Our life is made up of tens of thousands of choices, large and small:
Should you continue studying or enter the workplace? Do you want to enter or end a relationship? Choose career or family...
When faced with a choice, you also want to follow your heart, but the voice in your heart is as noisy as a vegetable market. You will wonder: What kind of life should I live?
Psychology tells you that all confusion and difficulties in life are signals, reminding you that it's time to look inward and take care of your heart.
Our past experiences, emotionally processed memories, environmental influences, defense mechanisms, etc. Constitute our large and complex inner world, which affects our choices at any time.
This means that the deeper you understand your inner self, the better you can make choices that suit you.
In this book, we will explore every unknown corner of the heart with psychologist Zhang Peichao:
·Understand yourself in relationships, break through the constraints of relationships, and become more calm.
·Understand the defense mechanism in your heart, take off the disguise of defense, and live more easily.
·Understand the emotions that trouble us, learn to transform them, and live more comfortably.
·Examine identity labels, eliminate distracting thoughts in your mind, and find your true value.
·Go deep into your heart, face your true self bravely, and re-plan your life.
May you gain inner peace and live a self-consistent life.
Reader comments
Sometimes I don't understand whether the harm to the family of origin is really that great? It wasn't until I read Zhang Peichao's "My Inner Infinity" that I understood why the original family has such a great impact on a child, and also how to break through the constraints of the original family. The five templates in the book can help us find the reasons, tell us how to break through relationships, find the most authentic self, and achieve our true self. Most of us don't really know ourselves and are therefore disturbed by external factors. In this book, the author analyzes the various self-protection measures we have in social life to make us feel at ease. It is worth reading for everyone.
"The Tao Te Ching" says, "He who knows others is wise, and he who knows himself is wise." Therefore, it is important for people to have self-knowledge, know themselves, and be their own confidants. The very beautiful word bosom friend is mentioned in the first chapter of this book, and there are many poems related to bosom friend, such as "There are bosom friends in the sea, and the world is as close as your neighbor", "Don't worry about having no bosom friend in the road ahead, no one in the world knows you." It tells readers that having a bosom friend who understands each other and is connected is a great blessing in life; but bosom friend has another meaning, that is, understanding oneself. Just like the author said, our hearts are like flowers. Each layer has its structure, each layer has its color, and each layer has its purpose. Therefore, in the process of self-growth, we need to constantly explore the direct inner heart, so that we can continue to grow stronger.
Benefited a lot! The author is a well-known psychological researcher who has a deep understanding of various psychological theories and is able to write in a simple and easy-to-understand manner. The book is very rich in content, with a total of 40 sections on self-exploration. Sometimes we are confused about some things. In fact, it is because we do not understand ourselves, why we are like this, and what we want. This book tells readers how to explore themselves from a professional perspective in psychology. I think this book is of great practical value!
When I saw the title of the book "My Inner Infinity", a little man who looked exactly like me immediately appeared in my mind, hugging his knees and huddled in a dark corner. How small, humble and scared she was. This book describes five themes and eight aspects: calmness, nature, freedom, freedom, and rebirth. The stories are told in a humorous way, making people resonate with the humorous narrative. It is said in the Tao Te Ching that one who knows others is wise, and one who knows oneself is wise. We need to understand our hearts in order to understand ourselves, to change ourselves and to make our inner being infinite.
This book is written by Zhang Peichao, a representative of the domestic psychoanalytic school. In this book, you can follow the author to explore every unknown corner of your heart.
Break through the constraints of relationships, take off defensive disguises, overcome emotional distress, and find self-worth. The only antidote to all confusion and confusion is: keep knowing yourself. Our life's encounters, in addition to the influence of external conditions, are mostly the result of choices and creations made by ourselves that we don't know.
This book is very meaningful. The author is a well-known psychological researcher who has a deep understanding of various psychological theories and is able to write in a simple and easy-to-understand manner. The book is very rich in content, with a total of 40 sections on self-exploration. Sometimes we are confused about some things. In fact, it is because we do not understand ourselves, why we are like this, and what we want. This book tells readers how to explore themselves from a professional perspective in psychology. I think this book is of great practical value!
