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The connection between mother and child is only a part of the rights. When the mother feels that the child is so small, needs protection and comes into this world without permission, "love" is produced. "Love" is a very ethereal thing, and it is the existence and reason that never makes people choose firmly from beginning to end. "Love" will make a mother have weaknesses and become another individual that does not belong to her. Therefore, as the mother protagonist, she finally chose death because of the so-called life that does not know whether it is a baby or a child. There is no reason for a mother's love for her unborn child. Everyone says it is miraculous and unique. Almost most people think it is natural, but maybe it is a kind of hormonal control, if you look at it from a scientific point of view. However, the mother is a person, and people are always dominated by emotions. Reason is always weak in this war of ideas, so the maternal protagonist cannot forgive herself, so she chooses to give birth to a child who has been in her belly for more than two months. Then why is it a "son"? Maybe it's because as a mother, she subconsciously longs for a stronger supporter than herself. Maybe it's because she wants to kill the patriarchal oppression of this society. Maybe it's because she doesn't want her "daughter", a daughter who may look exactly like her, to suffer torture that she shouldn't have to endure. That is a mother's resistance to society and the "love" she expects and reserves for her child. I think many mothers love their children, but this "love" often restrains their children. The children will feel stressed because they have not met the mother's expectations. The children will blame themselves and feel guilty for resisting the mother's requirements. "Love" has become a shackles, causing the children to lose their only "freedom". Therefore, the protagonist always thinks that the child is his/her own, and although there is no real freedom, she hopes that the child will at least be free when she is alone. I once asked my mother: Does marriage bring her any benefits? The answer is: no. I was a little disappointed. I felt as if my own existence limited my mother's life. "But..." My mother said, "It's good to have a child." At that moment, my heart beat so fast that it was about to break away from my body and run to an unknown distance. There is no moment where I am more convinced of my mother's selfless love for me than at this moment. Even though my mother is always estranged from me and not very close to me, and she rarely takes the initiative to talk to me, she is a practical activist. I think I love her too, but not as much as she loves me.

I think she is great as a mother. If she got pregnant before marriage, most people would think it was the girl's fault. However, it was the man who abandoned his wife and child. But she still looked forward to a new life, and when she began to know that she had this child, she said she hoped to get a response from the child whether she was willing to come to this world. Even if there was no response, she wrote to the child hoping that she would have the courage to face the difficulties of this world instead of regretting coming to this world. All suffering in the world is unavoidable, but only by being steadfast can you be yourself.

This book truly shows the inner world of an unmarried mother. Her struggles, fears and thoughts about the future are all relatable. The book mentions "Who gave you the right to come into this world?" This sentence is really thought-provoking. I kind of hate the child who started questioning his mother in her womb, but this also reflects the reality that some children don't understand their parents. Overall, this is a book worth reading and will give people a deeper understanding of life.

Some writing techniques are worth learning, and there are also some insightful analyzes and truths. The whole book is constantly asking oneself about contradictions, and the sublimation at the end is also a kind of relief and truth. Overall, it is not bad.

It is equally important to see through the essence of marriage, understand that children are free, identify with one's own identity as a woman, and always insist on one's own consciousness. The self-consciousness is very powerful. I am really shocked in every chapter. It is a very advanced consciousness.

It's not God's choice, nor fate's arrangement, it's your trust in me, child. It is because of this trust that you became my child and I became a mother. I brought you into this world to continue life, just as we have done for millions of years.

Very tough woman

Good looking, easy to understand content

Nice! ! ! ! I spent some time reading it in the afternoon.