This is a story about how the single generation born in the 1980s optimistically responded to the challenges of 421 family pension. Through the three lines of whether a daughter has the obligation to support her parents in old age, whether a daughter-in-law should give up everything and return to her hometown to support her parents in old age, and whether the rural elderly who do not have social security and medical insurance can only rely on their promising sons to support their old age, it tells the story from many aspects and angles about the pressure and motivation, confusion and emotion of the post-80s generation in providing for their old age.
Reader comments
The plot is well written, from the beginning to the end, it's super exciting and attractive. It's been a long time since a book like this can keep me hooked and I kept reading except for eating. The ending of the story is also very happy, and the process is also very exciting!
A very excellent work. There is no flashy plot, no luxury and extravagance that is divorced from reality, but it truly reflects the current society's urgent need to solve the elderly care problem. Three different families also encountered the problem of elderly care, which can be seen everywhere in real life. The weaknesses of human nature are vividly portrayed. The plot of the story is compact, not procrastinating, and the language is concise, showing the author's excellent writing skills. A true picture that closely reflects real life. Well worth a look.
As we grow older, caring for the elderly has become an unavoidable issue. The three middle-aged people in the new era of caring for the elderly are considered excellent and filial, and the problems they encounter are better than many people in reality. After all, they all graduated from prestigious universities, and they are all good in terms of quality and character. Their parents are happy. After all, their children know gratitude, responsibilities and obligations. In real life, many people can't even support themselves, let alone support their parents in their old age. Those who don't care about their old age are considered good. As an elderly person, as long as you are in good health, it is best to take care of yourself for the elderly. If it is not possible, you can provide for the elderly in a group or in the community. It is only a last resort and does not cause trouble to your children. The elderly should keep enough money for retirement, pay attention to three meals a day, and exercise appropriately. It is better to rely on others than on oneself. Good health and a good mood are the most important.
Very good, very smooth, this book. The plot is fascinating and irresistible, the nature is described, and the characters in the book have good intentions. It is a rare book.
Looking forward to seeing new works again
Generally speaking, it's not bad. Regarding old age care, it reflects the inconsistency of real life. Whether you are a successful person or a little person who has achieved nothing, they are very helpless.
The wealth of material life cannot replace the emptiness of spiritual life. No matter how hard we try, we cannot solve the poverty and hardship in life. The full ideals have to be shattered by the skinny reality. People live in depression and helplessness, and no one can help them. Sometimes being busy can only make things more confusing.
Sometimes, people live in chaos and want to struggle desperately, but they are unable to refute.
Thinking of others is a virtue, but living for yourself is the root of the problem.
It is a very attractive book. It is about the old-age care issues faced by an only child, including the mother-in-law and parents. Although the plot is a bit intense, this is the problem faced by young people. It would be great if you meet enlightened parents who are considerate of their children, adults who understand each other and do not have conflicts, and who help each other to reduce the burden on the children. On the contrary, some adults do not understand their children. If conflicts continue to be unresolved, the children will eventually have no choice but to divorce. If the children do not live well, their parents will not live well either. It is better to understand each other more in life and live a more relaxed life.
A very realistic novel with a happy ending
This story about elderly care is very realistic and interesting. I highly recommend it.
After reading this story, I feel that I am a not very kind person. I'm really disappointed with the happy ending of Zhan Peng's biological mother. Probably because I have personally seen parents who abandon their children, and always feel that they are just human skins.
So well written! Give the author a thumbs up [like]
First of all, the plot of the story is wonderful. The events happened one after another, with ups and downs, which is embarrassing!
Marriage is actually a big classroom for forging life! Some people have been studying here for decades and still fail to graduate, and they only get a certificate of graduation throughout their lives. But some people are so beautiful and perfect! Just as the novel writes, three women encountered the same old-age care problem in their marriages. Although there were twists and turns, the ending was good!
The article is dramatic, but it also reflects the issue of elderly care in a real way. Of the three couples, I prefer Chen Zhanpeng and Yan Yina. Their kindness and filial piety are admirable. I like that this book has a happy ending. Good people are rewarded, and kind people have good luck.
