
Don't Be a Good Girl in a Heavy Job
重活之不做乖乖女
- Status
- Completed
- Length
- 701k Words
- Genre
- Modern Romance
- Subgenre
- Youth Sweet Romance
- Audience
- Female
- Updated
- 1y ago
- Source
- Fanqie
Stats
1.1kReads
6.8Score
299Chapters
160Listens
90.6kReads · all time

重活之不做乖乖女
It looks good, but you are weak and work hard, come on. I just have a small opinion and hope that the heroine will realize that she is also very good at studying in the future. After all, she is the first, and it feels weird to call the second academic god.
Various characters have typical problems. Most of the best characters in other novels are parents, grandparents or other relatives. This novel is simply a vivid description of various social weird characters. It is simply a miniature society, the oppression of the family, the shackles of parents, grandparents, etc. Covered with family affection on the female daughter, a unified and classic set. Words, siblings should support each other, who is supporting whom, how many middle-aged parents have brothers and sisters now, who is supporting who to live a good life, these creatures with an extra thing under them have an unimaginable life, but they will not be satisfied, how much oppression is not seen, the sharp edge of the knife is deeply and firmly inserted into the woman's head forever... The growth of the heroine is also worth looking forward to. I must mention it. I am so envious of my cousin for having such a cousin as a wise friend in life. My cousin is hesitant about life choices and it is difficult to escape from her inherent comfort zone to make bigger changes. This is simply a true portrayal of too many people. Change is really difficult.
I understand that the author wants to write about the constraints of a Chinese-style family, but I still feel that the heroine is too aggrieved, from being reborn to gradually having her own source of income. Why are my parents constantly beating and scolding me and forcing me to change my will? I know it may be said that the heroine does not earn enough money to get rid of her family's financial control, but at least she should not easily disobey or hurt herself because of her parents' intimidation. For example, there is a scene in which the heroine's mother asked the heroine to take a bath after eating, but the heroine did not want to go right away, and bathing immediately would be harmful to herself, but she was still forced to take a bath because of her mother's "kidnapping". Even if the bath water made the skin red, she still gave in. Even if she said she would resist later, at least until now, I have not seen a real firm resistance from the heroine. Being constantly coerced may be a reality, but from the reader's perspective, it is too frustrating and powerless. Even with the blessing of a good plot, good writing, and interesting themes, the interest in reading is constantly dwindling. (Personal opinion) Some people may say that this is just the beginning, and the heroine will slowly grow. But the speed of growth is too slow. This article has reached more than 160 chapters. The heroine has now reached the junior high school stage. The pressure of study is not particularly great, and she still has the time and energy to make money. However, when she actually enters high school, as the heavy schoolwork and energy are taken up, she may not have much time to maintain her own economic freedom and may fall into a more passive state. This feels like one step is slow and one step is slow. It makes people feel that this frustration will not slowly disappear as the heroine grows up, and the readability of the entire article will change to seriousness and lose the fun and popularity of the novel. (Of course, this is just a personal feeling, and does not mean to guide the author on how to write. The author's writing style and plot are very enjoyable. I hope this novel will get better and better.)
Parents and elders are bad, but not bad enough; they are good, but good with conditions. This kind of family ties up many people
Reliving the moment of suffocation, it turned out that I had so many choices. My so-called heartache and being sensible were the bargaining chips to control me. My parents are very clever businessmen. They did not control me in the name of love, but let me draw my own prison. The horror of a Chinese-style family is indescribable. It's like a stick in the throat. Forgetfulness is really the worst invention in the human brain. I deceived myself that they loved me, but in fact I was the only one in the world who loved me.
At first glance, the author seems to be a sister with life experience. The text is full of thoughts and wisdom about life. After a certain age, she loses interest in the charm of love, and instead hopes that she will have unlimited vitality to pursue the joy of living.
It's so depressing, this kind of parent-child relationship, this helplessness and helplessness. If I were the heroine I would go crazy. She is already great, she is slowly learning to resist, and she is slowly learning to reconcile. Congratulations baby, go back to the past days and give yourself a good hug.
