This book is the first full-length new work by the famous writer Liang Xiaosheng after winning the Mao Dun Literature Award. Taking the fate of an abandoned girl from a mountainous area in Guizhou to work in Shenzhen as the main line, it writes about Guizhou's poverty alleviation process and also writes about the changes in Shenzhen over the past 40 years of reform and opening up. The novel continues the combination of realism and idealism that Liang Xiaosheng is good at. It focuses on ordinary people in the grassroots society and cuts in from the perspective of family ties. It strives to expand the width of society, the thickness of the times and the depth of human nature. It writes about the fetters of family ties and poverty alleviation, friendship companionship and friendship dilemmas, as well as the sweetness and troubles of love. The main tone of the novel is positive struggle, and the view of human nature is also warm and kind. "Fate" not only represents the sense of dignity that life is supreme, but also represents the awareness of change that requires hard work despite the difficulties of destiny.
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I like Liang Xiaosheng's works. They are all based on reality and have positive energy. There is no brainless and illogical word showmanship or word stacking here. Worth reading again and again, the content is profound and true. I like the realism of his protagonists.
Looking back at the story, the poor rural areas of Guizhou are influenced by the traditional thinking of favoring sons over daughters. Poor families have no sons and feel that they have no incense. I was also born in a rural family born in the 1980s. Similarly, parents are also influenced by the idea of raising children to protect themselves from old age. They believe that boys will continue their family life and are the hope of the family. Growing up, my biggest wish in this life was to be a boy. Luckily I wasn't abandoned. It can be imagined that Fang Wanzhi was lucky enough to be adopted. Her loving adoptive parents gave her a direction in life. She developed literary literacy at an early age, had a good education, and had a very correct outlook on life. I like her flesh and blood, her backbone, her honesty, her kindness, her talent and authenticity. The inescapable fact that gods are born into parents' families, and the human nature of poor relatives, break down and flee when they learn that their adoptive parents are not their biological parents, and they are at a loss what to do. Every choice and practice is very real, the working life and the inner world are real.
Fang Wanzhi grew up, worked hard to make a living with her good sisters, reconciled with poor relatives in her original family, put aside misunderstandings with her adoptive father, and reconciled. Because of his talent and learning, he met his true love Gao Xiang and was very discerning. I live a life that is neither humble nor arrogant. I have the final say in my life. I am a person who does not live in the secular world and is not limited by money from the outside world. I have to say that if you study more, you will have more opportunities, more benefits, and a clearer life. This is what girls have to do.
Life is filled with nothing but fame, wealth, and glitz. We are too easily blinded by illusions. Come to the world, rely on luck, rely on chance, many things in life are meaningless, just live your life the way you like.
I like Fang Wanzhi, Gao Xiang, Li Juan, adoptive parents, Zhang Jiagui, eldest sister He Xiaoqin, Yang Hui, Mr. Geng, these fresh, kind and hard-working lives. They are the epitome of an era.
It's really well written. Seeing Teacher Liang's efforts and the inspirational feelings of a realistic novel writer who is concerned about the country and the people, although I can't write such a work in this life, it is not a blessing to read such a book. Be grateful that this world has given us so much.
What a great book! A book of life! After reading it, I felt deeply true, warm, sober and optimistic... The book contains the most rational and wise understanding of individual "life": "Humans have three lives - The first is given by parents, which determines what kind of family a person is born into and what kind of genes he has, which is called destiny; the second is determined by one's own experience in life, which is called real destiny. Life, life, also refers to the concept of right and wrong that a person adheres to in life, which is a combination of the relationship between life and destiny; the third is given by culture, which is called self-cultivation..."; Very seriously. The same author's point of view of "Whenever something happens to you, you should look for the reasons within yourself... This way... You can face the reality calmly..."; And "I am ordinary, I am ordinary, I am a serious person, I am persevering enough... I tolerate... I forgive... I am me...", Which is more worthy of practice in each of our lives.
