The best-selling "Life Needs a Sense of Ritual" series is Li Siyuan's inspirational new work!
Adult breakdowns come suddenly, but those setbacks can only be healed on your own.
And every setback will become your armor until you are invulnerable.
59 Inspirational articles, 59 heart-breaking moments——
Turn words into a beam of light in your heart, illuminating you to move forward bravely and giving you firm strength.
What doesn't defeat us makes us stronger.
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In the book "Being an Adult Who Can Carrying Things", we will see the distance, read poetry, and those indestructible ideals and beliefs. The more I grow, the more confused I become about the future. Is it because we encountered too many obstacles on the way forward? Or has life dulled our fighting spirit? Or are we placing higher and higher demands on ourselves? Then, it's time to stop, take a simple rest and adjust where we are, and take this time to live in peace with the version of ourselves we want to be for a while.
Many people criticize contemporary young people for being giant babies that never grow up, that is, they only care about their own feelings and only know how to complain, but will never take responsibility and take practical actions. A person must go through a lot of hardships before he can get out of the cradle of a giant baby and transform into an adult who can handle things. "You have to survive all the crying alone." When family members grow old and no longer make money, but instead need support, you will find that the sooner this change occurs, the better. Of course, to become such an upright adult, one needs to cultivate many qualities, such as self-discipline, diligence, perseverance, etc. Goals can also be set realistically, and it is not shabby to rush for a living.
This book made me understand: truly outstanding people have learned to be silent. Maybe you are not invincible, invincible, or even the strongest, but when you are in trouble, the calmness, calmness and coolness you show, and the determination, courage and composure you show in your bones, you have the courage to win people's hearts, calm the scene, and control the situation. In fact, the relationship between people is mutual. A heart will become cold if it has been cold for a long time; a person will turn around after being let down for a long time; a friendship will disappear if it is consumed for a long time.
Many people criticize contemporary young people for being giant babies that never grow up, that is, they only care about their own feelings and only know how to complain, but will never take responsibility and take practical actions. A person must go through a lot of hardships before he can get out of the cradle of a giant baby and transform into an adult who can handle things. "You have to survive all the crying alone." When family members grow old and no longer make money, but instead need support, you will find that the sooner this change occurs, the better. Of course, to become such an upright adult, one needs to cultivate many qualities, such as self-discipline, diligence, perseverance, etc. Goals can also be set realistically, and it is not shabby to rush for a living.
Life itself is a kind of happiness. Read a favorite book, sip a cup of tea, watch a movie, play your favorite game for a while, or listen to a beautiful piece of music... All the money, fame and utility in this world are like snowflakes. Almost everyone wants them, but they will eventually turn into a puddle of water; only the life now is real.
This book is like a close friend, telling us in warm words how to become a capable adult. The stories and viewpoints in the book reminded me of Sun Shaoping in "The Ordinary World". He worked hard in a difficult environment and constantly defeated himself. This book teaches us to be cautious in our words and deeds in life, just like Zeng Guofan, to avoid getting into trouble due to careless words. At the same time, it also encourages us, like Sun Shaoping, to face difficulties bravely and become a better version of ourselves. All in all, this is a powerful and wise book worth reading!
In the book "Being an Adult Who Can Carrying Things", we will see the distance, read poetry, and those indestructible ideals and beliefs. The more I grow, the more confused I become about the future. Is it because we encountered too many obstacles on the way forward? Or has life dulled our fighting spirit? Or are we placing higher and higher demands on ourselves? Then, it's time to stop, take a simple rest and adjust where we are, and take this time to live in peace with the version of ourselves we want to be for a while.
In the book "Being an Adult Who Can Carrying Things", we will see the distance, read poetry, and those indestructible ideals and beliefs. The more I grow, the more confused I become about the future. Is it because we encountered too many obstacles on the way forward? Or has life dulled our fighting spirit? Or are we placing higher and higher demands on ourselves? Then, it's time to stop, take a simple rest and adjust where we are, and take this time to live in peace with the version of ourselves we want to be for a while.
This book made me understand:
Really good people have learned to be silent.
Maybe you are not invincible, invincible, or even the strongest, but when you are in trouble, the calmness, calmness and coolness you show, and the determination, courage and composure you show in your bones, you have the courage to win people's hearts, calm the scene, and control the situation.
In fact, the relationship between people is mutual.
A heart will become cold if it has been cold for a long time; a person will turn around after being let down for a long time; a friendship will disappear if it is consumed for a long time.
We will always fall into confusion. What have we gained and what have we lost in the process of growing up? On the way forward, we are often smoothed by reality. Perhaps sometimes it is very important for us to stop and think and adjust slowly. This book is a brand new work by young writer Li Siyuan. Why did the author create such a book at the age of 30? In this book, we can see the power of daily growth and our indestructible ideals and beliefs.
We will always fall into confusion. What have we gained and what have we lost in the process of growing up? On the way forward, we are often smoothed by reality. Perhaps sometimes it is very important for us to stop and think and adjust slowly. This book is a brand new work by young writer Li Siyuan. Why did the author create such a book at the age of 30? In this book, we can see the power of daily growth and our indestructible ideals and beliefs.
What is the life of a mature person like? The author's answer is, "No longer being dragged forward by life, but living within your own limits. The future becomes controllable, everything proceeds in an orderly manner, and the life you want becomes within reach." The most difficult thing for a person is not to become the person that others like, but to become the person you want to be. Because most people are chasing and struggling in their busy lives. In the end, they look back and realize that the things they have obtained and the life they have lived are not what they really want. At the end of their lives, they regret that they have never truly lived.