Although it has been a year since the rebirth in the article, the protagonist said in the previous article that she saw her family clearly in her previous life and felt bad about her family, and made the decision to put herself first. This decision can be seen in the article that she is practicing it, but she still thinks about her family unconsciously in some things, such as traveling. There are so many cold-hearted things that happened in her previous life, and she still wants to go with her family. Is it because she has never traveled with her family in her previous life, so she wants to travel once in this life? There may also be restrictions on ticket purchase for minors or the reason for her mother's early death (it hasn't been updated yet, I don't know if it will be explained) I haven't reached the age of the protagonist in his previous life, but I wanted to travel so I went on my own, quietly without anyone in my family knowing. The protagonist's heart is being pulled repeatedly, harshly, but not much. The author is very good at writing about family conflicts, repressive environments and inner tensions. I believe that anyone who has experienced it will resonate with him. And they rarely mention the sense of accomplishment that grades bring to the protagonist. It seems that being first in the school is no big deal to the protagonist, and he doesn't feel it... Maybe that's how top academics are? What's the big deal about being first in the school in junior high school knowledge? Sprinkle water (Quotes from top students)
This book seems to be describing my home, the kind of love mixed with purpose, the suffocating desire for control, how hard and difficult I have been talking about since I was a child, including the deadly urge to get married. Many people who didn't understand it before read this book and instantly understood it. Some people say that after the heroine was reborn, she still washed her underwear coldly, because people who have never experienced such a suffocating life cannot understand the inertia brought about by habits of more than 20 or 30 years. People can't cut off their family ties and abandon everything in one fell swoop. It's not as if they were frozen three feet in a day. It's good that the heroine can do this in the end. There is no real empathy, only infinite closeness.
It is a very interesting book, but it is also a novel that makes me feel very depressed. The family atmosphere makes me very depressed! I haven't finished reading it yet. Although I urged it to be updated, I think I don't like this kind of parents. I really do! It's better to remain indifferent than to do this! Indifference is better than this. If you are indifferent, you will not expect it!
Reading the big book, I feel that you really want to have a loving and positive family, but you have always struggled with the relationship between your parents and you that you can't change. I feel the same way, because I also have a pair of parents who favor boys over girls. The only difference is that my parents don't have as much control as in the book. The relationship with my parents once made me fall into depression. Later, I started to get better after I let myself go. But besides being a daughter and a mother, sometimes I suddenly thought about whether I could control my own child behavior, and I understood the reason why my son would resist if I did this. However, our family values girls over boys, and my brother is now a pleaser. Alas. . . Speaking of books, I feel that there are too few chapters with the male protagonist. Although most of the love stories are the same, they should still satisfy us. Real life is already so tiring, so it makes people feel more relaxed when they see sweet love. I support adding more chapters [currently in development] [currently in development] [currently in development]
It is a novel that can be recommended to all ages. The only low point in the novel is the emotion towards the parents, but the flaws are not concealed, because this is very close to reality. When we stand from God's perspective, we see that the heroine and her parents are not clean, but in real life, for example, sometimes I think my parents are very good, but sometimes they still can't understand us and say bad things to us. I think the whole text's treatment of life and female growth has been greatly improved, and I can find ways to deal with the injustice of reality from the novel.
It's very good, but the rating is a bit low. Also, I feel that the title of the book is a bit disadvantageous compared to others of the same genre. Family situations like this, in the battle between parents and children, either perish in silence or explode in silence. I may have perished after the outbreak. Man is the sum of all social relations. Various emotions are intertwined, and the choices made are really wonderful, but they are not the thoughts deep in the heart. Maybe it's because I'm sick, and I always place my spirit on my body's demise. A moment of normalcy is just a cover-up. People always say to live in the present, but now I feel like my bond is disappearing little by little. Don't know if this is fantasy or reality. Or maybe my desires and pursuits are the physical fetters I have placed on my spiritual self. Because after getting those things, I found that I was not interested at all. It was like completing a task and must complete the goal. Maybe, it's true that as I grew up, I faded away little by little and twisted into a monster and empathized with others. I can understand that point, but my indifference is also scary. At least this way, no, I'm not lonely at all. I'm not the only one like this. To be honest, I am not world-weary, but I am not eager to live either. Maybe I can't find the meaning of life! I can only live like this. By the way, I would like to recommend Shi Tiesheng's sentence. I really like this sentence and it matches very well. I'm unhappy, I mean mentally. I have a fever, I mean physically. I want to commit suicide mentally. I want to kill my physical self. But I don't dare to die It's the physical me that's begging the spiritual me What I want to end is pain, not life
What should I say? The rhythm is pretty good. Because it's not like I haven't seen similar types of movies before. Lord The line is also reborn like this, and then gets better and better. But the previous one really disgusted me. I obviously didn't want to talk to the second male lead, but I still talked about it, and that was all. Then you two are still young, so I think it's appropriate. Later, we talked about someone who was more than ten or twenty years older, and he was also a chief physician. That's why I saw that when the school idol appeared in junior high school, I started to be afraid, but I was relieved when the relationship between the two was not described later. Later, it would be okay to skip high school and write directly to the relationship line after college, but I feel like I can still describe high school. This way it won't be too thin, because I feel that if I write about high school and college, I can add at least 100,000 words.
