Inferior self-esteem, sensitivity, and suspicion are almost all labels of the family of origin. When you are a child, you are not loved; when you grow up, you do not know how to love. The formation of a pleaser personality almost affects a child's life.
The protagonist of this article, Wen Qi, may also be another you in the world, struggling in the mud of his original family, but unable to extricate himself.
My father doesn't love me, my mother doesn't love me, and I am the middle child. I am really helpless.
Wen Qi has been unpopular at home since she was a child. In her father's words: "That second guy is not a good person!"
In my mother's words: "You don't know how to be grateful. Your parents gave you life. What more do you want? Girls can recognize each other from east to west and use the men's and women's toilets!"
Both parents were high school students in the 1960s, but Wenqi and her sisters were illiterate. My father is like a puppet and has no thoughts of his own; my mother doesn't care about anything except playing mahjong every day. An accident happened suddenly, and the death of his father caused the whole family to collapse...
Wen Qi: I never believe in true love because I don't deserve to be loved!
Zhang Yan: Just stand where you are and let me love you and take care of you. In the past, I did not participate in your world; in the future, I will spend every day with you!
Sibling love, marriage first, love later.
I hope that every child who has been hurt in his or her family of origin will be able to heal on his own. Love yourself! Love yourself! Love yourself!