Every family has its own scriptures that are difficult to recite! It is difficult for an upright official to stop household chores! Don't interfere in other people's family affairs! Watch your mouth and legs! The elderly should abandon their old ideas and live a good old life by themselves. Marriage is not easy, so stay true to your heart. Both husband and wife should see each other's contributions and treat each other as a benefactor.
"The New Age of Elderly Care" is like a beacon, illuminating our way of understanding contemporary elderly care issues. It is a highly practical and forward-looking book.
In terms of breadth of content, this book comprehensively covers all aspects of retirement care. It provides an in-depth analysis of various elderly care models such as social elderly care and family care. In terms of social nursing homes, the current situation of nursing homes is elaborated, including the differences in facilities and service quality of different types of nursing homes. For example, the book mentions that some high-end nursing homes have advanced medical equipment, professional medical staff and rich entertainment facilities, which can provide a full range of high-quality services to the elderly; while some ordinary nursing homes face problems such as insufficient funds and staff shortages, and the quality of life of the elderly cannot be well guaranteed. This contrast profoundly reflects the imbalance existing in the field of social elderly care.
When it comes to discussing family care for the elderly, "The New Age of Care for the Elderly" keenly captures the impact of changes in modern family structure on care for the elderly. With the development of society, family sizes are gradually becoming smaller, and the traditional multi-child family pension model faces huge challenges. The book describes the contradictions and confusions that many families encounter in the process of caring for the elderly, such as children who are too busy working to take care of the elderly, and differences between different children in sharing the responsibilities of caring for the elderly. These contents truly reflect the difficulties faced by family care for the elderly in modern society.
The book also pays attention to the spiritual needs of the elderly. Today, as material life becomes increasingly abundant, the spiritual world of the elderly is often ignored. The author pointed out that many elderly people are eager to realize their self-worth in the process of retirement, and they have the desire to continue learning, socializing, and participating in social activities. The book lists some successful cases, such as some communities organizing cultural inheritance activities for the elderly, allowing the elderly to rediscover the joy and meaning of life. This explanation provides new ideas for solving the problem of elderly care.
From a depth perspective, "The New Age of Elderly Care" is not only a description of the phenomenon, but also goes deep into the social, economic, and cultural roots behind elderly care. It reveals the pressure faced by the social pension security system as the population ages. The level of economic development has restricted the allocation of pension resources to a certain extent. There are large differences in the pension benefits enjoyed by the elderly in different regions and different classes. At the same time, changes in cultural concepts also affect the choice of elderly care models. The traditional concept of "raising children for old age" is gradually replaced by diversified elderly care concepts. However, there are also many conceptual conflicts in this transformation process.
The value of "The New Age of Elderly Care" also lies in the fact that it proposes a series of strategies for dealing with elderly care issues. These strategies are not empty theories but are based on extensive practical research. For example, we advocate the establishment of a diversified elderly care service system, encourage social forces to participate in the elderly care industry, and promote the development of the elderly care industry through policy support. This provides a practical reference for the government, society and families to deal with the challenges of elderly care.
In short, "The New Age of Elderly Care" is a rare book on elderly care issues. With its rich content, in-depth analysis and practical suggestions, it gives us a comprehensive and clear understanding of the new era of elderly care. Both those engaged in elderly care-related work and the general public can gain valuable enlightenment from this book.
It's okay. In reality, there are people like this who have peace of mind and are so stubborn that they want to live in the in-laws' home? It disturbed the in-laws' family, and his son's family would not be able to live in peace.
The story is really well written, full of pain and joy, and I can see such a happy ending. It really means that "marriage is not a child's play". As an adult, you can't just talk about divorce. There is also the concept of "raising children for old age" that needs to be given up. Don't cause trouble to your children.
The writing of this novel is great! The further you look at it, the better it becomes. The parents' shortcomings in love and hatred fully demonstrate some of the problems faced by the top academic elites in the 1980s when they got married. The author truly shows the various conflicts in the family and the unavoidable conflicts and entanglements at the social level. No matter the hero or heroine, no matter how good they are, they have to face life and face contradictions... A good article is worth reading and you can get life inspiration from it. Thank you author! 👍👍👍👏👏👏
It's touching, with shadows of reality, but it's a bit exaggerated. But, art, it always has to be exaggerated. If it's not exaggerated, it won't be very touching. The ending is satisfactory, but in reality, there are instances of imperfection. Art is like reality, but there is a gap between it and reality. Every family has its own sutras that are difficult to recite, and every sutra is different.
