Do you often feel sad when you are in love? Do you often worry about breaking up? Is he often dissatisfied with you? Do you often say your faults? Will he deliberately ignore you? Does it make you feel insecure? Do you talk about your ex often? Will it trample on your dignity? Do you think he loves you more or loves himself more? Do you cry often? Will you suffer from insomnia? Thirty ways to identify a bad person, teach you how to stop liking someone and welcome the rebirth of your heart. From a psychological perspective, this book teaches you how to identify evil lovers with toxic personalities, detailing how these people use language, psychological suggestion, and even sex to turn you into a pawn on their game board; they erode your personality, make you gradually lose your subjectivity, and use ambiguity to punish you for being "out of control"; and later, because you gradually become emotionally unstable, he feels worried and scared, and breaks up with you in a gorgeous way.
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There are many books in the world that teach people to like others, but there is only one book that teaches us to identify the people around us who are detrimental to our growth and development, and how we can get rid of the moral tension in our hearts and dislike them without guilt, or escape from relationships that have hurt us. This is a book that helps people heal themselves after suffering a loss of love. The author first emphasizes that we need to identify those "extremely controlling and unsympathetic people", who according to the current popular term are PUA masters. Then, through personal experience, he specifically shows how this type of people can make intimate relationships bad, and finally gives us a good way to regain freedom.
After reading this book, I suddenly felt much more relaxed. I gave my ex-husband 51 points! I felt very sad for myself during the past sixteen years, and I also reflected on myself: What should I do if I stay in this kind of relationship for sixteen years? In summary, my mother also has a narcissistic personality disorder. She has been used to being PUA and suppressed since she was a child, and she has become a people-pleasing personality. For the rest of my life, I will always remind myself that I am unpleasant and stay away from such people.
A very subjective book! If you attribute all the emotional harm to your ex's psychopathy, can you really complete self-salvation? I don't think so. A person with a lively spirit will always fall into excessive joy and intense pain, and these two are not produced by real existing things, but by expectations of the future, or what can be called illusions and delusions. If a person can overcome himself and can often clearly see through the integrity of things and everything related to it, he will not give the color of desire and hope to actual things, so that he can avoid pain and delusion. The greater the joy generated by delusions, the deeper the pain will be when it disappears. Pain is never injected from the outside world, but deep in our hearts.
We have all had times when we gave everything for love but got scarred in return, so we all long to miss a "vicious" lover. This book will teach us how to identify them? If that person cared about you even a little bit, you wouldn't need to sort out the mistakes you've made as carefully as you do now, and you don't need to think about what caused you to be replaced by others now. This is what emotional abuse and chronic cold shoulder can do to a normal, compassionate person. The author uses similar language to tell us that those behaviors are unreasonable. Once these behaviors occur, we should cut off the shackles of this emotion.
A blogger said in the video that if you are a lover, you must read this book. Out of curiosity to punish the love brain, I opened this book. If you often feel pain in love, or if he always mentions his previous partner and always suppresses you on various levels, then you have no doubt that you have encountered one of the 30 types of evil partners introduced by the author in this book. When you read too many cases in this book, know the status of a bad lover, and understand the other person's main thoughts and intentions, it will be difficult for you to like him again.
After reading it, I feel it is very helpful to me. From this, I gradually discovered that not only were there such toxic people around me, but one of my friends also behaved inappropriately. No wonder I feel uncomfortable every time I get along with her, but I still want to show that I am very happy with her. Thanks to the author.
Instead of needing lifelong healing because of a bad relationship; it is better to take the lead in cultivating keen intuition to identify toxic lovers; the author here lists some of their typical characteristics for the abnormal identification standards given to us by the medical community; and by restoring the manipulation methods of evil lovers, such as rational flattery, indirect temptation and breaking the bottom line, to help us see through their tricks. Of course, even if you have been kidnapped by such an evil lover, the author's straightforward advice will help you on the road to healing.
This book can be directly interpreted as teaching you how to identify a scumbag, or as a step-by-step guide on how to stay away from a psychopathic lover. For those who have not experienced it, they may think it is full of nonsense and accusations. But it resonates with people who have experienced it. I remember there is a saying that is right, the only thing you lose and can never get back is one thing, your innocence. This refers to a simple and kind belief in the goodness of human nature, as well as the love and trust you wholeheartedly give to others. I recommend everyone to read it, this book is quite healing.
