Teach You Communication Skills That Are More Powerful Than Mind Reading

From eloquent communication to body language, facial expressions and eye gestures Then you can help the other person with sincerity and sincerity. Listen patiently to the key points expressed by the other person, put yourself in their shoes and get along with them For example, a child went to rent a house from an old man who did not want to take care of children. He said that he had no children, only his parents would not mess up the house, and he was very impressed. Praising others must be to the point and innovative, just like a surprise, you are happy because it is unexpected. The indirect nature of criticism is to criticize the person and discuss the matter beforehand, implying that the other party has not corrected enough, saving face for the other party, and avoiding bringing personal feelings into judgment in public, stimulating the other party to have a rebellious mentality. When problems arise, one should understand the causes and consequences and give an opportunity for explanation before making judgments and providing guidance. The method of provoking a general in "please fight is not as good as provoking a general" needs to be measured to avoid being too hasty and exposed, but not too slow to arouse a competitive spirit. Making false accusations in the east and attacking in the west are tactics that may offend your ears. Whether it is retreat to advance or a combination of carrot and stick, it is a method of handling that needs to be adjusted appropriately to maximize your own interests. To persuade others, you need to put yourself in their shoes and express altruism and self-interest in order to better convince the other person. When you seek help from people and do things according to their preferences, pay attention to the breakthrough points, treat each other politely and shamelessly, and grasp the appropriateness, only then can we achieve mutual benefit and win-win results. Appropriate silence is also a kind of expression. When faced with accusations from others, you can preemptively admit your mistakes so that the other party can no longer bear to blame. If you don't want to be too honest and be bullied, you have to pretend to be "evil" on different occasions at the right time. One way to protect yourself from harm is to use magic to defeat magic. The best way to resolve embarrassment is to laugh at yourself appropriately to arouse the resonance of others Talk less and do more in the workplace to avoid damaging your image Compliments must be timely, sincere and specific in order to be more effective. If you want to make a good self-introduction, explain your "surname" and "name" to reflect your personal knowledge level and character cultivation and demonstrate your eloquence. The opening statement can be based on the principle of finding common ground by identifying relatives and friends, and can be followed to eliminate the sense of strangeness with enthusiasm and thoughtfulness. Avoid talking too much or being too silent when communicating with others At the end, adding inquiries, thanks, wishes, summary, and invitational (polite/formal) closing words is an essential farewell. There is no winner in a quarrel. Avoid damaging your image and making enemies by quarreling. In daily life, avoid inquiring into other people's privacy and talking about other people's shortcomings. Grasping the right limit of "talking to death" is a good way to refuse and can effectively avoid embarrassing situations. Use throwing chicken feathers as a metaphor for rumors, and use chicken feathers that cannot be collected and thrown out to express irreversible consequences. Finally, "Listen more, speak less, nod often, and only speak a few words to people when you meet them. Don't be the same as everyone else." This sentence means "You must not have the intention of harming others, and you must have the intention of guarding against others." "Be careful in sailing the ship of ten thousand years." After reading it, record the key points↑

Finished reading "Teaching You Communication Skills More Powerful Than Reading Minds" by [Tan Xiaoming] at 12:03 on May 31, 2024. Today is a no-smoking day.

In life, we often meet all kinds of people, and good communication skills can help us get along with people better. I learned a lot of practical communication skills from this book, such as how to observe words and emotions, and how to express my own opinions. These are of great help to me in getting along with my family and friends. I recommend everyone to read this book, I believe you will also gain a lot!

Very insightful and beautiful