Do you often get stuck in interpersonal relationships? Do you often have constant conflicts with family, friends, and colleagues? Are you always aggrieved and find it difficult to get along with the people around you? If your answer is yes, then this book will help you open up your mind and get through the barriers to get to the root of the problem: you taught others how to treat you. This is a wise saying in psychology that applies to any relationship! For example, how a man treats you is what you have been accustomed to and taught him from the beginning; the child who is disobedient, weak and dare not take responsibility is the result of your improper education and pampering since childhood; your friends ignore you and ignore you, maybe because you have no independent opinion and people habitually ignore you; your colleagues do not respect you enough and treat you as a weakling, maybe it is your timid appearance that gives others the opportunity to take advantage of you...
Each of us has unconsciously taught others how to treat themselves. Some people teach others to respect themselves, some people teach others how to love themselves, and some people teach others how to hurt themselves. Everyone in life is a mirror for you and me. Through others, what we see is our true self. This book aims to help everyone see the truth behind complex emotions and emotions, so that everyone can reconcile with themselves and relationships, and then get out of the spiritual dilemma and live the beauty of life.
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Are you confused about why some people respect you very much, but some people are very indifferent to you? In fact, others are a mirror to us. How you treat others will be how they treat themselves. When we are timid, others will think that we are weak and easy to bully. If we do not respect ourselves, others will think that we do not need respect. If we ourselves don't know what we want and don't respect our own bottom line, how can we expect others to accept our bottom line?
As the saying goes, "Tell others what they say, but tell ghosts what they say." How we treat others is how others treat us. A grumpy person feels that everyone is dissatisfied with him, while a meek person will be treated well by those around him. Everyone in life is a mirror for you and me. Through others, what we see is our true self. The reason why we see the bad side of each other is because we project our hidden inner side onto others. This book starts from ourselves and improves our interpersonal relationships by changing ourselves.
You teach how others treat you. This is actually a wise saying in psychology and applies to any relationship! For example, how a man treats you is what you have been accustomed to and taught him from the beginning. Children who are disobedient, weak and afraid to take responsibility are the result of your improper education and pampering since childhood. If a friend ignores you or ignores you, it may be because you have no opinion and others take advantage of it. Everything has a trace to follow, and there is a failure to do something. Only by looking back at yourself and finding the reasons from yourself can you make your interpersonal relationships more harmonious.
Thank you very much for helping me solve a problem that I am currently having trouble with. There is no point in struggling now. I will know how to choose when the day comes. If that person is willing to come back in the future, and I am willing to accept him again, it means that our needs are matched. I have no reason to reject a suitable person because of other people's evaluation.
Are you confused about why some people respect you very much, but some people are very indifferent to you? In fact, others are a mirror to us. How you treat others will be how they treat themselves. When we are timid, others will think that we are weak and easy to bully. If we do not respect ourselves, others will think that we do not need respect. If we ourselves don't know what we want and don't respect our own bottom line, how can we expect others to accept our bottom line?
I feel the powerful charm of psychology. If a person wants to break through himself, he must learn to accept himself and tolerate others. Love is born from the heart, destiny is created by oneself, learn to reshape cognition, heal the trauma caused by the original family to you and me, use your willpower and persistence to start a different journey of life!
There are no absolutely good people or absolutely bad people in this world. We should abandon dualism, because good people sometimes do bad things and bad people sometimes do good things.
In your daily life, do you often have constant conflicts with family, friends, and colleagues? Do you often find it difficult to deal with interpersonal relationships? Are you always aggrieved and find it difficult to get along with the people around you?
In fact, many times how others treat you is a reflection of your performance. When others treat you as a weakling, it may be because your usually timid appearance gives others the opportunity to push their limits; when others often ignore you, it may be because you have no independent opinion and ignore you habitually; when people around you have a bad attitude towards you, it may be something you are used to...
"You teach how others treat you." We need to see clearly the truth behind the intricate relationships and emotions, reconcile with the relationships, and get out of the spiritual dilemma.
No matter how your day goes, you can get better if you let it! Keep growing, keep improving, pay attention to the process, come on!
The author of this book is Huang Qituan, a professional psychology tutor who has focused on the educational dissemination of psychological applications for more than 20 years. He has done nearly 10,000 hours of personal consulting cases and benefited more than 100,000 students. This will be a psychological growth course to help you live a new life. 16 Behavioral patterns, 10 thinking patterns, and 22 emotional patterns, the combination forms your life pattern. This book introduces that any bad relationship must be your fault. A psychological investor and senior psychology instructor teaches you how to solve your problems.
As the saying goes, "Tell others what they say, but tell ghosts what they say." How we treat others is how others treat us. A grumpy person feels that everyone is dissatisfied with him, while a meek person will be treated well by those around him. Everyone in life is a mirror for you and me. Through others, what we see is our true self. The reason why we see the bad side of each other is because we project our hidden inner side onto others. This book starts from ourselves and improves our interpersonal relationships by changing ourselves.
