Whose Struggle Does Not Hurt?

It's a bit of a pity, because the love between Okawa and the author is very touching. I believed that they were happy and in love, but that changed later. Thinking about myself, I don't like the people I liked before in this life now, and I don't cherish or like the people who love me. It's actually very painful to be with someone who doesn't understand me, my popularity, and my popularity. I often quarrel, and I have a premonition that we will get divorced. I'm thinking that if the author and Okawa had children, they wouldn't get divorced. If they start a business, they will succeed, the author can continue to study and write, and their children will be excellent and happy.

This book supplements "My Suffering, My University" about the author's emotional life, allowing me to better understand how a striver faces emotions. To be honest, this book shocked me a lot. First, the author overcame so many hardships one after another. That kind of perseverance is very rare. Second, the author failed to grasp his marriage even though he faced so many hardships, which made me think more about marriage. This book does not praise suffering, but conveys to people the courage to face suffering.

This book moved me very much. The author's story reminded me of the days when I struggled. As the book says, "At the lowest point in her life, she was also in despair, but she always reluctantly believed that there must be a better future waiting for me ahead!" I have also had a similar experience. In the face of difficulties, we must maintain firm faith, keep working hard, and believe that the future will be better. This is a powerful book and worth reading.

After reading this book completely, first of all, the author's growth experience and struggle gave me great inspiration. No matter how bad the environment is, we must survive in the cracks. Most people are ordinary people, and there is always a generation that needs to work hard. Secondly, the two husbands in the author's life can be said to be noble people in her life. The first husband took her out of the small mountain village, and the second husband took her out of the country. Finally, I want to say that although the author always says that she is impatient, we can see her kindness, tenacity, and integrity.

If the age of the author in the work is true, we are the same age. I was born on the 15th day of the ninth month of the lunar calendar. It is said that men are afraid of the first day of the lunar month and women are afraid of the 15th day of the lunar month. They are tough-minded people. The author is "Empress Ming". After many hardships, she succeeded. Bless her! I have experienced ups and downs, but I am much better off than the author. Compared with the author, I am lucky. The process of studying was bumpy. After graduating from college, everything got much better, but my marriage was not going well. I struggled for many years. Although it is not satisfactory now, I am out of the original marriage dilemma. I can live as I want and relax. It is already good. I hope the future will be promising!

The previous book was a bit vague about the emotional part, so I came to read this book to find out the answer. I saw many people in the comment area were angry for Okawa, but I think from the author's standpoint, she did nothing wrong. Everyone has the right to pursue happiness, and the author is very realistic. The more people have experienced bitterness, the better they know what sweetness feels like. The economic base determines the superstructure. When the living levels of the author and Okawa slowly change, the feelings no longer exist. The author's experience is a history of successful struggle and a role model for women!

It's not bad. It has some overlap with the content of the first book "My Misery and My University". I chose to watch the emotional part. Equally attractive. Such good books are rare and I hope more people can read them.

The economic base determines the superstructure, so you should work hard when you are young! The author and Chuan are very similar to my husband and I now. The difference is that we have children, and I don't have the author's hard work and perseverance.

Very real feelings, the front is a history of struggle, this book supplements the emotional journey, I actually read them all, I am really sorry for Okawa, I can only say that we are destined to have no destiny, the choices we make when we are young will be different from the choices we make later. Only through experience can we understand. In fact, what girls want is not necessarily wealth, but someone who can lean on their shoulders! My first love was mentally immature, but I was very lucky. He was a kind person. He was not bad, and he did not cheat. He just became a monk in the end. He actually played a female role in the relationship, just like Jia Baoyu, who did not stay with the person he liked and finally chose to become a monk!

After reading it, after reading it, when a writer finishes writing a work, he may say: It's finished, it's finally finished. Although she is not the best, she has finished it. To create a work, yes, the creation, from seed to sprout, to sapling, to growing up, has cost the author everything, and also exhausted the author's hard work and energy! This work is very heart-wrenching to watch. Yes, as the author writes in the article: Others praise her for being good at writing about psychological activities and the psychology of characters. A phone call came and my thoughts were interrupted. The work is very heart-wrenching to watch, and I am drawn into the work. Lament of Life, this is a very good work, it is sincere and truly shows the road of life in front of you. More about thinking, thinking! Thank you to the author, Zhao Meiping

After all the hardships, there is finally a happy ending. The author worked very hard. Her childhood and teenage years are the epitome of many children living in the suffering rural areas. Before the 1990s, it was really difficult for most rural people, especially women.

Authentic, brave, open-minded, without any pretense. Okawa is a good man Okawa is a good man,

The author must be a person with stories. He cannot write such a deeply emotional novel without his own deeply felt experiences. My eyes are red from crying. I love you too, and I can understand you, because I also feel some of the feelings.

After reading this book, I feel that Zhao Meiping is really hard on herself. Sure enough, a person cannot succeed casually. She makes me feel that I am too comfortable and comfortable and give up on myself too easily. I admire her unyielding mental state and I am inspired by it. I am also from a rural area. Why can't I make myself better through my own efforts? It is because I am not hard on myself and hesitate to do things. Teacher Zhao Meiping is really decisive.