"Many years later, I will still dream about this mountain road. It winds like an unsolved puzzle, one end is connected to the world outside the mountain, and the other end is hidden in the depths of the clouds." "The village located in the clouds has a nice name, called Shenxianding." When this narration in the first episode of the TV series "My Mountain and the Sea" was narrated, the book "Me and My Life" suddenly opened in front of me. Ah, how nice! I like Liu Jinsong's performance and the ending theme of the TV series:
When I was young, I always watched you bend down
Just like the earth is silent but carries the mountains on its back
You use your silent footsteps to move forward
Responding to the equally silent starry sky above our heads
You use your journey that never stops
Answer the second hand that never stops in life
You use the immortal fire in your heart
Warm response to the everlasting sound of wind and rain along the road
When I grow up, I will learn how to bend down like you
Only then did I understand how difficult and painful it was for you at that time
Only then did I realize that everyone in the world uses
Each shoulder carries its own mountain peak
I'm facing the wind and walking through the turbulent time
Singing songs all the way to repay the teasing of impermanence
Maybe in the next dawn sky
I climbed over the mountain and saw the infinity of the waves.
You said people should be loyal to their hearts
Burn this life to keep love intact
A lucky thought leads to ups and downs in the journey
Only by walking step by step can we hold the dream in our hands
You said that people should be sincere about the road they step on
Under the scars, time is growing toughness
Destiny favors those who carry mountains on their backs
The clumsiest steps will eventually cross the highest mountain
Let the long wind and frost reflect the rainbow
From a solitary lamp to the neon lights of the galaxy
The mountains and the sea meet in the clear sky
We will eventually embrace the sea of people
...
This song is "My Mountain and Sea" and "Me and My Life"!
After watching the TV series My Mountains and Seas, the emotions in the novel are more delicate. The principal's mother told Fang Wanzhi "Three Lives". After reading it, my mind jumped and I thought about my own affairs, and I blushed at my "empty appearance". Thank you to the author! Show me great stories
After reading the classics of famous people, I realized what it means to learn without end, and what it means to live and learn. I really like the description of this article, the material selection of the article is realistic, and the plot is clearly organized. I plan to read it again and again in order to learn from it!
2026.7.19 Listen and read
"The essence of human beings is the sum of all social relationships." The distance between people is not defined by the distance of blood.
A girl who was abandoned for adoption due to policy restrictions was fortunate enough to be adopted by adoptive parents with a family background and culture, and grew up to be a diligent, down-to-earth and pragmatic person. She was unfortunate because she was cut off from any blood ties since she was born, but she was lucky enough to grow up in the care of her adoptive parents. After entering society, most of the people I meet are kind-hearted people, and the biggest hardships I experience are caused by blood relatives.
My favorite is Li Juan, who is tough, kind and has strong vitality. The protagonist Fang Wanzhi has too many monologues in the book, which affects the perception. The best two paragraphs are about Wanzhi's mental immaturity when she was young and everything can be expected, and the years of hard work with Li Juan in Shenzhen. Too much preaching is the fault of the novel, which is not as good as the author's previous "There's a Blizzard Tonight". But the concept conveyed in the book is right. Being an ordinary but not mediocre good person is the best education.