Recommended to everyone, I never know when I will be able to save you. The book teaches people how to identify a partner with a "toxic personality", that is, a PUA partner; when you meet such a person, your life will become worse and worse, because he will tame you and destroy your self-personality. I have friends who have experienced boys like this. They didn't feel anything was wrong at first. They pretended to be nice, but in the end they caused a lot of harm to this friend. She went from being confident and generous to a timid person. Oh my god, if you encounter this kind of person, you should stay away.
Or you can learn the methods inside, counteract the scumbag's routine, and follow the scumbag's path so that the scumbag has nowhere to go.
From a psychological perspective, this book teaches you how to identify evil lovers with toxic personalities, and details how these people use language, psychological suggestion, and even sex to turn you into a pawn on their game board; they erode your personality, make you gradually lose your subjectivity, and use ambiguity to punish you for being "out of control"; there are still people in this world who exploit and manipulate others through idealization and devaluation. When it comes to doing things, the frequency of making excuses is far greater than the frequency of acting on promises. Constantly comparing you to others and giving shallow compliments are not meant to praise you, but to make further demands on you.
This book gave me a new understanding of psychology and is well worth reading.
When getting along with people, we usually hope to be liked by others, but there are some people who will not bring you happiness when they come into your life, but will hurt you severely, pull you into the abyss, and make you suspect that you are hurting yourself. This book will teach us how to identify such people. The author calls such people toxic personalities. We need to master sharp intuition through this book and learn to raise early warning models in our hearts when we meet them.
It actually introduces a kind of personality. If you look into it, you can really feel some relief.
I feel the same, and feel that I can put myself into it, and get the answers to all my doubts step by step. I also feel sad for me who once asked him for an answer hysterically. I used all my strength to love him, but he used all his strength to plot against me. I am finally free, say goodbye to my past self, cheer for my future self, and from now on, love myself well and be worthy of the rest of my life.
This book is like an anti-scum guide that teaches us how to identify those "toxic" people. I think of a friend of mine who is always humble in relationships. Her partner often belittles her and makes her feel worthless. After reading this book, I realized that that person was a "evil lover". Some of the methods in the book are really practical, as the book says, "It will make a permanent change in your life." I want to recommend this book to all my friends, so that everyone can stay away from "evil lovers" and find true happiness.
It's a pity it's late, I wish I had seen it earlier
There are many books in the world that teach people to like others, but there is only one book that teaches us to identify the people around us who are detrimental to our growth and development, and how we can get rid of the moral tension in our hearts and dislike them without guilt, or escape from relationships that have hurt us. This is a book that helps people heal themselves after suffering a loss of love. The author first emphasizes that we need to identify those "extremely controlling and unsympathetic people", who according to the current popular term are PUA masters. Then, through personal experience, he specifically shows how this type of people can make intimate relationships bad, and finally gives us a good way to regain freedom.
After reading this book, I suddenly felt much more relaxed. I gave my ex-husband 51 points! I felt very sad for myself during the past sixteen years, and I also reflected on myself: What should I do if I stay in this kind of relationship for sixteen years? In summary, my mother also has a narcissistic personality disorder. She has been used to being PUA and suppressed since she was a child, and she has become a people-pleasing personality. For the rest of my life, I will always remind myself that I am unpleasant and stay away from such people.
A very subjective book! If you attribute all the emotional harm to your ex's psychopathy, can you really complete self-salvation? I don't think so. A person with a lively spirit will always fall into excessive joy and intense pain, and these two are not produced by real existing things, but by expectations of the future, or what can be called illusions and delusions. If a person can overcome himself and can often clearly see through the integrity of things and everything related to it, he will not give the color of desire and hope to actual things, so that he can avoid pain and delusion. The greater the joy generated by delusions, the deeper the pain will be when it disappears. Pain is never injected from the outside world, but deep in our hearts.
We have all had times when we gave everything for love but got scarred in return, so we all long to miss a "vicious" lover. This book will teach us how to identify them? If that person cared about you even a little bit, you wouldn't need to sort out the mistakes you've made as carefully as you do now, and you don't need to think about what caused you to be replaced by others now. This is what emotional abuse and chronic cold shoulder can do to a normal, compassionate person. The author uses similar language to tell us that those behaviors are unreasonable. Once these behaviors occur, we should cut off the shackles of this emotion.
