"Intimate Relationships" is a psychological book that uses psychological theoretical methods and combines the author's many years of practical experience in emotional counseling to answer questions about intimate relationships for readers. In an intimate relationship, we often ask: What is true love? Why are we always deeply hurt by the people we love? Where does love go after the passion fades? How to have a healthy and long-lasting intimate relationship?
In this book, the author will analyze the three elements of love, eight potential models of intimacy, and the seven levels of self-awareness of the iceberg principle, etc., To analyze profound issues such as family of origin, emotional crisis, and mistaking needs for love in intimate relationships one by one. He will provide practical solutions to help readers find their true selves and establish a happy lifelong intimate relationship.
Reader comments
Since I'm in a relationship, I wanted to read this book to see if it would inspire me. American psychologist and cognitive psychologist Robert Sternberg once proposed a famous theory called the "Triarchic Theory of Love." He believes that love and marriage relationships consist of three basic elements, namely intimacy, passion and commitment. Whether it is perfect love or a happy marriage, these three are indispensable. Intimacy is an emotional connection, a communication between hearts; passion is an instinctive part of the body and a primitive human impulse. Promise means "I will do what I promise you," and you must do what you say. In marriage, the promise is to "hold your hand and grow old together with your son." When passion, intimacy, and commitment exist together, what we get is perfect love.
Through this book, we can see that the use of psychological theoretical methods combined with actual emotional experience can answer many questions in intimate relationships for readers. By analyzing various relationships such as the three elements of love, eight potential patterns in intimate relationships, and the seven levels of self-awareness of the iceberg principle, the author analyzes the causes of the problems and proposes practical solutions. In this way, we can establish a healthy and lifelong happy intimate relationship. It has theories and examples. I was very inspired after reading it.
Intimacy is becoming a luxury in this day and age. We dare not love, cannot love, and to a large extent, cannot have love. The author of this book has many years of experience in emotional counseling and has a deep understanding of the big and small problems in intimate relationships. Therefore, this book he wrote is of great help to us in solving the above problems. Let us understand what love is, how to manage love, and how to deal with the problems encountered in the process of love. As the author said, "The end of love is not perfection." Don't always compare your ideal love template with reality. Imperfect love is the true meaning of life.
Through this book, we can see that the use of psychological theoretical methods combined with actual emotional experience can answer many questions in intimate relationships for readers. By analyzing various relationships such as the three elements of love, eight potential patterns in intimate relationships, and the seven levels of self-awareness of the iceberg principle, the author analyzes the causes of the problems and proposes practical solutions. In this way, we can establish a healthy and lifelong happy intimate relationship. It has theories and examples. I was very inspired after reading it.
From the leader's book, I sometimes blame myself for not being able to speak well, but I can learn a lot from the book. After reading the book, I have a new transformation, which is also growth in a certain sense.
"It is not easy for two originally independent individuals to live together." This is a sentence that the author has deeply realized after many years of emotional counseling and his own years of marriage experience. The love between two people needs to be managed. This book uses case studies to answer some questions about intimate relationships. For example, what is true love? What types of love are there? What kind of people are suitable to be together? How to distinguish true love from no love? After reading this book, you will have a more scientific perspective on love.
This book is wonderful, and it also taught me a lot of ways and methods of getting along between the sexes, and I benefited a lot.
Refreshed my own understanding and realized my own shortcomings
Very practical! It helped me a lot. Thank you, leader.
This book reminded me of my parents. They sometimes have conflicts and contradictions, but I can feel that they love each other. The book says that intimacy is a process from "I" to "we", which I think makes sense. Just like me and my good friends, we share secrets with each other and support each other. This is intimacy. I would recommend this book to them and hope that we can all have healthy and long-lasting intimate relationships.
Through the book "Intimacy", we can see that the use of psychological theoretical methods combined with actual emotional experience can answer many questions in intimate relationships for readers. By analyzing various relationships such as the three elements of love, the eight potential patterns in intimate relationships, and the seven levels of self-awareness of the iceberg principle, the author analyzes the causes of the problems one by one and proposes practical solutions. In order to establish a healthy and lifelong happy intimate relationship, it is a good book worth reading.
This is a very thought-provoking work that carefully analyzes our misunderstandings in intimate relationships and helps us find the inner reasons why love cannot last. I believe that friends who read the book carefully and think positively will eventually be happy.
This book allowed me to see the truth hidden under emotions and behaviors. I believe that I will become a better myself when I see the truth clearly.
Very useful and interesting
Very well written and very touching
After reading the book, I burst into tears
This is a great book, so you can better understand how two people in a close relationship become alienated, and how they communicate to achieve intimacy.
It's a very good book. If you read it carefully, you will learn a lot.
Not bad, worth reading
Very good and detailed
Understand human nature and care for yourself
Very good book
I'm going to buy the paper version, I like reading books.