"My Life and Me" tells the life story of Fang Wanzhi, an abandoned girl from Guizhou: she was born in a poor mountainous area and was abandoned by her native family because she was a girl. She was later adopted by Linjiang Mayor Meng Siyuan and principal Fang Jingyu. She grew up in a privileged intellectual family and received a good education. When her adoptive mother died of illness during her sophomore year, Fang Wanzhi unexpectedly learned of her life as an abandoned baby. Her native relatives continued to seek coercion in the name of family affection, and her first love boyfriend left her because of this. In addition, her adoptive father planned to remarry. Under multiple blows, she dropped out of school and went to Shenzhen to work hard. She started out as a cook on a construction site and a working girl at the bottom. She experienced the wave of reform and opening up, started a business in the city, and gained sincere friendship and love. Fang Wanzhi was unfortunately diagnosed with cancer when she was less than 40 years old. After experiencing the pain and suffering, she never gave up. Instead, she founded a community for patients and edited anti-cancer books. She transformed from a victim of fate to a warm helper. She finally accepted ordinary life, adhered to her kind heart, and completed her spiritual redemption. The protagonist Fang Wanzhi combines the toughness endowed by a lower-class background and the upbringing nourished by an intellectual family. She is the true epitome of ordinary women in the tide of the times; her lover Gao Xiang is sober, transparent, rational and open-minded, and always respects and supports all Fang Wanzhi's choices. From Fang Wanzhi's life experiences, we have a profound understanding: destiny and destiny are both backgrounds, and the ultimate destination in life is to cultivate one's own destiny and live out one's true heart.
The authenticity is average, some of the storylines are more realistic, and some are very false.
The protagonist's journey of struggle is a little too smooth. I don't think that only tragic stories like Fugui, Songgang and Songfanping can be called close to reality. These are the two extremes of today's literary works, which over-beautify life and indulge in praising pain. There are very few works that can describe what ordinary people should look like and how they should live. Such works are the ones that can truly bring us strength and courage.
But it is very philosophical, such as various dialogue descriptions and psychological descriptions. The content is profound and unique, and the meaning is profound, which shows the author's far-sighted thinking and literary skills. Generally speaking, it is thought-provoking and rewarding.
You cannot choose your origin, but you can control the direction of your destiny. You must be tenacious, rational, supportive, and successful for others. Although ordinary and imperfect, be a kind person and live a happy life [blowing kiss]
"My Life and Me" is a thought-provoking novel that portrays the reality of human nature, including good and bad, happiness and misfortune. It also reveals the meaning of life. No matter what life you face, you must maintain a normal mindᥫ᭡
Accept your own ordinaryness and ordinaryness, be grateful to the people and things you encounter now, take the responsibility of your own life, and still smile at life despite the uncertainties in the world [Love]
Mr. Liang's Gao Xiang is a very rational person, he is knowledgeable about things and is unsophisticated, and he has a thorough and thorough analysis of human nature. Juan is affectionate and righteous, and she is beautiful in life and work. I envy the heroine to have such a best friend. The end of the novel leaves people with many conjectures. It is up to the benevolent to imagine... In the end, the heroine also became a good person as her adoptive parents expected, and she was also ordinary and ordinary. People are the sum total of social relationships. The vast majority of people are ordinary and ordinary. They should not feel inferior because of being ordinary and ordinary. They should not be lazy because of being ordinary, nor should they lose their heart to the sunshine because of being ordinary.
After reading the whole book, it was okay, but the final ending was not acceptable. In addition, I prefer the first half of the book. The plot is compact and full of twists and turns. The last two chapters were written a bit hastily, many details were skipped over, and the plot was a bit incoherent.
The book frequently mentions that "human essence is the sum of all social relationships." Everyone is an independent individual, but is always affected by a family. Only by improving our own cognitive level can each of us live a good life.
Liang's novels focus on the lives of ordinary people and are very down-to-earth. I like his works, and I also like the vivid and vital characters created in the books, as well as their tenacity, kindness and beautiful qualities in life.
How to repay kindness with kindness? People are the sum of social relations. The feelings of family and country are what every ordinary person should have. Only when there is a country can there be a family, and only when there is a family can there be love. The author's psychological description is very good, a good work, worth reading!