After reading it, I gained something. I may not agree with some of the methods and ideas, but after reading it, I gained some more recognition.
Be aware of yourself and enhance your sense of self-worth💪('ω'💪)
How others treat you is all taught by you! ——This is a wise saying in psychology that applies to any relationship! For example, how a man treats you is what you have been accustomed to and taught him from the beginning; your children are disobedient, weak, and afraid to take responsibility because you have improperly educated and spoiled them since childhood; your friends ignore you and ignore you, maybe because you have never had an independent opinion and people habitually ignore you; your colleagues do not respect you enough and treat you like a fool. You are a soft persimmon, maybe your timid appearance gives others the opportunity to take advantage of you... In short, each of us has unconsciously taught others how to treat themselves. Some people teach others to respect themselves, some people teach others how to love themselves, and some people teach others how to hurt themselves.
You teach how others treat you. This is actually a wise saying in psychology and applies to any relationship! For example, how a man treats you is what you have been accustomed to and taught him from the beginning. Children who are disobedient, weak and afraid to take responsibility are the result of your improper education and pampering since childhood. If a friend ignores you or ignores you, it may be because you have no opinion and others take advantage of it. Everything has a trace to follow, and there is a failure to do something. Only by looking back at yourself and finding the reasons from yourself can you make your interpersonal relationships more harmonious.
Find yourself, know yourself, heal yourself
Worth recommending, I hope everyone can take a look
I hope that when I read this book again, it will be the second or third time. Finally, it can be used well in life
After listening to this book by the group leader, I learned about the important role of psychology in life. I also learned it and applied it to my life to make my life more relaxed and comfortable.
Very good, it touched me very much. Ever since I discovered that I had some spiritual confusion and entered psychology, I fell in love with it and couldn't stop it... I will always stick to it, and it is because of my love that it lasts! I believe my future will get better and better because of psychology, come on! I also hope to make some friends who love psychology and spiritual growth and move forward together...
It's a good book, but it's over before you've read enough.
Learn the charm of language and understand everyone around you
Just like my husband and I, we used to always argue about small things, and I always felt that he didn't understand me. But after reading this book, I realized that maybe some of my actions taught him to treat me this way. Now, I will try to change myself, and our relationship is much better than before. I think this book is not only suitable for housewives, but also for everyone who wants to improve their relationships.
A book for the soul, a good book. After reading it, your mind and body will be clear.
Face the shadow in your heart, accept your shortcomings, find the positive side of negative things, and reach peace with yourself.
I learned a lot, it's a good book worth reviewing carefully.
After watching it, I feel that there are many things that resonate with me.
Different from the Chicken Soup for the Soul I read before, I can feel the author's different views on psychology. A book well worth reading.
A very thought-provoking book📖! Extremely beautiful! 👍🏻
Are you confused about why some people respect you very much, but some people are very indifferent to you? In fact, others are a mirror to us. How you treat others will be how they treat themselves. When we are timid, others will think that we are weak and easy to bully. If we do not respect ourselves, others will think that we do not need respect. If we ourselves don't know what we want and don't respect our own bottom line, how can we expect others to accept our bottom line?
As the saying goes, "Tell others what they say, but tell ghosts what they say." How we treat others is how others treat us. A grumpy person feels that everyone is dissatisfied with him, while a meek person will be treated well by those around him. Everyone in life is a mirror for you and me. Through others, what we see is our true self. The reason why we see the bad side of each other is because we project our hidden inner side onto others. This book starts from ourselves and improves our interpersonal relationships by changing ourselves.
You teach how others treat you. This is actually a wise saying in psychology and applies to any relationship! For example, how a man treats you is what you have been accustomed to and taught him from the beginning. Children who are disobedient, weak and afraid to take responsibility are the result of your improper education and pampering since childhood. If a friend ignores you or ignores you, it may be because you have no opinion and others take advantage of it. Everything has a trace to follow, and there is a failure to do something. Only by looking back at yourself and finding the reasons from yourself can you make your interpersonal relationships more harmonious.
Thank you very much for helping me solve a problem that I am currently having trouble with. There is no point in struggling now. I will know how to choose when the day comes. If that person is willing to come back in the future, and I am willing to accept him again, it means that our needs are matched. I have no reason to reject a suitable person because of other people's evaluation.
Are you confused about why some people respect you very much, but some people are very indifferent to you? In fact, others are a mirror to us. How you treat others will be how they treat themselves. When we are timid, others will think that we are weak and easy to bully. If we do not respect ourselves, others will think that we do not need respect. If we ourselves don't know what we want and don't respect our own bottom line, how can we expect others to accept our bottom line?