I agree with the point of exploring oneself inwardly mentioned in this book. When I deliver express delivery in the city every day, I meet all kinds of people, and sometimes I feel lost and confused. After reading this book, I began to try to understand my own heart and think about what I really want. Some cases and opinions in the book resonated with me and gave me some inspiration. I think everyone should spend more time getting to know themselves so that they can make better choices and find a lifestyle that truly suits them.
Sometimes I don't understand whether the harm to the family of origin is really that great? It wasn't until I read Zhang Peichao's "My Inner Infinity" that I understood why the original family has such a great impact on a child, and also how to break through the constraints of the original family. The five templates in the book can help us find the reasons, tell us how to break through relationships, find the most authentic self, and achieve our true self. Most of us don't really know ourselves and are therefore disturbed by external factors. In this book, the author analyzes the various self-protection measures we have in social life to make us feel at ease. It is worth reading for everyone.
"The Tao Te Ching" says, "He who knows others is wise, and he who knows himself is wise." Therefore, it is important for people to have self-knowledge, know themselves, and be their own confidants. The very beautiful word bosom friend is mentioned in the first chapter of this book, and there are many poems related to bosom friend, such as "There are bosom friends in the sea, and the world is as close as your neighbor", "Don't worry about having no bosom friend in the road ahead, no one in the world knows you." It tells readers that having a bosom friend who understands each other and is connected is a great blessing in life; but bosom friend has another meaning, that is, understanding oneself. Just like the author said, our hearts are like flowers. Each layer has its structure, each layer has its color, and each layer has its purpose. Therefore, in the process of self-growth, we need to constantly explore the direct inner heart, so that we can continue to grow stronger.
Benefited a lot! The author is a well-known psychological researcher who has a deep understanding of various psychological theories and is able to write in a simple and easy-to-understand manner. The book is very rich in content, with a total of 40 sections on self-exploration. Sometimes we are confused about some things. In fact, it is because we do not understand ourselves, why we are like this, and what we want. This book tells readers how to explore themselves from a professional perspective in psychology. I think this book is of great practical value!
When I saw the title of the book "My Inner Infinity", a little man who looked exactly like me immediately appeared in my mind, hugging his knees and huddled in a dark corner. How small, humble and scared she was. This book describes five themes and eight aspects: calmness, nature, freedom, freedom, and rebirth. The stories are told in a humorous way, making people resonate with the humorous narrative. It is said in the Tao Te Ching that one who knows others is wise, and one who knows oneself is wise. We need to understand our hearts in order to understand ourselves, to change ourselves and to make our inner being infinite.
This book is written by Zhang Peichao, a representative of the domestic psychoanalytic school. In this book, you can follow the author to explore every unknown corner of your heart. Break through the constraints of relationships, take off defensive disguises, overcome emotional distress, and find self-worth. The only antidote to all confusion and confusion is: keep knowing yourself. Our life's encounters, in addition to the influence of external conditions, are mostly the result of choices and creations made by ourselves that we don't know.
This book is very meaningful. The author is a well-known psychological researcher who has a deep understanding of various psychological theories and is able to write in a simple and easy-to-understand manner. The book is very rich in content, with a total of 40 sections on self-exploration. Sometimes we are confused about some things. In fact, it is because we do not understand ourselves, why we are like this, and what we want. This book tells readers how to explore themselves from a professional perspective in psychology. I think this book is of great practical value!
I agree with the point of exploring oneself inwardly mentioned in this book. When I deliver express delivery in the city every day, I meet all kinds of people, and sometimes I feel lost and confused. After reading this book, I began to try to understand my own heart and think about what I really want. Some cases and opinions in the book resonated with me and gave me some inspiration. I think everyone should spend more time getting to know themselves so that they can make better choices and find a lifestyle that truly suits them.