Your Self-Confidence Determines Your Future

What we call self-confidence now actually runs counter to China's traditional culture and family education concepts. Most people grow up in a state of being suppressed and having their self-confidence suppressed. Because Chinese tradition believes that being low-key and humble are virtues and can keep people progressing. But what they fail to see is that children who have experienced this kind of persecution have a very low self-worth when they grow up, far lower than their actual abilities. Therefore, learning to be confident is not to make us look complacent, but to reintegrate one's inner self, outer self, knowledge, abilities, experiences, etc. After adulthood. This book explains that only by holding this key and allowing yourself to trust yourself and the world can you truly believe: Of course I am worthy of living in this world, and this world will not let me down.

The biggest inspiration that "Your Confidence Determines Your Future" gave me: The best things never come alone, but will accompany everything. What does the world look like? Everything depends on our hearts. What kind of world you want will be what kind of world you create. When you are not hostile, bored, or afraid of this world. You will gain a deeper and broader inner confidence as a result. I feel that I am a lucky person to have met such a good book and such a good author. When I keep this luck, I am happy.

The author Sister Twelve has healed many people with her books, including me. I have been her true fan for ten years. The outlook on life and values ​​she conveyed in the book have deeply affected me. I have been touched by her words and writings in many desperate moments, and they have had a profound impact on the shaping of my values. It is like a beam of light, a bright lamp, always waking you up with a word. Sometimes when I encounter difficulties, I always think about how the twelfth sister would handle it. Then I tried to imitate her ideas to solve the problem, and gradually I gained the strength to break through the difficult situation.

After reading this book, I know that everyone must have self-confidence and confidence in themselves, face everything bravely, believe that they are right, be calm and determined in their hearts, persistence is victory, march forward with head held high, and walk out on their own broad path. Believe in yourself, believe in the power of belief, I can do it, I can do it, I will definitely succeed! I'm the best! I am full of wisdom! I am the little sun, shining brightly, I am gold, shining everywhere! Come on!

Her book reminded me of my crush back then. When I fell in love with my sister's boyfriend, I thought to myself, how could I be like this? That was my sister's boyfriend. Every time I saw him, I would panic, but then I saw them hugging each other. At that moment, my heart twisted a little. At that time, I thought it was your brother-in-law waking up. Later, my sister found out that I liked my brother-in-law, and she asked me: "What would you do if your sister suddenly fell in love with her brother-in-law?" I panicked for a moment, then calmed down, and told him expressionlessly that he would stop me from falling in love with him. Later, during a big adventure, my sister invited her boyfriend to play with her. Later, my sister's boyfriend lost, and then suddenly someone called my sister's boyfriend and told me that I like you. Before I could react, he suddenly told me I like you, but my heart froze for a moment. Then someone suddenly reminded me to start the game. I thought about it again and again, alas, it's just a game, why bother? Then my sister lost the big game, and her boyfriend offered to let my sister hold him. Then, my sister blushed and hugged him. When she hugged him, he happened to be on my side, and then he looked at me provocatively. I sneered in my heart that I was just a foil. Slowly, I began to realize how difficult it is to have a crush. I plan to end this secret love, I've seen you countless times in places you can't see. Loving someone is a pantomime, but speaking out becomes a tragedy.

After watching it, I suddenly remembered that I was invincible when I was a child, but now I have too many worries and know that I can get better.

Before reading this book, I had always been in a state of low self-esteem and wanted to make changes. After reading this book, I know that everyone is unique, no one will always be with you, and living yourself is the most important thing.

This book is really good. I read it intermittently. There are many essences in the book. After I carefully understood it, I benefited a lot and it changed my mentality a lot. Coupled with theory and real life, I noticed that I dared to communicate with the opposite sex, joked, and communicated with eyes. In the past, I didn't dare to look directly into other people's eyes and always spoke with my eyes turned aside. However, there are still many things to improve, such as being overly concerned about other people's opinions and easily forgetting my own position. I am very happy with the changes in these few months!

Read a good book and make a good friend

Seeing yourself, feeling yourself, loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance. Life is a journey of constantly getting to know oneself, learning to have, lose, and be self-consistent along the way, and gradually self-confidence will follow.

Sometimes, it is always difficult for us to find confidence, so where does confidence come from and what is confidence? Some people believe that self-confidence is innate, a kind of character, and a unique aura; but in this book, the author always believes that self-confidence is something that each of us has. It is the spark in our hearts. As long as we are willing to ignite it, everyone can shine. Only when we are confident in ourselves, others, and the world can we discover better kindness in the world.

What we call self-confidence now actually runs counter to China's traditional culture and family education concepts. Most people grow up in a state of being suppressed and having their self-confidence suppressed. Because Chinese tradition believes that being low-key and humble are virtues and can keep people progressing. But what they fail to see is that children who have experienced this kind of persecution have a very low self-worth when they grow up, far lower than their actual abilities. Therefore, learning to be confident is not to make us look complacent, but to reintegrate one's inner self, outer self, knowledge, abilities, experiences, etc. After adulthood. This book explains that only by holding this key and allowing yourself to trust yourself and the world can you truly believe: Of course I am worthy of living in this world, and this world will not let me down.

It is a work worth reading. After reading it, I believe it will comfort the readers' souls and help them face themselves and become more confident. The author's language style in the book is easy to understand. There are no long explanations and some are approachable. I believe that readers can easily empathize with each other during the reading process. In the second half of the book, the author also proposes some specific and practical solutions to the problems, without any sense of overreaching or rhetoric. It is a good spiritual book. After reading it, you will find that you still have a lot of potential that you can tap into, and let the seeds of self-confidence sprout in your heart.

Short story: After reading this book, my realization is to understand myself, my relationship with my family and people around me, my own appearance and style, and find my own beauty. Give up comparing with others, perfect yourself, and stop competing with others. It's right to be grateful for your past self. Respect your body and adapt to your body. You will feel what suits your body and what you like. Go deeply and create your own body. This book is a must read for me.

What exactly is confidence? Some people think that self-confidence is an innate character, a temperament that illuminates the whole scene, and an aura that you will have when you become better. The author of this book believes that "confidence is a kind of friendly coexistence between a person and the world. He does not have to curl up and grow like a plant. He should try his best to expand and expand his branches and leaves in the direction of the sun." In the book, the author uses concise and clear language, combined with a large number of classic and vivid cases, to explain to readers what self-confidence is, the three dimensions of self-confidence, and how to improve self-confidence.

You can be confident. If a person doesn't even believe in himself, how can he make others believe in him? But he cannot be arrogant. Arrogance makes people retreat, humility makes people advance. The winner will win, and the confident person will win.

It can make me, who is confused and not confident in myself, gradually understand myself, and my previous pursuit of praise from others can turn into the fulfillment and satisfaction of listening to my own voice.

Facing the sea, the spring is warm and the flowers are blooming, give your heart a harbor, the wind and rain are full of laughter; give your heart a blue, search and meditate quietly Facing the sea, the spring is warm and the flowers are blooming, give your heart a harbor, the wind and rain are full of laughter; give your heart a blue

This book resonated with me very much. The traditional Chinese education methods it mentioned have indeed influenced many people. We are always beaten and compared, leading to low self-confidence. But the book also gives methods to ignite the flame of self-confidence, which is very practical. I especially hate parents who always suppress their children. They should read this book and learn how to encourage their children correctly. In short, this is a good book that can help people find confidence and face the future!

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