There Is No Such Thing as Easy in the Adult World

The content of the book is very realistic and the views are also very correct. In the adult world, in addition to the immediate stalemate, there is still daily necessities, poetry and distant places only exist in the lives of the rich and in the hearts of the poor. If you don't have capital, you must work very hard and achieve independence - spiritual independence, financial independence, personality independence, emotional independence... Only in this way can you not be led by the nose by life, but be able to shine in these fragmented days, have your own little world, and bring support to the people you love and the people who love you.

Use love to occupy the field, and rely on strength to become the king. May the idealistic boy never be reconciled to reality.

The author is amazing. He always gives us some advice after giving some examples, which is both interesting and useful. For example, "Remember, every thought of working hard is your future self asking for help from your present self; and every lazy behavior is a sign of your future self." It is you who are digging holes for you in the future." Xin Qiji once wrote: "I see how charming Qingshan is, and I expect that Qingshan will see me like this." I suggest you change it slightly: "I see that you are sick, but you will see me like this." If you like it, come and read it. [Eat melon] [eat melon] [eat melon]

This book is written truthfully with a touch of humor, and it penetrates the heart and true side of adults. From the other side, it writes the truths and insights about life and society, thus revealing the lives and emotions of adults.

The biggest feeling after watching it is to "accept everything" and accept everything that happens in life, good and bad, they all have to be faced, they are all traces of growth, accept the ordinaryness of parents, accept the departure of friends, accept everything that happens. Live the present moment well, accept growth, accept that you have grown up and are no longer a child, and you must learn to be independent. If you want to do something, be brave enough to do it! Do what you like and don't worry about anything. In fact, after reading it, you will gain a lot, which is a good reality. This is the reality, so please live well!

It's a very good book, not like Chicken Soup for the Soul, which is extremely powerful when you read it and doesn't move after reading it. Many of them are true and true, neither exaggerated nor false. After reading them, I feel that many of the sentences are enough to take time to ponder.

"A little boy has few worries and looks around at the sunshine." When we were children, we were always so happy, not anxious or irritable. But as we grow up day by day, that little boy begins to no longer be carefree. There are worries both in life and in study. This may be the price of growing up, but we must learn to digest these worries. , If we cannot see the good side of the world, we will fall into the quagmire, and this book is like a pair of strong palms, pulling us out of the quagmire. The book says that we should live a peaceful life from trivial matters. There are too many ups and downs in this world. Accept your own ordinaryness, reconcile with yourself, and find your own satisfaction in this messy life.

This book mainly talks about the dilemmas and problems faced by adults, both senior and junior, emphasizing that the challenges and responsibilities faced by adults are usually complex and difficult. This sentence conveys a realistic point of view, that is, in adult life, few things are easy and easy to accomplish, and it feels somewhat sad and tearful. Of course, the author's starting point is actually to remind people to have a realistic mentality and have courage and determination when facing difficulties. It also conveys an understanding and respect for the maturity and experience of adults, as well as the importance of continuous effort and struggle required in the process of growth and development.

The writing is really wonderful, and it brings out the difficulties of adults to the fullest. It also made me learn a lot, understand myself better, and get to know myself! Thank you very much. It's a book worth reading. I've read a lot of books. You are the only one who can find a book in the vast sea of ​​learning that is suitable for you and like to read several times!

So what exactly do you want to experience in life? It is to fall in love and then experience love, hate and separation. It is to strive to become excellent, and then experience the law of the jungle and "being beaten if you fall behind." It is to pay attention to health, and then experience high energy and "sickness comes like a mountain". It is to go down to earth, and then experience "a village with dark flowers and bright flowers" and "extremely unlucky". It is to build friendships, and then experience long-awaited reunions and unhappy separations. Instead of worrying about the meaning of life all day long, it is better to use your limited life to do more meaningful things. Life is like a long barbecue. It would be a waste if you don't stop by for a few barbecues. Therefore, don't shout "Subtract your life" at a young age, don't say "life is boring" without having experienced the world, and don't wait until you are old to think about "why you weren't braver in the first place". Hit the wall while it's still possible, otherwise you'll be thinking about "what will happen if you hit the wall" your whole life.

It was only in the middle of reading that I realized that I own this book. I didn't feel the same way twice when I read it. I feel it is suitable for people who have worked for two years. I didn't have any insights from watching it before, just like the words of adults when I was a kid, saying so many things that I have never experienced goes in one ear and out the other. Now that I have experienced severe beatings from society, I feel disgusted and frustrated when I see people like this constantly complaining about all kinds of problems. Because of experience, everyone has their own understanding. If you look at it as a whole, you will feel that every sentence is the same. It is like taking a sentence apart and explaining it in different ways. It is repetitive and boring. If it were given to people who have been out of society for two years and don't have a lot of experience, perhaps they would be more enlightened and inspired.

