Focusing on the central point of "guided communication", this book analyzes the different psychological states of parents and children during communication from aspects such as building empathy, communication rules, methods of praise and criticism, stimulating children's inner drive, shaping children's valuable character, and parents' self-cultivation. It also provides very practical and effective parenting strategies to help parents stay away from violent language and build a harmonious and warm family atmosphere.
Reader comments
Something happened to me recently, my mood is very unstable, and my attitude towards my children is also very bad. My child's slightest mistake can trigger my temper! After your mood stabilizes, you will regret losing your temper for no reason! By reading this book, I discovered a lot of communication problems. Thanks to Big Data for recommending this book. I hope my past mistakes have not caused too much harm to my children.
This book is very well written, but maybe not many people have read it or commented on it.
Parents must learn to understand and accept their children, and learn how to communicate with their children from different perspectives. In the past, they felt that they should not hit, scold or yell at them, but when they actually encounter problems but don't know what to do, they subconsciously resort to the past methods to solve them because they can't think of any other way. The book contains specific techniques and processing methods that you can learn from and constantly explore so as to apply them flexibly in life. So far, it is quite difficult for me to apply what I have learned. I don't know what the problem is. Maybe I am stupid? What I can think of is to memorize some words and speak them out when encountering similar situations. But if you encounter different situations, you will be at a loss and you won't be able to say anything. Your brain will shut down, your mouth will be stupid, and your communication and expression skills will be poor. Hey! Parenting is hard. For me, it is a long learning journey and a self-cultivation.
Many scenes described are relatively close to reality, but many times, parents do not have such high emotional intelligence or good emotions. In order to raise outstanding children, parents must also study and improve themselves regularly
Moreover, I think the author is right. Only when we respect each other and talk to each other on an equal footing can we chat better with our parents. I will try to use these methods in communicating with my parents in the future, and will also recommend other friends to read this book!
Very good. After reading this, parents will no longer be anxious.
Educating children is a university subject. It is not only the guidance of children, but also self-cultivation.
This book is easy to understand and the individual examples are easy to accept. It is a book worth reading.
There are a lot of practical words in the book. It's really good and worth recommending.
Very good, great book
Not bad 👍, I learned from it. Learn methods, be able to speak, communicate well with children in the name of love, and get along well with them.
Learn learn learn
A very good parenting book
A good book, I have benefited a lot after studying it [Like]
I learned a lot of ways to educate children
I feel deeply, and now I feel a little calmer inside.
A book with practical value, Nonviolent Communication for Children. Some of the ideas in the second half of the book amazed me. Thank you.
It is a very good book. If parents study this kind of book carefully, not only will their families be happy, but our motherland will also become better and better.
Something happened to me recently, my mood is very unstable, and my attitude towards my children is also very bad. My child's slightest mistake can trigger my temper! After your mood stabilizes, you will regret losing your temper for no reason! By reading this book, I discovered a lot of communication problems. Thanks to Big Data for recommending this book. I hope my past mistakes have not caused too much harm to my children.
This book is very well written, but maybe not many people have read it or commented on it. Parents must learn to understand and accept their children, and learn how to communicate with their children from different perspectives. In the past, they felt that they should not hit, scold or yell at them, but when they actually encounter problems but don't know what to do, they subconsciously resort to the past methods to solve them because they can't think of any other way. The book contains specific techniques and processing methods that you can learn from and constantly explore so as to apply them flexibly in life. So far, it is quite difficult for me to apply what I have learned. I don't know what the problem is. Maybe I am stupid? What I can think of is to memorize some words and speak them out when encountering similar situations. But if you encounter different situations, you will be at a loss and you won't be able to say anything. Your brain will shut down, your mouth will be stupid, and your communication and expression skills will be poor. Hey! Parenting is hard. For me, it is a long learning journey and a self-cultivation.
Many scenes described are relatively close to reality, but many times, parents do not have such high emotional intelligence or good emotions. In order to raise outstanding children, parents must also study and improve themselves regularly
Moreover, I think the author is right. Only when we respect each other and talk to each other on an equal footing can we chat better with our parents. I will try to use these methods in communicating with my parents in the future, and will also recommend other friends to read this book!
Very good. After reading this, parents will no longer be anxious.
Educating children is a university subject. It is not only the guidance of children, but also self-cultivation.
This book is easy to understand and the individual examples are easy to accept. It is a book worth reading.
There are a lot of practical words in the book. It's really good and worth recommending.
Very good, great book
Not bad 👍, I learned from it. Learn methods, be able to speak, communicate well with children in the name of love, and get along well with them.
Learn learn learn
A very good parenting book
A good book, I have benefited a lot after studying it [Like]
I learned a lot of ways to educate children
I feel deeply, and now I feel a little calmer inside.
A book with practical value, Nonviolent Communication for Children. Some of the ideas in the second half of the book amazed me. Thank you.
It is a very good book. If parents study this kind of book carefully, not only will their families be happy, but our motherland will also become better and better.