I heard that it will be made into a film and TV show, so let's watch the original work first. Good
Fang Wanzhi is too affectionate and righteous, but society is different now. Good people are not rewarded well. Only people in the 1980s and 1990s were so prosperous. Her best choice was to cut herself off from the family who abandoned her
A person can maintain a little bit of the nobility and dignity of being a human being in such a world, because we still have ideas, not because we are very hardworking. She obviously had a good hand that others thought was particularly good, and she could obviously get everything easier and better by taking shortcuts, but she chose to make her own way on her own. Facing her biological parents who abandoned her, she did everything that many children today cannot do. Too many human evils started when she first learned that she was adopted and went back to her biological parents' village to give her money. The frequent interruptions in that village led her to choose another more difficult path. Fortunately, he did not give up on herself and worked hard to live. Perhaps it was because of her kindness and unyielding character that she met sisters and like-minded partners who depended on her for life and death. She has always been ordinary and ordinary like most of us, but she also accepts ordinary and ordinary. The article ends with her illness, giving people more daydreams, hoping that there will be a miracle, and that those who love her will have a place to continue to carry love.
Since being ordinary is destined to be my destiny, I am willing to live in peace with my destiny and spend my life in an ordinary way. All my efforts and hard work are not to transcend the ordinary, but to stabilize the ordinary and strive to live a little taste of ordinary life in the stability. Being ordinary is not a mistake, being ordinary is not a sin, everyone's life is just a phenomenon of life, as long as you like your phenomenon of life, mother will be happy for you. "I don't feel inferior because of being ordinary, because I have never been lazy because of being ordinary, and I have never lost my desire to be sunny because of being ordinary.
Respect the destiny, expand the real destiny, be calm with the destiny, always have a ruler in your heart to measure right and wrong, and measure the big and wrong. If you want to wear a crown, you must bear its weight. There are many complexities in the world, keep your mind pure. Once the hell is close, let nature take its course.
An empowering book. In an era of material scarcity, the birth of a third girl is undoubtedly hopeless for the ordinary family in Shenxianding. I was abandoned at birth, and despite all the twists and turns, my life is still closely linked to the Fairy Peak. Fortunately, my mother Fang gave me the strength to grow, and I am as strong as the little flowers and grass on the Fairy Peak.
The protagonist in the book has gone through many difficulties, but she never gave up, which I admire very much. Moreover, I feel that the characters in the book are very real, and their stories resonate with me. I love this book, it opened my eyes to all kinds of possibilities in life.
"Can't stop" is the best way to describe my feeling when reading this book. I am a pessimist and believe that life is miserable. In life, on TV and in books, the bitterness of life can be felt everywhere. This book made me re-examine my outlook on life. Fang Wanzhi, a protagonist who is alternately entangled with misfortune and luck but is open-minded and optimistic. With her vision and mind, for the first time, I can see the sweetness gifted by fate without focusing on the bitterness in life.
The language is beautiful, the plot is touching, and the characters are down-to-earth, making it easy to read in one sitting.
The author is so smart and writes so well about his own experiences! Everyone has their own ups and downs, but you can't write them down. The author's writing is genuine and profound! Tell me to love watching and listening! So well written!
I started watching it yesterday morning and finished it today. I really read it in one sitting. Don't want to stop. There are some things we can't change, but there are some things we can control. We can choose what kind of person to be and how to live our life. We should not always look at the things we cannot change, but work hard to do the things we can change. No one's life can be smooth sailing. No one's life is perfect and infallible. So don't worry. Come again if you make a mistake. Solve problems when you encounter them. Life is a process of continuous growth. The good and the bad are all training.
It's really good, but I don't think it's very good. Some parts are touching, some are too peaceful, and some are too simple. Some jump and turn too much. Overall not bad.
"Change" is really good at controlling emotions, and I can't slow down. Every time I read a book, I rush to finish it, but I feel very disappointed after reading it. A few pages of the book have completed some people's lives. Back then, Mingyue said that no matter how powerful a person is, they are just a few pages, and they will be gone with just one flip.
