Accept Your Imperfections (2018 Version)

"Those qualities in you that you don't like are actually your most valuable assets." We have been taught to "chase perfection" since childhood. When I read this book as a child, I was easily moved by the sincerity of the author's request to give up perfection, and tears inevitably came to my eyes. The author said, "Be a good person, or be a complete person?" I think this is a question that most Chinese children need to ask themselves. The author's language is plain and clear, helping every reader break the "myth of perfection" and have a more tolerant mentality and power of tolerance.

When we can accept both the light and dark sides of our souls, we can reduce the negative effects of the shadows and re-release the life energy originally wasted on self-suppression and self-disguise. Come. We always like to use black and white standards to classify things, but we don't know that everything is a unity of contradictions, a reconciliation of black and white, good and bad, good and evil, beauty and ugliness. What others have, we also have, but the degree of expression is different. As long as we acknowledge and accept certain negative qualities in our hearts, the qualities displayed by others will not have an impact on us. Only in this way can we truly get along with others.

There is a type of person in this world called perfectionists. They are very strict with others and themselves, especially themselves. They cannot accept any flaws in themselves. Everything must be perfect, whether it is their own character or their work. Tired? I can say that this is very tiring, because I am this kind of person, and I slowly came to understand that in fact, everyone has their own imperfections and their own dark side. We should be tolerant and accept him. There is no need to put such a heavy burden on yourself.

When we can accept both the light and dark sides of our souls, we can reduce the negative effects of the shadows and release the life energy originally wasted on self-repression and self-disguise. We always like to use black and white standards to classify things, but we don't know that everything is a unity of contradictions, a reconciliation of black and white, good and bad, good and evil, beauty and ugliness. What others have, we also have, but the degree of expression is different. As long as we acknowledge and accept certain negative qualities in our hearts, the qualities displayed by others will not have an impact on us. Only in this way can we truly get along with others.

Perfect, this is a negative statement. No one or thing is truly perfect. Even the best people have flaws. This is a spiritual guide to self-acceptance and growth. Through in-depth discussions and examples, the author guides readers to understand and accept their own imperfections and cultivate self-esteem and self-confidence. This book provides practical advice and psychological techniques to help people develop a positive self-image and a healthy mindset. After reading this book, I have a deeper understanding of myself and understand that no one is perfect and we must learn to accept our imperfections.

Would you rather be a good person or a complete person? Some people say it's hard to be a good person. That's because you can't accept your bad side and always get yourself into trouble by pretending in front of others and blaming yourself behind others. When we accept our imperfections, we can find our true selves. "Those so-called 'flaws' of yours, those traits that you don't like, are actually your most valuable assets, but the degree of expression is a bit too strong."

This book resonated with me and made me understand that everyone is imperfect. Just like me, I always felt that I was timid and didn't dare to show off in front of everyone. But after reading this book, I began to try to accept my imperfections and found that being timid can also make me more cautious. I like the viewpoints in the book. It allows me to understand myself more comprehensively and gives me more courage to pursue my dreams. I think this book is not only suitable for reading by myself, but also suitable for giving to friends so that we can grow together.

I originally had a paper version of this book at home, but because I was used to reading on my mobile phone, I found this version, which has the same content as the paper book. I feel that every sentence in this book is very deeply rooted in people's hearts. It feels like the author talks to our hearts from his heart. Not arrogant teaching, nor ordinary methodology, but spiritual guidance. If you have trouble falling asleep or wake up in the morning, you will fall asleep easily after reading this book. This does not mean that this book is boring, but this book is relaxing. Let the mind relax. This book was almost 20 years ago, and I just read it now, but it is very effective. Some roads have been walked before. As long as you are willing to read, you can always meet experienced teachers you have never met before.

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This book made me think about a lot of things, it's great! Recommended.