent to Songzi. However, Songzi never gave up hope in life. This spirit is very touching. The storyline was engaging and kept me wondering what the fate of Matsuko would be.
As a human being, why is she always apologizing? The world is so big, but pine nuts tolerate evil, it's hard to judge Songzi lacks love, longs for love, chases love, but forgets to love herself.
Loving yourself is the ultimate goal
I read the original work after watching the movie, and left a mark
Songzi planned to live for herself, but this time God never gave her a chance to innovate and cheer up. She was completely beaten down by fate, with no strength or possibility to fight back. Perhaps every time I stand on the embankment and cry, I want to express the port of healing that a person longs for after being injured. Whether it is a man or a woman, the main thing is to have a port. Everyone needs a port that fully accepts us. The true love in the world that she wants to capture every time is only that she devotes herself to it unilaterally. Perhaps there is no one in the world who is worthy of her sincere affection. Some people blame her for not always focusing on others, as if she doesn't deserve to live for herself if she doesn't do it for others. Don't people always want to seize what they have never had? If you are lacking something, you will do everything you can to get it. Those who truly lack nothing want nothing. When you were young, who didn't make the wrong choice and have some obsessions that you thought you had to have? Everyone knows how to live their life after being severely beaten by reality again and again. But the moment of complete awakening often occurs when we are powerless to reverse our fate. Just like pine nuts, and like a game that cannot be repeated, it is time to quit when you have fully understood the rules of the game, leaving this game for newcomers to experience and break through.
Songzi is a person with strong learning ability. She is an excellent person in everything she does: but because she was born in a family of origin where she was not cared for and was not loved by her family, she became someone who would please others and place her hopes on others in order to seek to be needed and prove that she has a sense of existence. Songzi has been disliked by others all his life, and even himself does not recognize himself. Songzi's tragic life can even be summed up in one paragraph, so much suffering she suffered. She did nothing wrong, she just longed to be loved, and finally met such a tragic end. The influence of the original family on people is lifelong, but the person who saves them can only be themselves, not anyone else. A person can only rely on or persist in his beliefs. If it is someone else, then when this person leaves, his world will collapse, the straw that will crush him, and become a ruin.
His father favored Kumi, and Songzi was jealous of Kumi. In order to gain his father's love, Songzi kept trying to please his father, and brought this habit into adult society, which led to the final tragedy.
Songzi has been pursuing someone to rely on and looking for the love of others all his life. He has forgotten that only by loving himself can he be loved. It is really a miserable life, but every step is his own choice.
Start reviewing Songzi's life on February 11, 2025.
Song Zi's tragic life seems to have been chosen by himself, but it seems so natural.
Songzi pursues love in life, relies on love, and maintains the courage to keep moving forward when encountering setbacks. Even if it doesn't happen at the moment, it will appear at some point in the future.