I just want to say a few words before I finish reading it. The content of the article feels like the author has personally experienced what he is talking about. I deeply understand the helplessness that work brings to us. The drawing I designed has been revised five times. The owner's final sentence is to use the first drawing. I am angry in my heart, but my face is pleasant, and my heart has long wanted to slap me twice. How can the helplessness of migrant workers be understood in two sentences? How can this life be perfect without experiencing the ups and downs, the helplessness of life, the entanglement of trivial matters, and the baptism of the spirit [face covering]

Some books relieve stress by being funny or making people cry. This book relies on empathy and strong resonance! The author really understands today's young people. You can find answers to almost all unhappiness in this book: overwhelming odds and ends, frustrated perfectionism, new roles full of confusion, anxious work, endless overtime, drifting away friendships, ways to become the ideal adult, boundless Real grievances, flammable and explosive emotions, rationality that often collapses, enthusiasm that frequently flames out... This book is not just a slogan, nor is it unconscionable to say that the years are quiet, but it helps young people to explain clearly to you the things in their lives that are "inexplicable, unclear, constantly cutting, and confusing" from the author's unique perspective.

After reading this book, I was very inspired. It explains life and at the same time tells us the good and evil of being a human being. It uses many real-life examples to illustrate the truth and improves the pattern. I highly recommend readers to read this book. It is very meaningful. Thank you to the author and the philosophy this book brought to me [Like]

Many of the ideas in this book are like knives piercing people's hearts. It does have a certain motivating effect for me who wants to change but has stopped moving forward. This is your life, have fun and live your life

It writes about life very clearly, and it shows that it is not easy for adults in reality, and they have to work hard. Even if they are superior to others, they must not look down on others, and they must treat themselves as human beings. I really like how talented the author is

A book that can be read carefully, which makes people feel deeply.

Fortunately, I noticed this book; I am honored that I read this book seriously. From the beginning, this book seemed to have penetrated my inner thoughts. It was simply a true reflection of my heart. If I read it carefully, I was full of insights. It will tell me that life is something I want to explore on my own. The road is bustling, but being alone is true; it will tell me that friendship cannot be forced, and that different circles in our lives cannot be without a little change; it will tell me that love is not within reach, and that we must keep running in to make it possible to join hands in the next journey... We are all growing up day by day, and time is passing by day by day. Maybe you will meet good people, maybe you will meet bad people. There are lucky days and unlucky days. People come and go. Please firmly believe that everything you do, every decision, and every person will make you better and better~

The writing is very good and the book is really beautiful. I used to feel like I was a child. After reading the books about adults, I slowly realized that I was already in the ranks of adults. The helplessness and sadness are really what adults have to face. I also learned a lot from the book.

Very positive energy! And there are many inspirational quotes that touch people's hearts. ٩(*´◒`*)۶

It really touched my pain points, and the methods provided are also very practical. For me, it is a fruitful book, rather than pure chicken soup literature. It's quite difficult to do this, so give the author a thumbs up.

I really like this book and read it over and over again

Yes, this book uses straightforward but not rude language to reveal the essence of interpersonal relationships and life. It can allow you to imagine a clean world without being addicted to it, and live your life soberly.

It's beautiful, the language is humorous, and the reasoning is not arty [Adoration] [Adoration] [Blowing a kiss] [Sending a heart]

This book is very real. It allowed me to see how difficult the adult world is and also gave me a lot of inspiration. I like some of the stories and characters in the book, they make me feel the ups and downs of life. Some of the plots about workplace and love particularly resonated with me. This book is like a friend, giving me some comfort and encouragement when I was confused and tired. I think it's worth reading, especially for people who are working towards their dreams.

I love this article, it really speaks to my heart

Although the writing style in some parts is average and looks a bit deliberate, the story and truth in the article are very real. The deeper you go, the deeper your understanding becomes. It is a good book worth reading.

Use the most understandable words to explain each heart-breaking example, hit the nail on the head, and have a lot of feelings.

It's a very good book. I left my job and couldn't find a satisfactory job. Anxiety swept over me. Reading this book made me calm. Talking to experts made me understand. You are afraid because you are afraid of looking embarrassed in front of the students. You are afraid of being compared with the IQ of good students; you are afraid that the pants you are wearing will show that your hips are too big, and you are afraid that students will laugh at your big butt; you are afraid of the job opportunity you finally won, the cold looks and ridicule of your colleagues because you are not perfectly qualified, and the disappointment of the person who gave you the job opportunity and look down upon you. I'm afraid of a lot of things, so I've read this book countless times. My fearful emotions can be digested, understood, and sympathized with here.

Not some chicken soup for the soul, but real adult life