This book starts from thinking about the underlying laws of human nature, provides a profound insight into the nature of education, and puts forward a series of revolutionary ideas and concepts.
Referring to the structure of the Tao Te Ching, this book has a total of ninety-nine and eighty-one chapters. It comprehensively and systematically expounds the concept of family upbringing of undifferentiated love for the first time. It tells a series of original educational ideas such as single- and double-centered orbits, ecological parenting, dependence relationships, the law of reconciliation of all things, the law of 100 points, meta-cognition, meta-ability, love, chase effect, kill effect, mountain and sea personality, and personality victory. It tells every parent who truly cares about their children's life pattern and desires their children's success: The key to education is to be together with the heart.
This book clearly reveals the underlying logic of success and happiness, as well as the path to achieve it, and provides a perspective of observation and depth of thinking that is completely different from other researchers. This is a revolutionary book in the field of family education, and also a revolutionary book in the field of life growth. Reading this book will be a feast of thinking, a feast of blossoming of the soul.
Reader comments
The point of view of this book is very novel and I was deeply inspired. The educational concept of "undifferentiated love" it proposed made me understand that the key to education is to be with the child's heart. The book also mentioned that "our children are for people to choose." This view really made my skin stand on end and made me realize that we need to re-examine the purpose of education. This is a book worth reading and will give you a lot to think about.
Books worth reading that focus on education point out that education should consider the perfection of personality, the law of human growth, and the pursuit of truth, goodness, and beauty. They emphasize the importance of family education in education, the importance of love in family education, and the importance of undifferentiated love in family education. However, there are also some regrets: First, there is too much emphasis on "knowledge". Although, it is pointed out: Fundamentally, knowledge and action are one, and knowledge and action are one. However, the more you know, the more profound the knowledge is, the better, the more precise the knowledge, the better, and the more comprehensive the knowledge, the better. It would be better if, as an education expert with 16 years of experience, you could tell me how to "do it"; secondly, the derivation is too simple. For example: Life will naturally develop a concept: I am important, I must respect myself, and I must love myself. Next, people will naturally develop the second concept: You are also very important, you must respect yourself, and you must love yourself. How is this conclusion derived? The third is that the "ego" is overemphasized. Requirement: Avoid denying and criticizing the child's "ego". The author points out that traditional education often uses standards to judge children and denies the child's "ego", which leads to the child's negative personality positioning of "I am bad." Non-discriminatory love advocates fully accepting everything about the child, including the child's "ego", and avoiding labeling the child negatively. However, children belong to the family and society. We can understand the children, but do we also need to correct some words and deeds that are not accepted by others? Otherwise, will naughty children appear? As a family, if you don't like it, don't complain!
First of all, I have to thank myself for my open-minded attitude toward books that others praised highly, which made me choose to read them seriously from the beginning instead of just reading them hastily, and I was lucky enough to be exposed to the love of indifference. I think that among all the books and all kinds of knowledge, non-discriminatory love must belong to the most basic, lowest and most important column. It is so direct that it will lead me onto the broad road of life and hand the key to success and happiness into my hands. Opening up the individual and the world in an ecological way is the greatest tolerance of life. Metacognition allows us to see ourselves, understand ourselves, allow ourselves, see the world, understand the world, allow the world, and see how we mesh with the world; we should live in a heart without dwelling, and have undifferentiated love, which means we have a non-polarized heart. We can exercise the most fluidity without hindrance, show the best adaptability, and have the greatest propulsion when we want to move forward.
The author advocates "undifferentiated love", which is the simplest love of mankind, the most natural love, and the most straightforward call based on Chinese traditional culture. Let people return to their true nature and find their true heart. Like the author
I'm so lucky to have come across this book. Yin is also the instinct of life. Don't eliminate yin or discriminate against yin. Life has its own flow and rhythm of yin and yang. Human beings are perfect, know no difference, allow all, accept all, just like that. This passage is a warning on my way to practice. Thank you to the author. I hope there will be more good books to educate us.
A book worth reading
Very good! I hope all mothers will take a look
The underlying logic that has never been seen before, the knowledge that gives people a new lease of life
A book that fills the world with love!
I read it in one sitting, great!
Read it in one go, so cool! If you raise yourself well, you don't have to worry about your children's education.
Knowing that there is no distinction, human nature is perfect. As I understand more and more of the content, my understanding of this sentence becomes deeper and deeper, and my heart becomes clearer bit by bit. Thank you for meeting me in life.
Perfect ending, leaving suspense, three things are born, four-dimensional map,
Great love makes no distinction, and the great self accommodates the world!
Worth reading again and again
I believe in this book. [Praise]
Good book, but it's a pity that the song is too cliché
Good looking. I like it. I really like it.
Shocking, three mountains and one joy.
A profound book
Although I can't understand some of them, I still understand some of them.
When will we be able to put people first? Today's society still treats children as tools🛠️, I hope everyone will read this book
I haven't finished reading it, and it has solved my prejudice against children. All good and bad things come from the mother.
For a moment, I felt that many things could be explained by undifferentiated love, and I felt very benefited from reading the entire book.