A realistic novel. When you face middle age, you will encounter problems that must be solved.
It's interesting to see the shortcomings of parents
By describing the separation and reunification of three families, starting from the issue of elder care, reflecting each person's personality from his or her original family, and then combining it with the small family they formed, the family eventually fell apart due to the issue of elder care, and also because of some brotherhood and sisterhood, which eventually gradually resolved. There is a suitable way to deal with the issue of elder care. I think it still has certain reference significance for the current social phenomenon.
Describing objective reality, it is really difficult to reconcile the increasing number of elderly care problems. It is a difficult and difficult social problem to reconcile for both the caregivers and the caregivers from all aspects.
It is true that every family has its own scriptures that are difficult to recite. Fortunately, the ending is a relief.
In fact, every child is filial, but they each have their own life. When you are old, don't always feel that your children owe you. The true meaning is to live the rest of your life and find the happiness you want.
Close to life, just a little worrying
Real and objective, it can make people have the desire to continue to look down.
The writing is good, relatively close to real life, the weakness of human nature is vividly portrayed, and the final ending is happy for everyone, which is what I like.
This novel is very realistic, like it! It is not easy for the elderly to have their own difficulties, and children have their own difficulties! Let's understand each other!
I still have more to say. The psychological states of the male and female characters are so realistically described. In the past, I only thought about myself. This time, after reading the book, I also looked at the feelings of the other person based on the descriptions in the book. I feel that life is very interesting and I have some reference and planning for my future retirement.
This is a very realistic and informative book. I stayed up all night and two days to read it.
Life is not perfect. If you truly love and care about each other through adversity, you will eventually find a good way to get along with each other, and the results will not be bad. Except those who can't get out. In a word, only after experiencing hardship can you experience the beauty of sweetness. Even if it is a little bit good, you can taste extremely sweet!
Very realistic! What do you mean by chicken feathers on the ground, that's it!
The three families face different family problems. In the final analysis, it is a question of how parents provide for their elderly. It gives readers a lot of thinking and inspiration, and more importantly, they face the helplessness of various family relationships. The young couple in the story basically have no problems, but problems arise when they have a relationship with their parents. It's so realistic and worth watching.
The plot is well written, from the beginning to the end, it's super exciting and attractive. It's been a long time since a book like this can keep me hooked and I kept reading except for eating. The ending of the story is also very happy, and the process is also very exciting!
A very excellent work. There is no flashy plot, no luxury and extravagance that is divorced from reality, but it truly reflects the current society's urgent need to solve the elderly care problem. Three different families also encountered the problem of elderly care, which can be seen everywhere in real life. The weaknesses of human nature are vividly portrayed. The plot of the story is compact, not procrastinating, and the language is concise, showing the author's excellent writing skills. A true picture that closely reflects real life. Well worth a look.
As we grow older, caring for the elderly has become an unavoidable issue. The three middle-aged people in the new era of caring for the elderly are considered excellent and filial, and the problems they encounter are better than many people in reality. After all, they all graduated from prestigious universities, and they are all good in terms of quality and character. Their parents are happy. After all, their children know gratitude, responsibilities and obligations. In real life, many people can't even support themselves, let alone support their parents in their old age. Those who don't care about their old age are considered good. As an elderly person, as long as you are in good health, it is best to take care of yourself for the elderly. If it is not possible, you can provide for the elderly in a group or in the community. It is only a last resort and does not cause trouble to your children. The elderly should keep enough money for retirement, pay attention to three meals a day, and exercise appropriately. It is better to rely on others than on oneself. Good health and a good mood are the most important.
Very good, very smooth, this book. The plot is fascinating and irresistible, the nature is described, and the characters in the book have good intentions. It is a rare book. Looking forward to seeing new works again
Generally speaking, it's not bad. Regarding old age care, it reflects the inconsistency of real life. Whether you are a successful person or a little person who has achieved nothing, they are very helpless. The wealth of material life cannot replace the emptiness of spiritual life. No matter how hard we try, we cannot solve the poverty and hardship in life. The full ideals have to be shattered by the skinny reality. People live in depression and helplessness, and no one can help them. Sometimes being busy can only make things more confusing. Sometimes, people live in chaos and want to struggle desperately, but they are unable to refute. Thinking of others is a virtue, but living for yourself is the root of the problem.
