The good-looking and highly educated campus goddess Ye Zhiying returned to China after studying abroad at the age of 25. Like many modern highly educated women, she began to plan her marriage as a career plan, actively looking for an ideal life partner with both spiritual and material qualities. She is smart and beautiful, tough and rational, but after experiencing ups and downs in the real mate selection market, she gradually realizes the reality and cruelty of the mate selection problem, and the complexity and preciousness of emotions.
In the past ten years, she has met ten different men, experienced different emotional lives in different relationships, enjoyed sweetness and pain, and gained reflection and growth. The five male protagonists include a top student who falls in love on campus, a second-generation rich man who falls in love at first sight, a third-generation official with a perfectionist tendency, a diamond man with a net worth of tens of billions, and an affordable man who has been unable to fall in love for a long time. There are also five supporting male characters, including a feudal man who wants to have a boy, a greasy man who wants to reduce his dimensions and attack his schoolgirl, a Phoenix man who comes from a poor family, a scumbag who frequently goes on blind dates, and a snobbish man who uses the woman's conditions as a springboard for life.
Each relationship of the heroine shows the warmth and coldness of the human world in the mate selection market, but she also carries out calm, rational, realistic and profound thinking. In the end, her experience is compiled into a mate selection apocalypse for contemporary Sex and the City girls. I hope to bring real thinking and inspiration to readers about marriage and love.
Reader comments
After reading it, I felt deeply. When I was 23, I thought it was difficult to find a partner. Now I am 25 and I just experienced a breakup last month. I really feel that it is really difficult to find a partner, and I feel anxious and confused about the future. I am looking forward to marriage, and I feel very happy to be married and have a family of my own. However, in reality, it is really difficult to find a boy with similar interests and different personality. Maybe it is because I have little contact with him. My family also introduced me to a very suitable boy, but I just didn't feel for him. Just like the book says, you have to appreciate him from the bottom of your heart. I really appreciate my first love from the bottom of my heart. I like him very much, but we are in a different country. I am already working and he is still in school. Although the two of us get along very well, the time when we met was not right. Due to practical reasons, we still broke up, and I felt regretful and reluctant to let go. But in this relationship, I also experienced the feeling of liking, and I understood what kind of boy I want to find as my future partner, hahahaha. Even if I can't meet the one I like, I don't want to marry a boy I don't like just because I'm older. Marriage is not a task, happiness is. It is really said very well.
I read it in one sitting in one day. The author writes wonderfully. The content is also very touching. As a senior sister, I regret that I only read this book at this age.
The stories in the book are thought-provoking and the plot is coherent. I am still unsatisfied after reading it. I would like to thank the author for his efforts [top post]
After reading it, I felt deeply. When I was 23, I thought it was difficult to find a partner. Now I am 25 and I just experienced a breakup last month. I really feel that it is really difficult to find a partner, and I feel anxious and confused about the future. I am looking forward to marriage, and I feel very happy to be married and have a family of my own. However, in reality, it is really difficult to find a boy with similar interests and different personality. Maybe it is because I have little contact with him. My family also introduced me to a very suitable boy, but I just didn't feel for him. Just like the book says, you have to appreciate him from the bottom of your heart. I really appreciate my first love from the bottom of my heart. I like him very much, but we are in a different country. I am already working and he is still in school. Although the two of us get along very well, the time when we met was not right. Due to practical reasons, we still broke up, and I felt regretful and reluctant to let go. But in this relationship, I also experienced the feeling of liking, and I understood what kind of boy I want to find as my future partner, hahahaha. Even if I can't meet the one I like, I don't want to marry a boy I don't like just because I'm older. Marriage is not a task, happiness is. It is really said very well.
I read it in one sitting in one day. The author writes wonderfully. The content is also very touching. As a senior sister, I regret that I only read this book at this age.
The stories in the book are thought-provoking and the plot is coherent. I am still unsatisfied after reading it. I would like to thank the author for his efforts [top post]