I feel the powerful charm of psychology. If a person wants to break through himself, he must learn to accept himself and tolerate others. Love is born from the heart, destiny is created by oneself, learn to reshape cognition, heal the trauma caused by the original family to you and me, use your willpower and persistence to start a different journey of life!
There are no absolutely good people or absolutely bad people in this world. We should abandon dualism, because good people sometimes do bad things and bad people sometimes do good things.
In your daily life, do you often have constant conflicts with family, friends, and colleagues? Do you often find it difficult to deal with interpersonal relationships? Are you always aggrieved and find it difficult to get along with the people around you? In fact, many times how others treat you is a reflection of your performance. When others treat you as a weakling, it may be because your usually timid appearance gives others the opportunity to push their limits; when others often ignore you, it may be because you have no independent opinion and ignore you habitually; when people around you have a bad attitude towards you, it may be something you are used to... "You teach how others treat you." We need to see clearly the truth behind the intricate relationships and emotions, reconcile with the relationships, and get out of the spiritual dilemma.
No matter how your day goes, you can get better if you let it! Keep growing, keep improving, pay attention to the process, come on!
The author of this book is Huang Qituan, a professional psychology tutor who has focused on the educational dissemination of psychological applications for more than 20 years. He has done nearly 10,000 hours of personal consulting cases and benefited more than 100,000 students. This will be a psychological growth course to help you live a new life. 16 Behavioral patterns, 10 thinking patterns, and 22 emotional patterns, the combination forms your life pattern. This book introduces that any bad relationship must be your fault. A psychological investor and senior psychology instructor teaches you how to solve your problems.
As the saying goes, "Tell others what they say, but tell ghosts what they say." How we treat others is how others treat us. A grumpy person feels that everyone is dissatisfied with him, while a meek person will be treated well by those around him. Everyone in life is a mirror for you and me. Through others, what we see is our true self. The reason why we see the bad side of each other is because we project our hidden inner side onto others. This book starts from ourselves and improves our interpersonal relationships by changing ourselves.
After reading it, I gained something. I may not agree with some of the methods and ideas, but after reading it, I gained some more recognition. Be aware of yourself and enhance your sense of self-worth💪('ω'💪) How others treat you is all taught by you! ——This is a wise saying in psychology that applies to any relationship! For example, how a man treats you is what you have been accustomed to and taught him from the beginning; your children are disobedient, weak, and afraid to take responsibility because you have improperly educated and spoiled them since childhood; your friends ignore you and ignore you, maybe because you have never had an independent opinion and people habitually ignore you; your colleagues do not respect you enough and treat you like a fool. You are a soft persimmon, maybe your timid appearance gives others the opportunity to take advantage of you... In short, each of us has unconsciously taught others how to treat themselves. Some people teach others to respect themselves, some people teach others how to love themselves, and some people teach others how to hurt themselves.
You teach how others treat you. This is actually a wise saying in psychology and applies to any relationship! For example, how a man treats you is what you have been accustomed to and taught him from the beginning. Children who are disobedient, weak and afraid to take responsibility are the result of your improper education and pampering since childhood. If a friend ignores you or ignores you, it may be because you have no opinion and others take advantage of it. Everything has a trace to follow, and there is a failure to do something. Only by looking back at yourself and finding the reasons from yourself can you make your interpersonal relationships more harmonious.
Find yourself, know yourself, heal yourself Worth recommending, I hope everyone can take a look
I hope that when I read this book again, it will be the second or third time. Finally, it can be used well in life
After listening to this book by the group leader, I learned about the important role of psychology in life. I also learned it and applied it to my life to make my life more relaxed and comfortable.
Very good, it touched me very much. Ever since I discovered that I had some spiritual confusion and entered psychology, I fell in love with it and couldn't stop it... I will always stick to it, and it is because of my love that it lasts! I believe my future will get better and better because of psychology, come on! I also hope to make some friends who love psychology and spiritual growth and move forward together...
It's a good book, but it's over before you've read enough.
Learn the charm of language and understand everyone around you
Just like my husband and I, we used to always argue about small things, and I always felt that he didn't understand me. But after reading this book, I realized that maybe some of my actions taught him to treat me this way. Now, I will try to change myself, and our relationship is much better than before. I think this book is not only suitable for housewives, but also for everyone who wants to improve their relationships.
A book for the soul, a good book. After reading it, your mind and body will be clear.
Face the shadow in your heart, accept your shortcomings, find the positive side of negative things, and reach peace with yourself.
I learned a lot, it's a good book worth reviewing carefully.
After watching it, I feel that there are many things that resonate with me.
Different from the Chicken Soup for the Soul I read before, I can feel the author's different views on psychology. A book well worth reading.
A very thought-provoking book📖! Extremely beautiful! 👍🏻
Highly recommended
The book of the soul is useful
Good, read it several times
Thank you, captain, it helped me a lot.