A very profitable book! A girl from a noble family can look straight at her life, be able to bend and stretch, without lamenting, unwillingness, or humiliation. Instead, she straightens her back and lives her life, earns her own living, and behaves rationally! Learned a lot! An inspirational book worth checking out! I want to memorize some passages! [Like][Like][Like]
What is destiny? I thought about it carefully but couldn't think of it. I particularly like Mother Fang's concept of "destiny, real destiny, and destiny cultivation". There are indeed many things in a person's birth that cannot be controlled by oneself, but they are also completely controlled by oneself. Being an ordinary good person is simply the best destiny. Have love and then grow wantonly.
It is thought-provoking and the story has a rigorous structure. It is worthy of being a masterpiece!
I like Liang Xiaosheng's works. They are all based on reality and have positive energy. There is no brainless and illogical word showmanship or word stacking here. Worth reading again and again, the content is profound and true. I like the realism of his protagonists. Looking back at the story, the poor rural areas of Guizhou are influenced by the traditional thinking of favoring sons over daughters. Poor families have no sons and feel that they have no incense. I was also born in a rural family born in the 1980s. Similarly, parents are also influenced by the idea of raising children to protect themselves from old age. They believe that boys will continue their family life and are the hope of the family. Growing up, my biggest wish in this life was to be a boy. Luckily I wasn't abandoned. It can be imagined that Fang Wanzhi was lucky enough to be adopted. Her loving adoptive parents gave her a direction in life. She developed literary literacy at an early age, had a good education, and had a very correct outlook on life. I like her flesh and blood, her backbone, her honesty, her kindness, her talent and authenticity. The inescapable fact that gods are born into parents' families, and the human nature of poor relatives, break down and flee when they learn that their adoptive parents are not their biological parents, and they are at a loss what to do. Every choice and practice is very real, the working life and the inner world are real. Fang Wanzhi grew up, worked hard to make a living with her good sisters, reconciled with poor relatives in her original family, put aside misunderstandings with her adoptive father, and reconciled. Because of his talent and learning, he met his true love Gao Xiang and was very discerning. I live a life that is neither humble nor arrogant. I have the final say in my life. I am a person who does not live in the secular world and is not limited by money from the outside world. I have to say that if you study more, you will have more opportunities, more benefits, and a clearer life. This is what girls have to do. Life is filled with nothing but fame, wealth, and glitz. We are too easily blinded by illusions. Come to the world, rely on luck, rely on chance, many things in life are meaningless, just live your life the way you like. I like Fang Wanzhi, Gao Xiang, Li Juan, adoptive parents, Zhang Jiagui, eldest sister He Xiaoqin, Yang Hui, Mr. Geng, these fresh, kind and hard-working lives. They are the epitome of an era. It's really well written. Seeing Teacher Liang's efforts and the inspirational feelings of a realistic novel writer who is concerned about the country and the people, although I can't write such a work in this life, it is not a blessing to read such a book. Be grateful that this world has given us so much.
