This Thing About Men

Women who specialize in treating love brains can take a look at what most men really think, so that they won't spend all day wondering whether they love you or not, and whether they are worth loving. There are many things to strive for besides love. Don't regard feelings as the whole of life, treat feelings as a part of life like a man.

To be honest, this is a very educational book that allows women to thoroughly understand men from a male perspective. Through this book, we can also better understand the things that men do in the world that baffle women. Women have female thinking and perspectives, and men naturally do too. I hope sisters can manage their own relationships well after understanding the nature of men, or in other words, I hope girls can love themselves more.

It reveals the nature of men, and reading it helps men understand themselves better, and it also helps women understand men. Some women may not dare to get married after understanding it. This depends on how women view it, how they weigh the pros and cons, how they choose, and whether they can accept it. If they cannot accept it, it is better to be single, so as not to be deceived by the big talk of marriage, which will only increase sadness, troubles, and regrets, and there is no need to wait and wait for the scriptures. He is a man who has good financial conditions, good body and appearance, and other external conditions that are better than or equal to his own. At the same time, he also has internal conditions such as strong ability to support his wife, caring for his wife, taking care of the family, not caring, understanding of emotions, and normal sexual function. Because there are too few men who have these conditions at the same time. The probability of meeting and marrying him is the same as the probability of winning a million-dollar lottery jackpot.

This book breaks the love brain's beautiful illusions about love. It conducts an in-depth analysis of men's psychology at various stages of life from the perspective of male psychology. It analyzes male psychology from the perspectives of virginity complex, choice of life partner, psychological comparison of men and women's infidelity, and differences in sexual concepts between men and women. After analysis, it is really a good book for those who have never been in love, so that girls will not be immersed in fantasies. It feels like Watanabe Junichi is also a real person. He does not indulge in fantasies, goes straight to the point, and explains clearly in one sentence many phenomena that women cannot understand.

Very good, helps to enhance understanding of men. The essence is the essence, which is a general trend and necessity. Just like the seven emotions and six desires in human nature, it cannot be ignored. We just want to understand humans better through human nature, and we also want to understand men better through understanding their nature. In addition to a person's nature, there are many acquired things mixed in, such as morality, public opinion, and empathy. By understanding human nature, finding a more suitable way of getting along, and supplementing it with social constraints, it may not be impossible to maximize the absolute love that is close to rationality.

It's very real, especially suitable for love lovers to get to know real men. Today's film and television works are more about showing love. In fact, the ever-changing world has always been about the jungle and the survival of the fittest. Don't always think of relying on others. If you rely on others, you are doomed to failure. Girls still have hope of working hard to support themselves. It will be hard, but remember that men are here too. Marriage is monogamous. This system is actually established to raise the next generation at the lowest cost. As the author of the last chapter hopes, if the system becomes polygamy or polyandry, what a big blow it will be to people who are not strong enough and want to be lazy or rely on others.

If someone had recommended me to read this book many years ago, I believe my view on marriage would have improved. A must-read for young girls

After reading it, the little bit of girlish complex I had left disappeared [smile]. I suggest you read it. If you want to fall in love, read it. It's more useful than anything you can say.

This is the representative work of the author Junichi Watanabe. It is a novel about male psychology and life philosophy. The book uses profound insight and delicate writing to create the image of each character, allowing people to have a deeper understanding of male emotions and inner world. At the same time, it also explores men's attitudes and ways of thinking about life and love, and gives many useful life suggestions. This is a novel full of wisdom and warmth, with both thought-provoking philosophy and a plain and true storyline. You may wish to read it in your spare time.

Junichi Watanabe believes that everything in relationships is related to sex, and everything in love must be sexual; this is a value held by most men. This is not only a misunderstanding of men by many girls, but also the instinct of men in the process of evolution. Sexual attraction, a concept that Watanabe has been emphasizing, is the cornerstone of the relationship between the sexes. Although it ends with character, it also starts with appearance. As a man, it seems that he is dominated by primitive instinct, but in fact, in the relationship between the sexes, the rational mind takes the initiative. By understanding this book, you can also observe Watanabe's views on emotions and sex.

The author objectively and clearly exposes the essence behind the phenomenon of gender relations. Despite the limitations of the times, it is still a work worth reading. Dialectical reading and thinking are quite rewarding.

This book allowed me to see how men think, Like male animals pursuing prey, Seek freshness, excitement, variety and freedom. Girls are more likely to be devoted and dedicated, and feel that marriage is a guarantee. In today's society, there are too few good men, and more directly, there are too few boys with a sense of self-discipline and a sense of responsibility. There are too many temptations. Women should not be trapped by love, but should constantly improve and enrich themselves. Find your own balance between daily necessities, rice, oil, salt and work! Of course this relies on strong mind, body and wisdom.

After reading it, I suddenly realized that all men in this world are the same. No matter how perfect they are when they marry, in the end the passion dissipates and the possibility of cheating is greater than imagined. It's just that some men have a more moral sense and are better able to control their desires, or they dare not take this step after weighing the pros and cons. Those couples who seem happy may only be happy on the surface, and it does not mean how good the relationship between husband and wife can be. In fact, even if a man cheats on his wife, there is no need to make a fuss. It is a man's nature, and his animal nature is hard to control. He will have no passion or sexual desire for a wife he has been accustomed to having for a long time. Maybe cheating is a thought that always exists deep in a man's heart, it just depends on whether he takes action or not. Therefore, there is no need to praise the happiness of marriage. The pain it hides is often known only to those who have experienced it personally. There is no such perfect thing in the world as a good relationship with parents-in-law, a good relationship between husband and wife, a long-lasting and harmonious sex life, and filial and loving children. So no matter what the relationship is between husband and wife, friends, or family relationships, the most important thing is yourself. Live your life well. Only when you face the failure of other relationships can you be fearless and have the ability to start over. Always live only for yourself.