A blogger said in the video that if you are a lover, you must read this book. Out of curiosity to punish the love brain, I opened this book. If you often feel pain in love, or if he always mentions his previous partner and always suppresses you on various levels, then you have no doubt that you have encountered one of the 30 types of evil partners introduced by the author in this book. When you read too many cases in this book, know the status of a bad lover, and understand the other person's main thoughts and intentions, it will be difficult for you to like him again.
After reading it, I feel it is very helpful to me. From this, I gradually discovered that not only were there such toxic people around me, but one of my friends also behaved inappropriately. No wonder I feel uncomfortable every time I get along with her, but I still want to show that I am very happy with her. Thanks to the author.
Instead of needing lifelong healing because of a bad relationship; it is better to take the lead in cultivating keen intuition to identify toxic lovers; the author here lists some of their typical characteristics for the abnormal identification standards given to us by the medical community; and by restoring the manipulation methods of evil lovers, such as rational flattery, indirect temptation and breaking the bottom line, to help us see through their tricks. Of course, even if you have been kidnapped by such an evil lover, the author's straightforward advice will help you on the road to healing.
This book can be directly interpreted as teaching you how to identify a scumbag, or as a step-by-step guide on how to stay away from a psychopathic lover. For those who have not experienced it, they may think it is full of nonsense and accusations. But it resonates with people who have experienced it. I remember there is a saying that is right, the only thing you lose and can never get back is one thing, your innocence. This refers to a simple and kind belief in the goodness of human nature, as well as the love and trust you wholeheartedly give to others. I recommend everyone to read it, this book is quite healing.
Recommended to everyone, I never know when I will be able to save you. The book teaches people how to identify a partner with a "toxic personality", that is, a PUA partner; when you meet such a person, your life will become worse and worse, because he will tame you and destroy your self-personality. I have friends who have experienced boys like this. They didn't feel anything was wrong at first. They pretended to be nice, but in the end they caused a lot of harm to this friend. She went from being confident and generous to a timid person. Oh my god, if you encounter this kind of person, you should stay away. Or you can learn the methods inside, counteract the scumbag's routine, and follow the scumbag's path so that the scumbag has nowhere to go.
From a psychological perspective, this book teaches you how to identify evil lovers with toxic personalities, and details how these people use language, psychological suggestion, and even sex to turn you into a pawn on their game board; they erode your personality, make you gradually lose your subjectivity, and use ambiguity to punish you for being "out of control"; there are still people in this world who exploit and manipulate others through idealization and devaluation. When it comes to doing things, the frequency of making excuses is far greater than the frequency of acting on promises. Constantly comparing you to others and giving shallow compliments are not meant to praise you, but to make further demands on you. This book gave me a new understanding of psychology and is well worth reading.
When getting along with people, we usually hope to be liked by others, but there are some people who will not bring you happiness when they come into your life, but will hurt you severely, pull you into the abyss, and make you suspect that you are hurting yourself. This book will teach us how to identify such people. The author calls such people toxic personalities. We need to master sharp intuition through this book and learn to raise early warning models in our hearts when we meet them.
It actually introduces a kind of personality. If you look into it, you can really feel some relief.
I feel the same, and feel that I can put myself into it, and get the answers to all my doubts step by step. I also feel sad for me who once asked him for an answer hysterically. I used all my strength to love him, but he used all his strength to plot against me. I am finally free, say goodbye to my past self, cheer for my future self, and from now on, love myself well and be worthy of the rest of my life.
This book is like an anti-scum guide that teaches us how to identify those "toxic" people. I think of a friend of mine who is always humble in relationships. Her partner often belittles her and makes her feel worthless. After reading this book, I realized that that person was a "evil lover". Some of the methods in the book are really practical, as the book says, "It will make a permanent change in your life." I want to recommend this book to all my friends, so that everyone can stay away from "evil lovers" and find true happiness.
It's a pity it's late, I wish I had seen it earlier
Very good. I was enlightened and relieved.
Very good book, I learned a lot [Chigua]