After learning it, try to change it yourself first.
It will be helpful to deal with the relationship between husband and wife
A very thought-provoking book, I have benefited a lot
It's so well written, I've benefited a lot, and I still need to learn and grow.
I have benefited a lot from this book. I hope everyone can find happiness.
A very good book, worth reading again and again
There is content, you can refer to it, and it's worth reading.
Since I'm in a relationship, I wanted to read this book to see if it would inspire me. American psychologist and cognitive psychologist Robert Sternberg once proposed a famous theory called the "Triarchic Theory of Love." He believes that love and marriage relationships consist of three basic elements, namely intimacy, passion and commitment. Whether it is perfect love or a happy marriage, these three are indispensable. Intimacy is an emotional connection, a communication between hearts; passion is an instinctive part of the body and a primitive human impulse. Promise means "I will do what I promise you," and you must do what you say. In marriage, the promise is to "hold your hand and grow old together with your son." When passion, intimacy, and commitment exist together, what we get is perfect love.
Through this book, we can see that the use of psychological theoretical methods combined with actual emotional experience can answer many questions in intimate relationships for readers. By analyzing various relationships such as the three elements of love, eight potential patterns in intimate relationships, and the seven levels of self-awareness of the iceberg principle, the author analyzes the causes of the problems and proposes practical solutions. In this way, we can establish a healthy and lifelong happy intimate relationship. It has theories and examples. I was very inspired after reading it.
Intimacy is becoming a luxury in this day and age. We dare not love, cannot love, and to a large extent, cannot have love. The author of this book has many years of experience in emotional counseling and has a deep understanding of the big and small problems in intimate relationships. Therefore, this book he wrote is of great help to us in solving the above problems. Let us understand what love is, how to manage love, and how to deal with the problems encountered in the process of love. As the author said, "The end of love is not perfection." Don't always compare your ideal love template with reality. Imperfect love is the true meaning of life.
Through this book, we can see that the use of psychological theoretical methods combined with actual emotional experience can answer many questions in intimate relationships for readers. By analyzing various relationships such as the three elements of love, eight potential patterns in intimate relationships, and the seven levels of self-awareness of the iceberg principle, the author analyzes the causes of the problems and proposes practical solutions. In this way, we can establish a healthy and lifelong happy intimate relationship. It has theories and examples. I was very inspired after reading it.
From the leader's book, I sometimes blame myself for not being able to speak well, but I can learn a lot from the book. After reading the book, I have a new transformation, which is also growth in a certain sense.
"It is not easy for two originally independent individuals to live together." This is a sentence that the author has deeply realized after many years of emotional counseling and his own years of marriage experience. The love between two people needs to be managed. This book uses case studies to answer some questions about intimate relationships. For example, what is true love? What types of love are there? What kind of people are suitable to be together? How to distinguish true love from no love? After reading this book, you will have a more scientific perspective on love.
This book is wonderful, and it also taught me a lot of ways and methods of getting along between the sexes, and I benefited a lot.
Refreshed my own understanding and realized my own shortcomings
Very practical! It helped me a lot. Thank you, leader.
This book reminded me of my parents. They sometimes have conflicts and contradictions, but I can feel that they love each other. The book says that intimacy is a process from "I" to "we", which I think makes sense. Just like me and my good friends, we share secrets with each other and support each other. This is intimacy. I would recommend this book to them and hope that we can all have healthy and long-lasting intimate relationships.
Through the book "Intimacy", we can see that the use of psychological theoretical methods combined with actual emotional experience can answer many questions in intimate relationships for readers. By analyzing various relationships such as the three elements of love, the eight potential patterns in intimate relationships, and the seven levels of self-awareness of the iceberg principle, the author analyzes the causes of the problems one by one and proposes practical solutions. In order to establish a healthy and lifelong happy intimate relationship, it is a good book worth reading.
This is a very thought-provoking work that carefully analyzes our misunderstandings in intimate relationships and helps us find the inner reasons why love cannot last. I believe that friends who read the book carefully and think positively will eventually be happy.
This book allowed me to see the truth hidden under emotions and behaviors. I believe that I will become a better myself when I see the truth clearly.
Very useful and interesting
Very well written and very touching
After reading the book, I burst into tears
This is a great book, so you can better understand how two people in a close relationship become alienated, and how they communicate to achieve intimacy.
It's a very good book. If you read it carefully, you will learn a lot.
Not bad, worth reading
Very good and detailed
Understand human nature and care for yourself
Very good book
I'm going to buy the paper version, I like reading books.
After learning it, try to change it yourself first.
It will be helpful to deal with the relationship between husband and wife
A very thought-provoking book, I have benefited a lot
It's so well written, I've benefited a lot, and I still need to learn and grow. I have benefited a lot from this book. I hope everyone can find happiness.
A very good book, worth reading again and again
There is content, you can refer to it, and it's worth reading.