It allowed me to understand family education from a new perspective, and gave my mother a new understanding. She must first learn to love herself, and only then can she love her children and the people around her.
I am very lucky to have read this book, which broke many perceptions. I am really lucky.
Be careful and standardize, observe your true self, be your true self, be confident, not attached, accept pros and cons, and achieve balance.
Simple and easy to understand, follow your heart like flowing clouds and flowing water
Read often, always new, and gain new insights every time. [Praise]
The point of view of this book is very novel and I was deeply inspired. The educational concept of "undifferentiated love" it proposed made me understand that the key to education is to be with the child's heart. The book also mentioned that "our children are for people to choose." This view really made my skin stand on end and made me realize that we need to re-examine the purpose of education. This is a book worth reading and will give you a lot to think about.
Books worth reading that focus on education point out that education should consider the perfection of personality, the law of human growth, and the pursuit of truth, goodness, and beauty. They emphasize the importance of family education in education, the importance of love in family education, and the importance of undifferentiated love in family education. However, there are also some regrets: First, there is too much emphasis on "knowledge". Although, it is pointed out: Fundamentally, knowledge and action are one, and knowledge and action are one. However, the more you know, the more profound the knowledge is, the better, the more precise the knowledge, the better, and the more comprehensive the knowledge, the better. It would be better if, as an education expert with 16 years of experience, you could tell me how to "do it"; secondly, the derivation is too simple. For example: Life will naturally develop a concept: I am important, I must respect myself, and I must love myself. Next, people will naturally develop the second concept: You are also very important, you must respect yourself, and you must love yourself. How is this conclusion derived? The third is that the "ego" is overemphasized. Requirement: Avoid denying and criticizing the child's "ego". The author points out that traditional education often uses standards to judge children and denies the child's "ego", which leads to the child's negative personality positioning of "I am bad." Non-discriminatory love advocates fully accepting everything about the child, including the child's "ego", and avoiding labeling the child negatively. However, children belong to the family and society. We can understand the children, but do we also need to correct some words and deeds that are not accepted by others? Otherwise, will naughty children appear? As a family, if you don't like it, don't complain!
First of all, I have to thank myself for my open-minded attitude toward books that others praised highly, which made me choose to read them seriously from the beginning instead of just reading them hastily, and I was lucky enough to be exposed to the love of indifference. I think that among all the books and all kinds of knowledge, non-discriminatory love must belong to the most basic, lowest and most important column. It is so direct that it will lead me onto the broad road of life and hand the key to success and happiness into my hands. Opening up the individual and the world in an ecological way is the greatest tolerance of life. Metacognition allows us to see ourselves, understand ourselves, allow ourselves, see the world, understand the world, allow the world, and see how we mesh with the world; we should live in a heart without dwelling, and have undifferentiated love, which means we have a non-polarized heart. We can exercise the most fluidity without hindrance, show the best adaptability, and have the greatest propulsion when we want to move forward.
The author advocates "undifferentiated love", which is the simplest love of mankind, the most natural love, and the most straightforward call based on Chinese traditional culture. Let people return to their true nature and find their true heart. Like the author
I'm so lucky to have come across this book. Yin is also the instinct of life. Don't eliminate yin or discriminate against yin. Life has its own flow and rhythm of yin and yang. Human beings are perfect, know no difference, allow all, accept all, just like that. This passage is a warning on my way to practice. Thank you to the author. I hope there will be more good books to educate us. A book worth reading
Very good! I hope all mothers will take a look
The underlying logic that has never been seen before, the knowledge that gives people a new lease of life
A book that fills the world with love!
I read it in one sitting, great!
Read it in one go, so cool! If you raise yourself well, you don't have to worry about your children's education.
Knowing that there is no distinction, human nature is perfect. As I understand more and more of the content, my understanding of this sentence becomes deeper and deeper, and my heart becomes clearer bit by bit. Thank you for meeting me in life.
Perfect ending, leaving suspense, three things are born, four-dimensional map, Great love makes no distinction, and the great self accommodates the world!
Worth reading again and again
I believe in this book. [Praise]
Good book, but it's a pity that the song is too cliché
Good looking. I like it. I really like it.
Shocking, three mountains and one joy.
A profound book
Although I can't understand some of them, I still understand some of them.
When will we be able to put people first? Today's society still treats children as tools🛠️, I hope everyone will read this book
I haven't finished reading it, and it has solved my prejudice against children. All good and bad things come from the mother.
For a moment, I felt that many things could be explained by undifferentiated love, and I felt very benefited from reading the entire book.
It allowed me to understand family education from a new perspective, and gave my mother a new understanding. She must first learn to love herself, and only then can she love her children and the people around her.
I am very lucky to have read this book, which broke many perceptions. I am really lucky.
Be careful and standardize, observe your true self, be your true self, be confident, not attached, accept pros and cons, and achieve balance.
Simple and easy to understand, follow your heart like flowing clouds and flowing water
Read often, always new, and gain new insights every time. [Praise]
Very interesting, I learned something new