What a great book! A book of life! After reading it, I felt deeply true, warm, sober and optimistic... The book contains the most rational and wise understanding of individual "life": "Humans have three lives - The first is given by parents, which determines what kind of family a person is born into and what kind of genes he has, which is called destiny; the second is determined by one's own experience in life, which is called real destiny. Life, life, also refers to the concept of right and wrong that a person adheres to in life, which is a combination of the relationship between life and destiny; the third is given by culture, which is called self-cultivation..."; Very seriously. The same author's point of view of "Whenever something happens to you, you should look for the reasons within yourself... This way... You can face the reality calmly..."; And "I am ordinary, I am ordinary, I am a serious person, I am persevering enough... I tolerate... I forgive... I am me...", Which is more worthy of practice in each of our lives. "Many years later, I will still dream about this mountain road. It winds like an unsolved puzzle, one end is connected to the world outside the mountain, and the other end is hidden in the depths of the clouds." "The village located in the clouds has a nice name, called Shenxianding." When this narration in the first episode of the TV series "My Mountain and the Sea" was narrated, the book "Me and My Life" suddenly opened in front of me. Ah, how nice! I like Liu Jinsong's performance and the ending theme of the TV series: When I was young, I always watched you bend down Just like the earth is silent but carries the mountains on its back You use your silent footsteps to move forward Responding to the equally silent starry sky above our heads You use your journey that never stops Answer the second hand that never stops in life You use the immortal fire in your heart Warm response to the everlasting sound of wind and rain along the road When I grow up, I will learn how to bend down like you Only then did I understand how difficult and painful it was for you at that time Only then did I realize that everyone in the world uses Each shoulder carries its own mountain peak I'm facing the wind and walking through the turbulent time Singing songs all the way to repay the teasing of impermanence Maybe in the next dawn sky I climbed over the mountain and saw the infinity of the waves. You said people should be loyal to their hearts Burn this life to keep love intact A lucky thought leads to ups and downs in the journey Only by walking step by step can we hold the dream in our hands You said that people should be sincere about the road they step on Under the scars, time is growing toughness Destiny favors those who carry mountains on their backs The clumsiest steps will eventually cross the highest mountain Let the long wind and frost reflect the rainbow From a solitary lamp to the neon lights of the galaxy The mountains and the sea meet in the clear sky We will eventually embrace the sea of people ... This song is "My Mountain and Sea" and "Me and My Life"!
After watching the TV series My Mountains and Seas, the emotions in the novel are more delicate. The principal's mother told Fang Wanzhi "Three Lives". After reading it, my mind jumped and I thought about my own affairs, and I blushed at my "empty appearance". Thank you to the author! Show me great stories
After reading the classics of famous people, I realized what it means to learn without end, and what it means to live and learn. I really like the description of this article, the material selection of the article is realistic, and the plot is clearly organized. I plan to read it again and again in order to learn from it!
2026.7.19 Listen and read "The essence of human beings is the sum of all social relationships." The distance between people is not defined by the distance of blood. A girl who was abandoned for adoption due to policy restrictions was fortunate enough to be adopted by adoptive parents with a family background and culture, and grew up to be a diligent, down-to-earth and pragmatic person. She was unfortunate because she was cut off from any blood ties since she was born, but she was lucky enough to grow up in the care of her adoptive parents. After entering society, most of the people I meet are kind-hearted people, and the biggest hardships I experience are caused by blood relatives.
My favorite is Li Juan, who is tough, kind and has strong vitality. The protagonist Fang Wanzhi has too many monologues in the book, which affects the perception. The best two paragraphs are about Wanzhi's mental immaturity when she was young and everything can be expected, and the years of hard work with Li Juan in Shenzhen. Too much preaching is the fault of the novel, which is not as good as the author's previous "There's a Blizzard Tonight". But the concept conveyed in the book is right. Being an ordinary but not mediocre good person is the best education.
"My Life and Me" tells the life story of Fang Wanzhi, an abandoned girl from Guizhou: she was born in a poor mountainous area and was abandoned by her native family because she was a girl. She was later adopted by Linjiang Mayor Meng Siyuan and principal Fang Jingyu. She grew up in a privileged intellectual family and received a good education. When her adoptive mother died of illness during her sophomore year, Fang Wanzhi unexpectedly learned of her life as an abandoned baby. Her native relatives continued to seek coercion in the name of family affection, and her first love boyfriend left her because of this. In addition, her adoptive father planned to remarry. Under multiple blows, she dropped out of school and went to Shenzhen to work hard. She started out as a cook on a construction site and a working girl at the bottom. She experienced the wave of reform and opening up, started a business in the city, and gained sincere friendship and love. Fang Wanzhi was unfortunately diagnosed with cancer when she was less than 40 years old. After experiencing the pain and suffering, she never gave up. Instead, she founded a community for patients and edited anti-cancer books. She transformed from a victim of fate to a warm helper. She finally accepted ordinary life, adhered to her kind heart, and completed her spiritual redemption. The protagonist Fang Wanzhi combines the toughness endowed by a lower-class background and the upbringing nourished by an intellectual family. She is the true epitome of ordinary women in the tide of the times; her lover Gao Xiang is sober, transparent, rational and open-minded, and always respects and supports all Fang Wanzhi's choices. From Fang Wanzhi's life experiences, we have a profound understanding: destiny and destiny are both backgrounds, and the ultimate destination in life is to cultivate one's own destiny and live out one's true heart.
