Why Should I Listen to You: How to Get Along with Strong People (Picture and Text Collection Edition)

After reading this book, I clearly understood that my husband is a strong person. I only had some vague feelings before. Strong people are everywhere. My mother and my father-in-law and mother-in-law are also very strong, but they always show it in a more subtle way. In fact, strong people have fragile hearts. They are not confident and worry that others will look down on them. They are still children at heart. We can't change others, we can only change ourselves. Make yourself strong inside, love yourself unconditionally, always believe in yourself, and you can live a happy and comfortable life.

I have met many strong people, colleagues at work, relatives, and partners. As my reading improves, I am more and more confident now. I am not bad, but I am attacked by strong people in various ways, PUA me, and belittle me. Sometimes I reflect and review myself, and I am still relatively ignorant, lazy, and cognitively unqualified. Only when I am in a bad position can I see people clearly and be suppressed in this way. From now on, I will continue to read books that are useful to me, be self-aware, self-loving, self-aware, and don't let anyone affect my own rhythm of life. I have my weaknesses and my own strengths, so don't feel that I am worthless just because of other people's accusations.

This sentence in the book directly put me in the shoes of a real boss - if a strong person tries his best to compliment and flatter you, it is probably to win your favor. My boss is so strong, and he seems to have figured out that you will compromise all his arrangements because of money. I was scolded by him for playing with my mobile phone openly. Thinking about it at that time, he must have wanted to fire me. But I still tolerated it because of the lack of people. Now that the old project has not been fully understood, but because I am eager to make money and start a new project, I am asked to work with another colleague (like a guinea pig). People who thought I did not exist and who had never praised me before started to praise me. Then the new project didn't even ask us if we agreed or let us think about it, but just told us to get ready. We didn't say anything when we came to talk, it was already accepted by default. And this book just allowed me to see and understand that my boss is such a strong person.

In the past, I would always feel sad for a long time and doubt myself because of someone else's unpleasant words. After reading this book, I had some thoughts. The "strong people" in the book are not smart or brave, but they like to elevate themselves by belittling others to gain a sense of existence. Not bad, not bad

Don't use your kindness to feed the person who bullies you, ignore him and stay away from him

The first article made me get to know some disguised strong people. The methodology of the second article is still a bit regretful. The examples given are not applicable to China. I hope that more comprehensive methods will be more tactful. However, some people are just born good at it and do not need to learn.

This book is really useful! It taught me how to identify the "powerful people" in life and taught me a lot of skills in getting along with them. I've met people like this before, and it's really tiring to deal with them, and they always have self-doubt. But after reading this book, I feel more confident and know how to deal with it. Moreover, the writing style of this book is very simple and easy to understand, as if the author is chatting with you, so you can easily read it. Highly recommended!

I hate strong people because I hate being put down and manipulated. It is very sad to say that when I read the first chapter "What does a strong person look like", I discovered that I am also a strong person, self-centered, demanding or manipulating others to benefit myself. Inferiority and arrogance are beyond my control. Often, I don't want to destroy the world but myself. I know this is not good and I want to change it.

A very interesting book that not only lists the characteristics of strong people, but also writes strategies for dealing with them, which is very practical.

This is a very good book. The strong person in the book is very consistent with the person I met. Although I have been away from her for a long time, I am still sad.

The "strong person" in this article may be written as "villain"...

This book is very practical [like]

Refuse to be morally kidnapped by others, and don't kidnap others morally. Keep communicating sincerely and efficiently, and you will naturally meet better and more outstanding people.

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Nice book, simple and clear

Very good, I will watch it again and again

Strong people are immune to psychiatrists, so doctors can only help you identify them. The weak can only stay away from the strong. The author uses the phrase "cherish life".

You can stay away from some people, but don't get involved. Not worth it!

Multi-dimensional description, strategic plan is highly operable. Clearly reveal all the behaviors of powerful people. I felt enlightened after reading it.

Thank you so much. My life is full of such people. I am a typical moral perfectionist. No matter what I do, I will continue to criticize myself.