The Miracle of Self-Affirmation

I used to be embarrassed to reject others. After reading this book, I learned how to guard my boundaries in relationships. I think this book is not only suitable for boys in love, but also for everyone who wants to improve their sense of self-affirmation. Highly recommended!

This book mainly starts from the topic of "respecting others" and guides readers to think about what if this "other" were themselves? Thereby breaking some inherent negative judgments about oneself, establishing a sense of self-identity, and enhancing a sense of self-affirmation. All behaviors and random thoughts always have their rationality. There is no "should" be done, so you should reduce the idea of ​​forcing yourself to do or think. The perspectives that gave me the most new insights are the following two: 1. Why would the other person be unhappy if he did not accompany me? I had never been able to explain what this unhappy feeling was before. It turned out to be because I felt ignored and disliked. But in fact, if you give the other person natural respect, you won't be obsessed with this kind of superficial "accompanying". 2. Reduce forcing yourself to speak. A quiet atmosphere will make people feel awkward. In the past, I always wanted to be the icebreaker. From now on, I don't think about it anymore, I just want to be myself. Naughty people should read this book, it is very good.

It has a guiding role for confused people, allowing us to think about the reasons for the current situation, and how to respect others without crossing the line, and even heal others. In the end, all this is about respecting yourself and improving your sense of self-affirmation.

After reading this, I felt quite shaken in my heart. After I started to fall into an intimate relationship, I began to realize that my self-esteem was very low. Coupled with the other person's constant demands and accusations, I felt even more like I was in brain fog (because there were no clear boundaries and guidelines) Later, as I continued to work, I was worried about losing my job. I kept cooperating with my superiors. Everything they asked me to do was done so that I could get the opportunity to continue working. I had forgotten what I really wanted to do and only remembered what I should do. My life was filled with worry, my mind was screaming no, and I ignored it, so I began to criticize myself even more harshly. The environment has always reminded me that we must keep moving forward. Many of us are very tight and have no ability to love ourselves. We depreciate ourselves, but forget that as the article says, we are born to be a miracle. We have survived so many difficult situations. How amazing we are. Even if there are people in this world who don't like us, our cells are always saving us. It can be seen that our birth is loved and allowed by the world. I love myself, so I start to allow myself to be myself, and I respect everything in the world, so I also allow any reflection from you. As the article says: We will respect everything. Realize that all people, things, and things that exist on this earth are all gifts of life. It feels like an amazing miracle to be alive right here and now. Once we reach this state of mind, our sense of self-affirmation will be infinitely higher.

The ideas proposed in the book stood out to me. It first gave many examples. It turned out that those were manifestations of low self-affirmation. To improve your sense of self-affirmation, you can start from some aspects of how you treat others, and then treat yourself in this way.

It is short and concise, with clear core and practical examples. I saw a lot of myself in the book, and when the author was explaining respect, a lot of feelings arose in his heart. Something to note. Don't feel like you should respect it just because you read this book. Instead, you should find the inner feeling of respecting life. Face life with this feeling.

Whenever I read books about psychology, I can feel the author's unique thoughtfulness and tenderness.

Very good, many opinions are unexpected but happen every day in daily life; this is also a methodology that guides us on how to interact with others, how to grasp our own mentality and scale, so as to enhance our self-affirmation!

By reading this book, I have a better understanding of "respect" and "self-affirmation", which helps me face some interpersonal relationships, be considerate of others, and be less "judgmental." Enhance your sense of self-affirmation, establish real connections between people, and embrace a better life.

I can feel that the author is a very loving person, very gentle and powerful [almost crying]

It is a very suitable book for me to read now. The content of the article is short but unforgettable. The content is easy to understand and the examples are clear. I learned the key to improving my sense of self-affirmation in it. The explanation is really great. All in all, it is really good. I would like it [Like][Like]

It's not "must respect", but "you can respect after you relax"; it's not about practicing hard, but about self-liberation.

This book is very good. I've finished reading it.

Very good, my heart has been touched. I hope everyone can live a beautiful and happy life.

Respect yourself respect others

This taught me that only by respecting myself can I respect others.

Respecting others is also learning to respect yourself and accept yourself for who you are.

Respect yourself in order to respect others

Not bad, I have some feelings in the following chapters

This book has improved my knowledge, and I will work hard to practice it.

I feel the peace of being allowed

Some of the methods mentioned in it are very practical and can effectively improve your personality and improve your self-confidence.

Learn to listen to others, respect others, empathize with others, and don't change others easily

The eloquent narrative makes people empathize with each other, and they must have a considerate attitude and respect for everyone.

It's beautiful and has answered a lot of life questions for me.

It's a very interesting book, which can be read by those who are emotionally and mentally exhausted due to interpersonal relationships.

It's well written, warm, thoughtful, and comfortable to read. I recommend it.