"Managing Children in This Way Will Make Amazing Changes" advocates: Children should be strict with them, but they should feel close to them and let them feel the happiness of childhood in a "moisturizing and silent" atmosphere; children should be allowed to abide by the rules and learn to learn, but the important thing is to make children break the rules and explode. Generate unlimited creativity... "Manage" is a concept, and "manage" is an attitude. You can "manage" wisdom, you can "manage" talent, you can "manage" quality, you can "manage" a genius child... As long as you really put your mind to it, everything will "come true."
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"If you blindly ask your children to be obedient, they will be afraid of this and that from now on." I understand this sentence deeply, and today I read this book from the perspective of a child. When I was a child, I was always praised by everyone for being a good and obedient child, but only I, the child, knew what was being erased. Adults think that as long as children are obedient, anything can be done easily. They always regulate children from their own adult perspective and impose their own ideas on children. In fact, this will stifle children's enthusiasm and initiative, making them weak and not brave. Such children will have to put in a lot of effort to learn to change themselves when they grow up.
The educational methods mentioned in this book are very good! It is necessary to be strict, but also to make children feel close. This kind of "moisturizing things silently" education is really smart. Moreover, the book also emphasizes that children should break conventions and use creativity, which I very much agree with. As long as we work hard, we can "manage" a genius child. I recommend everyone to read it!
"Pampering is not love, but a kind of cruelty." The word "coddling" means drowning. Excessive love for children is equivalent to drowning them. I saw a news story before about a student who was admitted to a prestigious university. He had no ability to take care of himself and needed his mother to accompany him to study and take care of his daily life. He was later dismissed by the school. To be honest, can a person who only knows how to study and has no common sense about life and cannot survive without his parents really survive in society after leaving the utopia of school? I don't remember the specific details, but I want to say that it is really not advisable to raise children too carefully and take good care of them, so that children can become self-centered. It will be very hard after entering society.
Why can't you manage your children well? Why are you always disobedient? This is a problem that many parents are troubled by nowadays. The answer given in this book is, "There are no children who cannot manage children well, only parents who cannot manage them well." The reason why children are not managed well is largely because parents do not know how to manage their children, and manage in the wrong direction and with the wrong strength. In the opinion of the author of this book, parents should work hard to strengthen their children's hearts and cultivate their children to develop into independent persons. At the same time, parents should also set an example in this process.
It is rare for educational books to be excellent in their own right, and it is even rarer for them to be as excellent as this book. I recommend everyone to read this book anyway. It is not only an educational book, it can also be used to spur yourself and learn how to grow. For parents, it must be a very good educational book. It can solve some thorny problems, solve your urgent needs, and make your children have the educational needs they need.
There are many examples and explanations, and it uses specific examples to guide parents. It is a very good educational reference book!
This is a guide to child education and family discipline. This book provides tips and tricks on how to better guide children, inspire their potential, and develop positive behaviors. It contains practical advice on positive guidance, positive communication and building a positive family atmosphere. By reading this book, parents and educators can gain some practical strategies and tools to help them get along better with their children and promote their growth and development.
Only by reading more can we understand children's psychology, give children a better childhood, and cultivate better children...
Great book, very informative.
This book is written realistically and thoroughly.
I understand many things that I didn't know before. Now I understand them, which changes my cognition and outlook.
A very good parenting expert, worthy of careful reading by parents [Like]
Provides lots of practical insights, lots to learn, and well worth a look.
"If you blindly ask your children to be obedient, they will be afraid of this and that from now on." I understand this sentence deeply, and today I read this book from the perspective of a child. When I was a child, I was always praised by everyone for being a good and obedient child, but only I, the child, knew what was being erased. Adults think that as long as children are obedient, anything can be done easily. They always regulate children from their own adult perspective and impose their own ideas on children. In fact, this will stifle children's enthusiasm and initiative, making them weak and not brave. Such children will have to put in a lot of effort to learn to change themselves when they grow up.
The educational methods mentioned in this book are very good! It is necessary to be strict, but also to make children feel close. This kind of "moisturizing things silently" education is really smart. Moreover, the book also emphasizes that children should break conventions and use creativity, which I very much agree with. As long as we work hard, we can "manage" a genius child. I recommend everyone to read it!
"Pampering is not love, but a kind of cruelty." The word "coddling" means drowning. Excessive love for children is equivalent to drowning them. I saw a news story before about a student who was admitted to a prestigious university. He had no ability to take care of himself and needed his mother to accompany him to study and take care of his daily life. He was later dismissed by the school. To be honest, can a person who only knows how to study and has no common sense about life and cannot survive without his parents really survive in society after leaving the utopia of school? I don't remember the specific details, but I want to say that it is really not advisable to raise children too carefully and take good care of them, so that children can become self-centered. It will be very hard after entering society.
Why can't you manage your children well? Why are you always disobedient? This is a problem that many parents are troubled by nowadays. The answer given in this book is, "There are no children who cannot manage children well, only parents who cannot manage them well." The reason why children are not managed well is largely because parents do not know how to manage their children, and manage in the wrong direction and with the wrong strength. In the opinion of the author of this book, parents should work hard to strengthen their children's hearts and cultivate their children to develop into independent persons. At the same time, parents should also set an example in this process.
It is rare for educational books to be excellent in their own right, and it is even rarer for them to be as excellent as this book. I recommend everyone to read this book anyway. It is not only an educational book, it can also be used to spur yourself and learn how to grow. For parents, it must be a very good educational book. It can solve some thorny problems, solve your urgent needs, and make your children have the educational needs they need.
There are many examples and explanations, and it uses specific examples to guide parents. It is a very good educational reference book!
This is a guide to child education and family discipline. This book provides tips and tricks on how to better guide children, inspire their potential, and develop positive behaviors. It contains practical advice on positive guidance, positive communication and building a positive family atmosphere. By reading this book, parents and educators can gain some practical strategies and tools to help them get along better with their children and promote their growth and development.
Only by reading more can we understand children's psychology, give children a better childhood, and cultivate better children...
Great book, very informative.
This book is written realistically and thoroughly.
I understand many things that I didn't know before. Now I understand them, which changes my cognition and outlook.
A very good parenting expert, worthy of careful reading by parents [Like]
Provides lots of practical insights, lots to learn, and well worth a look.