Be Independent First, Love Later

Although I have never been in love, I have heard many stories and some truths, and I actually understand them. Now I am 24 years old, and I have not found the person I love yet, so I am independent and just insist on loving myself.

There are many good opinions from experienced people, which are worth taking a look at, especially girls. Girls are more emotional and tend to get caught up in the emotional web and struggle to get out. I hope all female friends can find that they love themselves, and only those who love themselves can love others.

This book truly reflects the various difficulties faced by modern women. The author's writing is sharp and delicate, like a caring friend, giving you advice and guidance. The characters in the book have different personalities and experiences, but they are all relatable. I think this is not only a book about growth and love, but also a book that allows women to find themselves and become more independent. Worth reading!

This book uses many stories and examples to illustrate why you should love yourself well. Many of the stories are wonderful and true. Anyway, it just makes people want to listen to it all the time. I personally like to watch it [Like]

This book really inspired me a lot when I was in the confused period of my twenties. Whether it was how to choose a partner, how to manage love, or what values ​​and attitudes women should use in life to deal with their relationship with others and their career, many of the ideas in this book enlightened me. Especially when I read that my colleagues at work always leave her work to me, for me, a newcomer, I have indeed encountered this problem recently, and it is indeed very distressing. However, a sentence in the book "If a job, a marriage, and a life require you to endure a lot of grievances and tears to continue, then is there any point in continuing such a life?" It instantly woke me up! This book is a very practical book for women to grow up! Whether it is in marriage and mate selection, or in work and life, many of the views in this book can give me a lot of inspiration.

This book is really good and I like it very much. It is a woman's true thoughts and expresses the aspirations of contemporary female friends. @PUSH It really deserves a very good book @This book is so wonderful

I think it's pretty good. Many opinions have helped me, and I agree with many of them. But I'm a little uncomfortable with the marriage perspective. In most of the books on female independence that I have read, when it comes to marriage, there are always those who suffer from the anger from their husbands and accept it, and feel that it is great to endure it. I agree that it is amazing and has great patience. But I can accept being angry once or twice, not too many times. If I feel uncomfortable, I have to solve it. To solve it, I have to let the other party know, that is, communicate, communicate well, and communicate more. Since as a wife, I feel offended, of course I will also feel offended as someone with other identities, and I should change. I may not necessarily be able to choose a very polite, tolerant, and gentle person as my partner, but I will definitely get along well with each other during our relationship before deciding to get married and have children. How can I take care of my children if I can't control my own emotions? If I make a mistake, I have to apologize instead of defaulting to changing the situation in my mind. We can't read minds, so how can we be sure that the other person has the same thoughts as me and has changed the situation! Apologizing is also a way to get closer, depending on how you use it.

Every short story written by the author has its own reason. No matter at which stage, the power of women is always strong. I love the author's writing style and hope to share my own story with the author!

I really like the analysis of the concept of love in it. Girls still have infinite possibilities without marriage. Marriage is just the icing on the cake. There is no need to change one's mind because of the outside world. Everything should go as per your heart.

A very good book! Girls must love themselves first, and keep away from all the people and things they have wronged. Live your whole life, live your own splendor and beauty, and do not accommodate those meaningless people and things.

Let yourself wake up from the confusion!

Thanks to the teacher for his work, I am that person who is 3% enthusiastic but doesn't persist. Quite ashamed. I want to do something well, but I don't have the determination to do it. Hold on for a few days. It's ruined. I benefited a lot from reading the article, and I gradually realized the problem of my own mentality.

When reading this book, I felt like I was having a conversation with myself, re-examining myself, and felt suddenly enlightened. Everything in the past was nothing more than that. The memory that used to hurt me over and over again, now I feel like it's nothing.

Maybe I have also experienced failed love and failed marriage, so I can empathize with it and still look forward to the arrival of a better life!

Through many cases and the author's own experience, he tells girls what love is and how to identify good boys. How to avoid some problems. It is king for girls to be self-reliant and self-reliant, and career should come first.

The story is very good and the cases are close to life. The end is in place. Highly practical

A bit touching, but quite satisfactory.

Add it to the bookshelf first and show it to my 18-year-old daughter when I get the chance.

It's very real and can help you see a lot of things clearly.

I've read a third of it. It's suitable for accumulating love experience. It teaches women how to love themselves. There are many beautiful faces in the book. I recommend all girls to read it.

This book is super good-looking. The real things made me feel different in my heart. There are many suggestions. I like it very much, especially recommend it to female friends

There are many classic beautiful sentences and profound relationships between men and women. The analysis of the relationship between the sexes is very objective and suitable for female friends. It is also a good book for spiritual salvation.

I have benefited a lot, thank you author.

Real and objective, super nice

Good-looking, really good-looking, super good-looking

Simple and clear, you can understand it at a glance Really inspired us

Super beautiful, super beautiful

It looks so good, I can't stop supporting it.

Beautiful, so true.

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