The authenticity is average, some of the storylines are more realistic, and some are very false. The protagonist's journey of struggle is a little too smooth. I don't think that only tragic stories like Fugui, Songgang and Songfanping can be called close to reality. These are the two extremes of today's literary works, which over-beautify life and indulge in praising pain. There are very few works that can describe what ordinary people should look like and how they should live. Such works are the ones that can truly bring us strength and courage. But it is very philosophical, such as various dialogue descriptions and psychological descriptions. The content is profound and unique, and the meaning is profound, which shows the author's far-sighted thinking and literary skills. Generally speaking, it is thought-provoking and rewarding.
You cannot choose your origin, but you can control the direction of your destiny. You must be tenacious, rational, supportive, and successful for others. Although ordinary and imperfect, be a kind person and live a happy life [blowing kiss]
"My Life and Me" is a thought-provoking novel that portrays the reality of human nature, including good and bad, happiness and misfortune. It also reveals the meaning of life. No matter what life you face, you must maintain a normal mindᥫ᭡ Accept your own ordinaryness and ordinaryness, be grateful to the people and things you encounter now, take the responsibility of your own life, and still smile at life despite the uncertainties in the world [Love]
Mr. Liang's Gao Xiang is a very rational person, he is knowledgeable about things and is unsophisticated, and he has a thorough and thorough analysis of human nature. Juan is affectionate and righteous, and she is beautiful in life and work. I envy the heroine to have such a best friend. The end of the novel leaves people with many conjectures. It is up to the benevolent to imagine... In the end, the heroine also became a good person as her adoptive parents expected, and she was also ordinary and ordinary. People are the sum total of social relationships. The vast majority of people are ordinary and ordinary. They should not feel inferior because of being ordinary and ordinary. They should not be lazy because of being ordinary, nor should they lose their heart to the sunshine because of being ordinary.
After reading the whole book, it was okay, but the final ending was not acceptable. In addition, I prefer the first half of the book. The plot is compact and full of twists and turns. The last two chapters were written a bit hastily, many details were skipped over, and the plot was a bit incoherent. The book frequently mentions that "human essence is the sum of all social relationships." Everyone is an independent individual, but is always affected by a family. Only by improving our own cognitive level can each of us live a good life.
Liang's novels focus on the lives of ordinary people and are very down-to-earth. I like his works, and I also like the vivid and vital characters created in the books, as well as their tenacity, kindness and beautiful qualities in life.
How to repay kindness with kindness? People are the sum of social relations. The feelings of family and country are what every ordinary person should have. Only when there is a country can there be a family, and only when there is a family can there be love. The author's psychological description is very good, a good work, worth reading!
I heard that it will be made into a film and TV show, so let's watch the original work first. Good
Fang Wanzhi is too affectionate and righteous, but society is different now. Good people are not rewarded well. Only people in the 1980s and 1990s were so prosperous. Her best choice was to cut herself off from the family who abandoned her
A person can maintain a little bit of the nobility and dignity of being a human being in such a world, because we still have ideas, not because we are very hardworking. She obviously had a good hand that others thought was particularly good, and she could obviously get everything easier and better by taking shortcuts, but she chose to make her own way on her own. Facing her biological parents who abandoned her, she did everything that many children today cannot do. Too many human evils started when she first learned that she was adopted and went back to her biological parents' village to give her money. The frequent interruptions in that village led her to choose another more difficult path. Fortunately, he did not give up on herself and worked hard to live. Perhaps it was because of her kindness and unyielding character that she met sisters and like-minded partners who depended on her for life and death. She has always been ordinary and ordinary like most of us, but she also accepts ordinary and ordinary. The article ends with her illness, giving people more daydreams, hoping that there will be a miracle, and that those who love her will have a place to continue to carry love.