After actually reading this book, you will actually find that, well, the way of thinking between men and women actually makes their habits very different. I think it's quite difficult for two people to be together in a true sense.

The title of the book aroused great interest, and I thought it was a book that criticized men. Unexpectedly, this book objectively explains the innate advantages and disadvantages of men from the perspectives of psychology and physiology, and how men and women should face these gender problems. For female readers, it should have the value of discovering the New World. For male readers, it should be possible to gain a deeper understanding of themselves.

I have read many books about benevolence, justice and morality, but this book does not talk about right or wrong, only about human nature. Even if it does not conform to current values, it is undeniable that this is indeed a social phenomenon. Good book [like] I read this book on and off for two years and finally finished it. When you read your previous comments, you will have a feeling of "Did I think so before?" [Laughing and crying] Everyone will have different opinions at different stages and in different social environments, and they will always change. I think a little more now than when I read it before, and I still think it is a very, very worth reading book. The author's analysis perspective is very rich.

Sure enough, it is the idea of ​​​​Japanese men, which is very consistent with the situation of Japanese men and women.

The author reveals men's thoughts in a very real way, so the comment section is filled with abuse from girls. If only I had read this book when I was twenty, so I wouldn't be so angry with my boyfriend all the time. The content about marriage is also relatively true! The foreseeable summary at the end is also very good.

Men and women are the main bodies that make up this world. Men are always defined by most people as being more capable than women and must be mature enough. So what exactly do men have to go through to become mature and be able to shoulder the responsibilities, make due contributions to our society, and be able to bear all the behaviors they do in society? How do men mature their bodies and train their minds? Here is what we want to know

I'll give it four stars! I feel that although this is not very good, at least I can understand human nature [smile] [smile]. While watching and listening to it, I think it may be true. I have pictures in my mind [laughing and crying] [laughing and crying] [laughing and crying]. It's not easy for boys either! [Make a face][make a face][make a face][make a face] This may be true, but it is also an unreasonable statement. Please do not mislead.

Very interesting, different ideas, very magical angle

Some things in the book are very real and objective. Although some people are reluctant to accept such explicit descriptions, in order to maintain a better marriage relationship, it is beneficial and harmless to know more about the other party, so please read this book patiently. There is no need to hate men because of this, you just need to look at it objectively. I believe that the author wrote this book to open up everyone's understanding and better cope with or avoid the boredom period in intimate relationships.

This is a book written for all women. It can help women treat men rationally, thereby making women love themselves more.

I believe that when most women read this book, they scolded them at the same time, denounced their despicableness, and could not even imagine and face the future of most of us unmarried men and women in this book. But I have to say that this book is very realistic, and what it writes is reality. We must see that there are huge differences between men and women. This difference lies in the background of life, physiology, psychology, different age stages, life stages, family status, workplace background, life experiences... They cannot truly understand our sorrow, and we cannot truly understand their difficulties. Don't have any expectations for anyone, don't have any unrealistic illusions, we can't truly understand others, let alone change other people's ideas. This book can be said to have written about the lives of most men. Have fun reading it. Dear men and women, be careful, be careful, be careful.

It is very realistic. One glance at the author tells me that he has a lot of experience and experience. I especially like his book. It allows me to enrich my mind in advance and avoid acting irrationally and following the public.

I think this book profoundly reveals the unreasonable monogamy in contemporary times. It analyzes the psychological changes of men as male animals from before, during, and after marriage. It also analyzes the reasons for the rise and fall of yin and yang in the contemporary era. It is unique and deeply inspiring. Especially the polygamy and polyandry proposed by the author broke the constraints of the original system and thought. In short, it opened a new door to the world for me.

There may be men who have unobjective views or expressions that make women uncomfortable, but I think it is very real and overall tends to be objective.

This book is broad-minded. After reading this, I feel that there is not much difference between humans and animals. In the barbaric period, humans were just beasts; then, with the advancement of human civilization... Ethics and morality restricted human behavior, and also kidnapped the bestiality of humans as animals.

To understand men better, I recommend taking a look at Love Brain. A man may not be with you because he loves you, but because you are beneficial to him. You have more practical value. The crows in the world are as black as black. Girls should love themselves, invest in themselves, and devote themselves to themselves. If you bloom with butterflies, only when you truly love yourself will someone love you. Secondly, you must be clear-headed, sensible, and have yourself. Don't fall in love. If you lose yourself, you will lose yourself. What can you hold on to? A person without self is just a puppet. How can a man love you?

Understand men, surpass men, replace men This book completely explains various issues between men and women, and between husband and wife in society from a man's perspective. Originally, before I read this book, I didn't understand some of men's thoughts and practices, but after reading this book, I can completely understand and sympathize with men. This book made me understand no less than "Grassroots Women" At least I understand the reality now. It's not that men are unreliable, but that only by understanding human nature can you survive better in this world. Instead of talking about reality as a man, it is better to take a good look at yourself and not be led by the invisible things. This book is very suitable for women who are married and have difficulty getting along with men. You will understand men's psychology more clearly. Even if you cannot live your life well, you will not feel that life is so empty. At least you know how men think. Some of the author's statements are very strange and I can't understand them, and some of them are very to the point. After all, this is writing about these phenomena and problems from the perspective of a Japanese man. The problems that have existed throughout the ages are similar.