I really learned a lot, thank you 😘
Blessed people will find it
Finished reading on June 26, 2025, thank the author!
This book is so well written, it has its own golden house, and its own beauty. I really enjoyed it, it was a book that I didn't want to put down.
In the book "Being an Adult Who Can Carrying Things", we will see the distance, read poetry, and those indestructible ideals and beliefs. The more I grow, the more confused I become about the future. Is it because we encountered too many obstacles on the way forward? Or has life dulled our fighting spirit? Or are we placing higher and higher demands on ourselves? Then, it's time to stop, take a simple rest and adjust where we are, and take this time to live in peace with the version of ourselves we want to be for a while.
Many people criticize contemporary young people for being giant babies that never grow up, that is, they only care about their own feelings and only know how to complain, but will never take responsibility and take practical actions. A person must go through a lot of hardships before he can get out of the cradle of a giant baby and transform into an adult who can handle things. "You have to survive all the crying alone." When family members grow old and no longer make money, but instead need support, you will find that the sooner this change occurs, the better. Of course, to become such an upright adult, one needs to cultivate many qualities, such as self-discipline, diligence, perseverance, etc. Goals can also be set realistically, and it is not shabby to rush for a living.
This book made me understand: truly outstanding people have learned to be silent. Maybe you are not invincible, invincible, or even the strongest, but when you are in trouble, the calmness, calmness and coolness you show, and the determination, courage and composure you show in your bones, you have the courage to win people's hearts, calm the scene, and control the situation. In fact, the relationship between people is mutual. A heart will become cold if it has been cold for a long time; a person will turn around after being let down for a long time; a friendship will disappear if it is consumed for a long time.
Many people criticize contemporary young people for being giant babies that never grow up, that is, they only care about their own feelings and only know how to complain, but will never take responsibility and take practical actions. A person must go through a lot of hardships before he can get out of the cradle of a giant baby and transform into an adult who can handle things. "You have to survive all the crying alone." When family members grow old and no longer make money, but instead need support, you will find that the sooner this change occurs, the better. Of course, to become such an upright adult, one needs to cultivate many qualities, such as self-discipline, diligence, perseverance, etc. Goals can also be set realistically, and it is not shabby to rush for a living.
Life itself is a kind of happiness. Read a favorite book, sip a cup of tea, watch a movie, play your favorite game for a while, or listen to a beautiful piece of music... All the money, fame and utility in this world are like snowflakes. Almost everyone wants them, but they will eventually turn into a puddle of water; only the life now is real.
This book is like a close friend, telling us in warm words how to become a capable adult. The stories and viewpoints in the book reminded me of Sun Shaoping in "The Ordinary World". He worked hard in a difficult environment and constantly defeated himself. This book teaches us to be cautious in our words and deeds in life, just like Zeng Guofan, to avoid getting into trouble due to careless words. At the same time, it also encourages us, like Sun Shaoping, to face difficulties bravely and become a better version of ourselves. All in all, this is a powerful and wise book worth reading!
In the book "Being an Adult Who Can Carrying Things", we will see the distance, read poetry, and those indestructible ideals and beliefs. The more I grow, the more confused I become about the future. Is it because we encountered too many obstacles on the way forward? Or has life dulled our fighting spirit? Or are we placing higher and higher demands on ourselves? Then, it's time to stop, take a simple rest and adjust where we are, and take this time to live in peace with the version of ourselves we want to be for a while.
In the book "Being an Adult Who Can Carrying Things", we will see the distance, read poetry, and those indestructible ideals and beliefs. The more I grow, the more confused I become about the future. Is it because we encountered too many obstacles on the way forward? Or has life dulled our fighting spirit? Or are we placing higher and higher demands on ourselves? Then, it's time to stop, take a simple rest and adjust where we are, and take this time to live in peace with the version of ourselves we want to be for a while.
This book made me understand: Really good people have learned to be silent. Maybe you are not invincible, invincible, or even the strongest, but when you are in trouble, the calmness, calmness and coolness you show, and the determination, courage and composure you show in your bones, you have the courage to win people's hearts, calm the scene, and control the situation. In fact, the relationship between people is mutual. A heart will become cold if it has been cold for a long time; a person will turn around after being let down for a long time; a friendship will disappear if it is consumed for a long time.
We will always fall into confusion. What have we gained and what have we lost in the process of growing up? On the way forward, we are often smoothed by reality. Perhaps sometimes it is very important for us to stop and think and adjust slowly. This book is a brand new work by young writer Li Siyuan. Why did the author create such a book at the age of 30? In this book, we can see the power of daily growth and our indestructible ideals and beliefs.
We will always fall into confusion. What have we gained and what have we lost in the process of growing up? On the way forward, we are often smoothed by reality. Perhaps sometimes it is very important for us to stop and think and adjust slowly. This book is a brand new work by young writer Li Siyuan. Why did the author create such a book at the age of 30? In this book, we can see the power of daily growth and our indestructible ideals and beliefs.
What is the life of a mature person like? The author's answer is, "No longer being dragged forward by life, but living within your own limits. The future becomes controllable, everything proceeds in an orderly manner, and the life you want becomes within reach." The most difficult thing for a person is not to become the person that others like, but to become the person you want to be. Because most people are chasing and struggling in their busy lives. In the end, they look back and realize that the things they have obtained and the life they have lived are not what they really want. At the end of their lives, they regret that they have never truly lived.
I really learned a lot, thank you 😘
Blessed people will find it
Finished reading on June 26, 2025, thank the author!
This book is so well written, it has its own golden house, and its own beauty. I really enjoyed it, it was a book that I didn't want to put down.