Since being ordinary is destined to be my destiny, I am willing to live in peace with my destiny and spend my life in an ordinary way. All my efforts and hard work are not to transcend the ordinary, but to stabilize the ordinary and strive to live a little taste of ordinary life in the stability. Being ordinary is not a mistake, being ordinary is not a sin, everyone's life is just a phenomenon of life, as long as you like your phenomenon of life, mother will be happy for you. "I don't feel inferior because of being ordinary, because I have never been lazy because of being ordinary, and I have never lost my desire to be sunny because of being ordinary.
Respect the destiny, expand the real destiny, be calm with the destiny, always have a ruler in your heart to measure right and wrong, and measure the big and wrong. If you want to wear a crown, you must bear its weight. There are many complexities in the world, keep your mind pure. Once the hell is close, let nature take its course.
An empowering book. In an era of material scarcity, the birth of a third girl is undoubtedly hopeless for the ordinary family in Shenxianding. I was abandoned at birth, and despite all the twists and turns, my life is still closely linked to the Fairy Peak. Fortunately, my mother Fang gave me the strength to grow, and I am as strong as the little flowers and grass on the Fairy Peak.
The protagonist in the book has gone through many difficulties, but she never gave up, which I admire very much. Moreover, I feel that the characters in the book are very real, and their stories resonate with me. I love this book, it opened my eyes to all kinds of possibilities in life.
"Can't stop" is the best way to describe my feeling when reading this book. I am a pessimist and believe that life is miserable. In life, on TV and in books, the bitterness of life can be felt everywhere. This book made me re-examine my outlook on life. Fang Wanzhi, a protagonist who is alternately entangled with misfortune and luck but is open-minded and optimistic. With her vision and mind, for the first time, I can see the sweetness gifted by fate without focusing on the bitterness in life.
The language is beautiful, the plot is touching, and the characters are down-to-earth, making it easy to read in one sitting.
The author is so smart and writes so well about his own experiences! Everyone has their own ups and downs, but you can't write them down. The author's writing is genuine and profound! Tell me to love watching and listening! So well written!
I started watching it yesterday morning and finished it today. I really read it in one sitting. Don't want to stop. There are some things we can't change, but there are some things we can control. We can choose what kind of person to be and how to live our life. We should not always look at the things we cannot change, but work hard to do the things we can change. No one's life can be smooth sailing. No one's life is perfect and infallible. So don't worry. Come again if you make a mistake. Solve problems when you encounter them. Life is a process of continuous growth. The good and the bad are all training.
It's really good, but I don't think it's very good. Some parts are touching, some are too peaceful, and some are too simple. Some jump and turn too much. Overall not bad.
"Change" is really good at controlling emotions, and I can't slow down. Every time I read a book, I rush to finish it, but I feel very disappointed after reading it. A few pages of the book have completed some people's lives. Back then, Mingyue said that no matter how powerful a person is, they are just a few pages, and they will be gone with just one flip.
A very profitable book! A girl from a noble family can look straight at her life, be able to bend and stretch, without lamenting, unwillingness, or humiliation. Instead, she straightens her back and lives her life, earns her own living, and behaves rationally! Learned a lot! An inspirational book worth checking out! I want to memorize some passages! [Like][Like][Like]
What is destiny? I thought about it carefully but couldn't think of it. I particularly like Mother Fang's concept of "destiny, real destiny, and destiny cultivation". There are indeed many things in a person's birth that cannot be controlled by oneself, but they are also completely controlled by oneself. Being an ordinary good person is simply the best destiny. Have love and then grow wantonly.
It is thought-provoking and the story has a rigorous structure. It is worthy of being a masterpiece!