This book comprehensively and systematically reveals the application of psychology in eloquence skills, guiding readers to grasp the appropriateness of silence, the right time to speak, the rightness of speech, the importance of speaking and joking with others, the appropriateness of speech when mediating disputes and motivating others, and knowing how to ask others so that they will speak, and how to speak so that others will listen.
Reader comments
From ancient times to the present, eloquence has played a vital role in a person's survival and development. As the saying goes, "It's not about talking too much, it's about being precise." This book tells readers how to read people's words, how to use language to meet the other person's psychological needs, and speak every word into the other person's heart, so as to become a truly eloquent social master! Language is an art, and the old saying "think before you act" is also applicable to speaking. Language is often related to psychology. You should first understand a person's heart in order to better organize language, adapt to the occasion, and achieve the goal.
There is an inextricable connection between psychology and eloquence. Speaking is very simple, just open your mouth and you can do it. Whether the words are expressed clearly or not depends on psychology. For example, when we meet strangers, we know how to speak to express the tacit understanding of "we are like old friends"; when we get along with friends and colleagues, we know how to speak to be recognized by everyone; when we get along with family members, we know how to speak to make family relationships more harmonious, etc. People who cannot speak may not express what they mean, or even hurt others with their words. It can be seen that the relationship between psychology and eloquence is very important and needs people to pay attention to. This book "Psychology and Speaking Skills" explains the relationship between the two very well to readers and is worth reading.
A large part of emotional intelligence refers to being able to speak, and the standard of being able to speak is knowing when to say what to say to make others feel comfortable, which naturally involves understanding the other person's psychology. This book starts from the connection between eloquence and psychology. It first discusses the research results of psychology on human psychological reaction mechanism, and then explains how to speak in compliance with the conclusions of psychological research. Finally, it describes the speaking skills in common life situations. From theory to application, the logic is clear and the structure is rigorous.
As the book says, "A good beginning is half the battle", the opening is really important! Moreover, the book also mentioned the first impression effect, which made me understand the importance of leaving a good impression on others. I think this book not only helps my eloquence, but also greatly improves my interpersonal relationships. I recommend it to you!
Eloquence often determines our success in life and career. This is not an exaggeration. People with eloquence can better control the rhythm of life, and people with eloquence can better balance the relationship between work. Second, people with eloquence often have great wisdom and can see the complexity of interpersonal relationships clearly, and can seize benefits from them, and move toward success little by little. This book is about teaching eloquence, and it also tells you a lot of psychological knowledge, so that we can understand the psychology of others through body movements. And speak the corresponding dialogue suitable for changing, which is even more powerful!
Very good book
Not to mention the 20th and 30th floors, even the 2nd and 3rd floors are very difficult. I did everything the host said, but the gold coins still didn't go up.
From ancient times to the present, eloquence has played a vital role in a person's survival and development. As the saying goes, "It's not about talking too much, it's about being precise." This book tells readers how to read people's words, how to use language to meet the other person's psychological needs, and speak every word into the other person's heart, so as to become a truly eloquent social master! Language is an art, and the old saying "think before you act" is also applicable to speaking. Language is often related to psychology. You should first understand a person's heart in order to better organize language, adapt to the occasion, and achieve the goal.
There is an inextricable connection between psychology and eloquence. Speaking is very simple, just open your mouth and you can do it. Whether the words are expressed clearly or not depends on psychology. For example, when we meet strangers, we know how to speak to express the tacit understanding of "we are like old friends"; when we get along with friends and colleagues, we know how to speak to be recognized by everyone; when we get along with family members, we know how to speak to make family relationships more harmonious, etc. People who cannot speak may not express what they mean, or even hurt others with their words. It can be seen that the relationship between psychology and eloquence is very important and needs people to pay attention to. This book "Psychology and Speaking Skills" explains the relationship between the two very well to readers and is worth reading.
A large part of emotional intelligence refers to being able to speak, and the standard of being able to speak is knowing when to say what to say to make others feel comfortable, which naturally involves understanding the other person's psychology. This book starts from the connection between eloquence and psychology. It first discusses the research results of psychology on human psychological reaction mechanism, and then explains how to speak in compliance with the conclusions of psychological research. Finally, it describes the speaking skills in common life situations. From theory to application, the logic is clear and the structure is rigorous.
As the book says, "A good beginning is half the battle", the opening is really important! Moreover, the book also mentioned the first impression effect, which made me understand the importance of leaving a good impression on others. I think this book not only helps my eloquence, but also greatly improves my interpersonal relationships. I recommend it to you!
Eloquence often determines our success in life and career. This is not an exaggeration. People with eloquence can better control the rhythm of life, and people with eloquence can better balance the relationship between work. Second, people with eloquence often have great wisdom and can see the complexity of interpersonal relationships clearly, and can seize benefits from them, and move toward success little by little. This book is about teaching eloquence, and it also tells you a lot of psychological knowledge, so that we can understand the psychology of others through body movements. And speak the corresponding dialogue suitable for changing, which is even more powerful!
Very good book
Not to mention the 20th and 30th floors, even the 2nd and 3rd floors are very difficult. I did everything the host said, but the gold coins still didn't go up.