It is a very attractive book. It is about the old-age care issues faced by an only child, including the mother-in-law and parents. Although the plot is a bit intense, this is the problem faced by young people. It would be great if you meet enlightened parents who are considerate of their children, adults who understand each other and do not have conflicts, and who help each other to reduce the burden on the children. On the contrary, some adults do not understand their children. If conflicts continue to be unresolved, the children will eventually have no choice but to divorce. If the children do not live well, their parents will not live well either. It is better to understand each other more in life and live a more relaxed life.
A very realistic novel with a happy ending
This story about elderly care is very realistic and interesting. I highly recommend it.
After reading this story, I feel that I am a not very kind person. I'm really disappointed with the happy ending of Zhan Peng's biological mother. Probably because I have personally seen parents who abandon their children, and always feel that they are just human skins.
So well written! Give the author a thumbs up [like] First of all, the plot of the story is wonderful. The events happened one after another, with ups and downs, which is embarrassing! Marriage is actually a big classroom for forging life! Some people have been studying here for decades and still fail to graduate, and they only get a certificate of graduation throughout their lives. But some people are so beautiful and perfect! Just as the novel writes, three women encountered the same old-age care problem in their marriages. Although there were twists and turns, the ending was good!
The article is dramatic, but it also reflects the issue of elderly care in a real way. Of the three couples, I prefer Chen Zhanpeng and Yan Yina. Their kindness and filial piety are admirable. I like that this book has a happy ending. Good people are rewarded, and kind people have good luck.
Every family has its own scriptures that are difficult to recite! It is difficult for an upright official to stop household chores! Don't interfere in other people's family affairs! Watch your mouth and legs! The elderly should abandon their old ideas and live a good old life by themselves. Marriage is not easy, so stay true to your heart. Both husband and wife should see each other's contributions and treat each other as a benefactor.
"The New Age of Elderly Care" is like a beacon, illuminating our way of understanding contemporary elderly care issues. It is a highly practical and forward-looking book. In terms of breadth of content, this book comprehensively covers all aspects of retirement care. It provides an in-depth analysis of various elderly care models such as social elderly care and family care. In terms of social nursing homes, the current situation of nursing homes is elaborated, including the differences in facilities and service quality of different types of nursing homes. For example, the book mentions that some high-end nursing homes have advanced medical equipment, professional medical staff and rich entertainment facilities, which can provide a full range of high-quality services to the elderly; while some ordinary nursing homes face problems such as insufficient funds and staff shortages, and the quality of life of the elderly cannot be well guaranteed. This contrast profoundly reflects the imbalance existing in the field of social elderly care. When it comes to discussing family care for the elderly, "The New Age of Care for the Elderly" keenly captures the impact of changes in modern family structure on care for the elderly. With the development of society, family sizes are gradually becoming smaller, and the traditional multi-child family pension model faces huge challenges. The book describes the contradictions and confusions that many families encounter in the process of caring for the elderly, such as children who are too busy working to take care of the elderly, and differences between different children in sharing the responsibilities of caring for the elderly. These contents truly reflect the difficulties faced by family care for the elderly in modern society. The book also pays attention to the spiritual needs of the elderly. Today, as material life becomes increasingly abundant, the spiritual world of the elderly is often ignored. The author pointed out that many elderly people are eager to realize their self-worth in the process of retirement, and they have the desire to continue learning, socializing, and participating in social activities. The book lists some successful cases, such as some communities organizing cultural inheritance activities for the elderly, allowing the elderly to rediscover the joy and meaning of life. This explanation provides new ideas for solving the problem of elderly care. From a depth perspective, "The New Age of Elderly Care" is not only a description of the phenomenon, but also goes deep into the social, economic, and cultural roots behind elderly care. It reveals the pressure faced by the social pension security system as the population ages. The level of economic development has restricted the allocation of pension resources to a certain extent. There are large differences in the pension benefits enjoyed by the elderly in different regions and different classes. At the same time, changes in cultural concepts also affect the choice of elderly care models. The traditional concept of "raising children for old age" is gradually replaced by diversified elderly care concepts. However, there are also many conceptual conflicts in this transformation process. The value of "The New Age of Elderly Care" also lies in the fact that it proposes a series of strategies for dealing with elderly care issues. These strategies are not empty theories but are based on extensive practical research. For example, we advocate the establishment of a diversified elderly care service system, encourage social forces to participate in the elderly care industry, and promote the development of the elderly care industry through policy support. This provides a practical reference for the government, society and families to deal with the challenges of elderly care. In short, "The New Age of Elderly Care" is a rare book on elderly care issues. With its rich content, in-depth analysis and practical suggestions, it gives us a comprehensive and clear understanding of the new era of elderly care. Both those engaged in elderly care-related work and the general public can gain valuable enlightenment from this book.