Some love cannot be obtained by asking for it, and some people cannot be obtained by wishing for it. Even if it is family affection, even if it is a relative, so what? There is a time in life, and there is no time in life. Don't force it, because it is not yours. Many people can't understand it, but there are really such relatives. It seems that they are not born to live in peace and are used to quarrel and fight. Sometimes it is good to let them go and let go of yourself, as long as you have a clear conscience. But fortunately, our heroine did not ruin herself in the end. Not only is she so good, but she can also receive beautiful love congratulations! ! Great article! There are many ways to behave in the world, many ways to get along with relatives, and there are many ways to deal with the relationship between classmates and colleagues. It is very good, very realistic and real. [Like][Like] Come on
After watching it, it was a very real rebirth, and the extra story also explained the male protagonist and female protagonist in the previous life. After rebirth, the male and female protagonists finally came together by fate and lived a happy life, no longer having to struggle in pain. It's the ending I want [Blowing Kiss] that gives me full marks after watching it! I have a lot of emotions in my heart, it is a very realistic novel.
I almost missed this great book based on the ratings! It really portrays everyone's psychology. Rebirth is not a panacea. Here is the living condition of ordinary people. However, there are too few chapters and it is not enough to read. Come on, author, come on Dear author, updates are so slow hahahahahahaha! All the waiting flowers have faded. If you don't update soon, you will lose me [awkward laugh][awkward laugh][awkward laugh]
I stayed up late to read it. It is a very realistic novel. It talks about very real contemporary issues. I feel that the heroine's reincarnation is to redeem her first life. The novel is very short and the reality is very long. I didn't read enough. There are some small flaws, that is, the names are sometimes written incorrectly and are not smooth. I think this is the best novel I've ever read. It's very sympathetic. 😁
It's so depressing, I feel a tightness in my chest.
Following the author's ideas, Duan Xiliang fell in love with a boy and then fell in love with Brother Pomegranate. I felt regretful but also thankful that I made the right choice. I also quite agree with the complicated description of the heroine's family relationship. Our parents love us but not that much. We hate them to death but are reluctant to let them have troubles. This kind of pulling relationship is the reaction of normal people. It is really very immersive.
Hahaha, I still gave it five stars. Friends who want to read it can jump in boldly. The author's writing is good. Not much to say about the plot. The reason why I read half of this book and then stopped reading it is because I have a similar experience to the protagonist. My mother's controlling desire is the same as the protagonist's parents. There was a chapter before the author that reminded me of my previous memories. I was very scared. When I read that chapter, my heart tightened, so I didn't have the courage to read any more. Because I wrote some paragraph reviews before, which were seen by other readers, and then people kept giving me likes. When I saw the likes today on March 18, 2026, I was curious whether the book was finished, so I clicked in. Found out it's been over a year. When I followed this book, it was still being serialized. After watching the extra episode, I felt quite mixed. I am a single-parent family, and my guardian is a breadwinner of the state. He has no worries about food and clothing, and he did not give me a younger brother. Even after I graduated, I was blindly urged to find a job, but fortunately I was not urged to get married. Another sentence, the extra line "What do you think?" Really shocked me. I understand everything Fortunately we have grown up.
Woo woo After reading this book, I feel that I am still favored. Some of my prejudices against my parents have changed, and some of my misunderstandings about real-life interpersonal relationships have also been answered. Thank you very much to the author [love] Why is it that no one is following such a beautiful book? Come and join me in urging readers to update it [crying]
Although he is reborn, it is particularly real because there is no golden finger. This is not an ordinary refreshing article. It is often a bit frustrating, but you can always see the shadow of life. It's well written. I hope the heroine can break out of the prison and have freedom.
The description of family life is very good, the logic is smooth, and most of the human character traits of the parents and grandparents of their time are truly restored. Guilt style, suppression style, nagging and spoiling style, self-sacrifice touching style, moral kidnapping style, traditional patriarchal thinking, conflicting relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, etc.
It's actually pretty good-looking. Although there are many twists and turns with the suffocating original family, I like the final ending very much! Not everyone can go back in time and completely change everything. After all, we are all just ordinary people. I feel that the heroine shouldn't be acting like this, just because bystanders know that everyone inside is an emotional animal.
It's good. I feel like I have a very cold relationship with my parents. I don't have much to say. I will fight back immediately if I'm forced. I know it's concern, but I still can't help it.
It's so real [crying] [crying] [crying] But it's just because it's very realistic and frustrating. Hey [I'm about to cry] [I'm about to cry] [I'm about to cry] Real families are so depressing
The writing is very good. It has been a long time since I read a new novel. The golden finger is too wide now, and there is no sense of immersion in any space or spiritual spring. The heroine is very sober and hard-working, and I like to see her grow.
It's very beautiful, very real, and very close to the living conditions of ordinary people.
Good-looking, very consistent with the actual situation