Wake up *********************

Although the author exaggerates the theory of reincarnation, I think the causal relationship based on human nature, status and emotion is even stronger. 1. Chao Yuan and Ji: The deterioration of affection in the change of status Chao Yuan was poor in his early years, but became prosperous with the help of the Ji family. Earlier, Chao Yuan obeyed the Ji family's words because of the help of the Ji family. I think on the one hand, he may be a lower level in his heart because of the help of the Ji family, on the other hand, he may be a newlywed. But as the Chao family gradually developed, the change in status brought about changes in mentality. Of course, this does not absolve Chao Yuan and his son. From a human perspective, Chao Yuan's changes towards Ji happened quietly under the premise of unequal respect. This is cause and effect. Ji's "beating and scolding" became the catalyst, but the real root cause is the "inferior" past that Chao Yuan always wanted to erase. 2. Di Xichen and Sister Su: The general outbreak of resentment under oppression Di Xichen, it's really hard to describe in one word. In today's terms, he is a scumbag. The parents of both families forced Sister Su to marry her regardless of whether she wanted to or not. You can imagine the unwillingness in Sister Su's heart. This is the first point. On the wedding day, she sang a pleasant yellow tune. Under Sister Su's strong dissatisfaction, no one in the Di family defended Sister Su, and this resentment was sown. Di Xichen's various immoral, cowardly and unbearable behaviors after marriage continued to add weight to this resentment. Sister Su's outburst is a long and desperate revenge against the entire unfair order and failed husband. There is a reason for all this. Whether it is Chao Yuan and Ji, or Di Xichen and Sister Su, their tragedies are not retribution from heaven. Two marriages, two tragedies, but they all point to the same cruel truth: under a kind of structural inequality, any initial "cause" - whether it is kindness or coercion - may bear twisted and painful "results". The opening poem of the ninety-third chapter, "Practice does not have to leave home, the only thing is to have the right thoughts." It is like a ray of light that illuminates the root cause of all distortions of cause and effect, which are all caused by the wrong thoughts in the mind. The warmth and warmth of human relationships and the cycle of cause and effect in the book make me have mixed feelings when I read it.

I especially like the portrayal of the characters in the book, they feel as real as the people around me. As a father of two children, I can also learn a lot of family education inspiration from books. This book is like a mirror, allowing people to reflect on their own lives. I recommend you read it, you will definitely gain something!

The author should be a scholar who was not born in Shandong. He wrote about the cycle of cause and effect and the unhappiness of retribution. It was meant to be preachy, but the slang in it was interesting.