Regarding the divorce between the author and Chuan, I don't think it is right or wrong. Maybe from Chuan's point of view, divorce is too cruel for him, but have you ever thought about the author's reasons for leaving her home, her parents, and her second hometown? Since her biological father passed away After the marriage, the three of them, mother and daughter, were forced to leave their hometown and live with their stepfather. Although his stepfather was a kind man, he was also very cold and ruthless. The previously gentle mother was also forced by life to become a woman like other village women. In addition, after their mother and daughter arrived here, the author In order to reduce the pressure on her stepfather, she changed from an excellent student to a quarrying girl. She struggled first, and then became desperate and helpless. She always hoped that she could have a warm and loving family that she could rely on and dote on her. So when she first saw Chuan, she thought he was a kind, stable person. A serious and considerate person, she developed a crush on him, but they were both too young when they were together. Maybe the author was a little softer, and Chuan tried to be more gentle. After all the things were used up, all the filters of the author's crush on Chuan disappeared. When the author liked Chuan, Chuan did not like her. When the author no longer liked Chuan, Chuan fell in love with her. She was destined to never go back, so the author felt that there was no need to persist in this marriage. Although Although this is a bit cruel to Chuan, he is also a pitiful person, but please don't forget the reason why the author is so desperate. She wants to get ahead and change her destiny. Here I feel that the author's biological father has a deep influence on the author. She may have been longing for it. She wanted to have a warm family when her father was alive, and at the same time, this family had to be a safe haven for her, with someone who loved her, doted on her, and cared for her. It was a pity that Chuan could not give her this kind of family. Chuan kept saying that he did not do well and that he failed to take on the responsibilities of a husband, but he just didn't. Change, even if he wanted to change, the author didn't want to give him this opportunity, because it was too late, so I hope that as readers, we would not say that the author is an ungrateful and cruel person. I think the author has the qualifications to pursue her own happiness and end her unhappy marriage.

I really admire the author's great sincerity and bravery. I feel that reading the emotional history of "Whose Struggle Does Not Hurt" is the most beneficial to me. (I first found out about this book after seeing "My Suffering, My University" in the recommendation. In fact, When I finished reading the previous book, I realized that there seemed to be too little in terms of emotions, so I read "Whose Struggle Does Not Hurt" with an almost thirst for knowledge) Because I am a person who really knows nothing about emotions. After reading the author's Careful description can be regarded as a cultivation of my emotions. I always like to pursue the best, but in fact, I am not the best, so I often feel inferior and lost in life. I don't even dare to admit that I am what I am now, and I dare not say anything about myself to others. However, the author can write the truest side of himself and let many people see it. It is really amazing. I deeply respect you and hope that you will always be happy in the future!

It embodies the perseverance of those born in the 1970s, who is strong and diligent. I most admire Meiping's journey of breaking stones in the quarry. Her unyielding determination allows her to break through step by step and make her life rich and colorful through her continuous efforts. I wish Meiping always healthy, safe and happy.

Teacher Zhao Meiping's language organization and expression are like knitting sweaters, knitting exquisite sweaters one after another, sparkling and making people love them. I read her book My Misery and My University, and then came in to read this book.

I'm curious if Okawa read this book by the author in those years

I saw the difficulty of the author, and at the same time I learned the spirit of perseverance from the author. No matter what state you are in, you must be self-reliant and self-reliant and work hard! All good things will happen unexpectedly!

It is not only a history of blood and tears of personal growth, but also a history of perseverance and constant climbing for ideals. The author brings us a different bright color, inspiring and thought-provoking!

The author and I are of the same age, and my childhood was dozens of times better than the author's. However, work and life later became increasingly difficult! If I could have read this book in 2005, maybe my life would have changed. Even if I just read this book now, I would like to thank the author. She made me understand a lot of truths. She will accompany me for the rest of my life. I would like to thank the author for using his story to touch many people. This is the best book I have ever read! !

Although the author suffered a lot, she did not succumb to fate. Through her unremitting efforts, she continued to strive for self-improvement and fought hard. It is worth learning! She succeeded in the end and became a master, which is great! [Like][Like][Like]

Compared with the previous version, this version contains more detailed descriptions of the author's emotions. It reads more realistically, and the characters are more vivid, more life-like, and more down-to-earth. Like it very much! I like the author's writing style and rendering of the environment. Every word is precious. I'm ready to read it again. Carefully filter through it word by word...

The candid and delicate writing, the constant struggle for self-improvement, and the turbulent destiny finally ushered in the moment when the sun shines. I am really happy for the author.

As the author said, the ending is a bit rushed, and I still want to see some details. . . However, the narration of my experiences in the first half of my life was very exciting and touching. I couldn't help crying several times. It was very touching. Only real experiences can move people.

The author's writing is smooth, and the suffering life experience did not crush the protagonist. Suffering and tempering became the author's motivation to work hard. The author grew up in the suffering and achieved himself in the suffering. The author gained a career and ultimately a happy life from a "working girl" who graduated from elementary school, and became a winner in life!

I only read this article after reading My Misery, My College. Although there are many overlaps with My Misery, My College, the author's writing style is still very beautiful and the content is more detailed. The most regrettable thing is that the author divorced Chuan, and the relationship between the two childhood sweethearts gradually faded due to long-term separation, which is regrettable.

Suffering some hardships in childhood can really lay a huge spiritual wealth for life. At the age of 43, I am going through the biggest disaster in my life. I can only hide myself in books all day long to survive these seemingly beautiful days day after day.

Listened to Chapter 3 on 2024.9.26 After reading "My Misery, My University", I found that the third chapter was not in the book, so I listened to the third chapter alone. I have to say that the author's writing style is really good, and he vividly describes the mood of a girl's first love.