It's okay. In reality, there are people like this who have peace of mind and are so stubborn that they want to live in the in-laws' home? It disturbed the in-laws' family, and his son's family would not be able to live in peace.
The story is really well written, full of pain and joy, and I can see such a happy ending. It really means that "marriage is not a child's play". As an adult, you can't just talk about divorce. There is also the concept of "raising children for old age" that needs to be given up. Don't cause trouble to your children.
The writing of this novel is great! The further you look at it, the better it becomes. The parents' shortcomings in love and hatred fully demonstrate some of the problems faced by the top academic elites in the 1980s when they got married. The author truly shows the various conflicts in the family and the unavoidable conflicts and entanglements at the social level. No matter the hero or heroine, no matter how good they are, they have to face life and face contradictions... A good article is worth reading and you can get life inspiration from it. Thank you author! 👍👍👍👏👏👏
It's touching, with shadows of reality, but it's a bit exaggerated. But, art, it always has to be exaggerated. If it's not exaggerated, it won't be very touching. The ending is satisfactory, but in reality, there are instances of imperfection. Art is like reality, but there is a gap between it and reality. Every family has its own sutras that are difficult to recite, and every sutra is different.
A realistic novel. When you face middle age, you will encounter problems that must be solved.
It's interesting to see the shortcomings of parents
By describing the separation and reunification of three families, starting from the issue of elder care, reflecting each person's personality from his or her original family, and then combining it with the small family they formed, the family eventually fell apart due to the issue of elder care, and also because of some brotherhood and sisterhood, which eventually gradually resolved. There is a suitable way to deal with the issue of elder care. I think it still has certain reference significance for the current social phenomenon.
Describing objective reality, it is really difficult to reconcile the increasing number of elderly care problems. It is a difficult and difficult social problem to reconcile for both the caregivers and the caregivers from all aspects.
It is true that every family has its own scriptures that are difficult to recite. Fortunately, the ending is a relief. In fact, every child is filial, but they each have their own life. When you are old, don't always feel that your children owe you. The true meaning is to live the rest of your life and find the happiness you want.
Close to life, just a little worrying
Real and objective, it can make people have the desire to continue to look down.
The writing is good, relatively close to real life, the weakness of human nature is vividly portrayed, and the final ending is happy for everyone, which is what I like.
This novel is very realistic, like it! It is not easy for the elderly to have their own difficulties, and children have their own difficulties! Let's understand each other!
I still have more to say. The psychological states of the male and female characters are so realistically described. In the past, I only thought about myself. This time, after reading the book, I also looked at the feelings of the other person based on the descriptions in the book. I feel that life is very interesting and I have some reference and planning for my future retirement.
This is a very realistic and informative book. I stayed up all night and two days to read it. Life is not perfect. If you truly love and care about each other through adversity, you will eventually find a good way to get along with each other, and the results will not be bad. Except those who can't get out. In a word, only after experiencing hardship can you experience the beauty of sweetness. Even if it is a little bit good, you can taste extremely sweet!
Very realistic! What do you mean by chicken feathers on the ground, that's it!
The three families face different family problems. In the final analysis, it is a question of how parents provide for their elderly. It gives readers a lot of thinking and inspiration, and more importantly, they face the helplessness of various family relationships. The young couple in the story basically have no problems, but problems arise when they have a relationship with their parents. It's so realistic and worth watching.