In interpersonal relationships, are you afraid of conflicts with others, accustomed to hiding and suppressing, and feeling deeply aggrieved and lonely? Or they always want to change others according to their own ideas, making enemies everywhere, making interpersonal relationships very tense, and both parties losing the space for independent growth.
In this suffocating relationship, everyone is like a pot of porridge, without their own uniqueness and integrity, becoming a mob.
And this book tells us that whether it is in the relationship between husband and wife, the relationship between parents and children, or the relationship between friends and colleagues, we should not suppress ourselves or change others, nor should we be afraid of differences and conflicts. As long as you listen to the different drum sounds and get rid of the self-centered psychological habit, you can accept each other's differences and establish a good relationship.
In a good relationship, everyone maintains their complete ingredients and rich taste like a salad. Each person regards the other as a precious living being, accepts and appreciates each other, and the relationship is filled with sincerity, true love and sincerity. This kind of authentic relationship has powerful healing power and is a great antidote to the "rabble."
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Sincerity is the best medicine for healing. Face your own fragility, negativity, anger, anxiety, stress, depression, inexplicable evil thoughts, and self-righteous narrow thoughts sincerely. Sincerely expose them to the sun. Exposed to those who will listen, exposed to those willing to receive. The wounds in your heart will be healed. Face the vulnerability of others sincerely and listen to others' voices sincerely. Understand differences, respect differences, let go of yourself, be accepting and tolerant. You can also gain the power to heal others. We are so similar, yet so different...
Prejudice, narrow-mindedness, self-righteousness, and preconceptions. Self-centered. Lack of empathy and respect are obstacles for people to establish sincere relationships. Only by overcoming them and transcending them can we find our soul mates...
I was deeply inspired by this book. It tells us that in various relationships, we should listen to different voices, do not try to change the other person, and do not suppress ourselves. As the book says, a good relationship is like a salad, kept intact on its own. I love this metaphor. The book also mentions that the fear of death is actually the fear of the disappearance of relationships, which I also resonate with. All in all, this is a book that can help people better understand relationships and is worth reading.
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Listening to different voices and accepting means recognizing the different things in others; respecting means putting each other on an equal footing and not being arrogant and trying to change the other person.
So accept yourself and accept others.
Sincerity is the best medicine for healing. Face your own fragility, negativity, anger, anxiety, stress, depression, inexplicable evil thoughts, and self-righteous narrow thoughts sincerely. Sincerely expose them to the sun. Exposed to those who will listen, exposed to those willing to receive. The wounds in your heart will be healed. Face the vulnerability of others sincerely and listen to others' voices sincerely. Understand differences, respect differences, let go of yourself, be accepting and tolerant. You can also gain the power to heal others. We are so similar, yet so different... Prejudice, narrow-mindedness, self-righteousness, and preconceptions. Self-centered. Lack of empathy and respect are obstacles for people to establish sincere relationships. Only by overcoming them and transcending them can we find our soul mates...
I was deeply inspired by this book. It tells us that in various relationships, we should listen to different voices, do not try to change the other person, and do not suppress ourselves. As the book says, a good relationship is like a salad, kept intact on its own. I love this metaphor. The book also mentions that the fear of death is actually the fear of the disappearance of relationships, which I also resonate with. All in all, this is a book that can help people better understand relationships and is worth reading.
Good looking Listening to different voices and accepting means recognizing the different things in others; respecting means putting each other on an equal footing and not being arrogant and trying to change the other person. So accept yourself and accept others.