Those Small, Unshakable Joys

The novel is very exciting and very inspiring for people entering marriage. No matter men or women, they should never hide anything from their lover in the name of loving each other. Trust and communication are the guarantee of love. Sharing a life of suffering and happiness can increase mutual understanding and affection.

The novel is very well written, but after reading it, I felt that both the heroine and the supporting character were abnormal. The heroine was pretentious and the supporting character was paranoid. What is normal is the mother of the heroine. Such a woman has stepped out of the old past and worked hard to create a new life, instead of blaming others and blaming others. The male protagonist in the novel is a perfect male protagonist, I like him very much.

Delicate marriage realism: There is no suspended animation. After the love filter is removed from the marriage, the care, sharing and tolerance in the daily necessities are extremely real. It confirms the core of "long-lasting love depends on details to warm the heart" and a sober female perspective. : The heroine Gan Lu has always maintained her independence and rationality, and has never lost herself in relationships. This sobriety has also become her core strength to maintain herself and repair relationships in marriage turmoil. Like the two trees in "To the Oak", they are independent but dependent on each other.

The passionate love that the heroine longs for is actually a bit lost because the hero missed that stage. In fact, only gentle love can last. I really like the dialogues of the characters in it. It is not cliché and reasonable, and the short length is good.

The conflict between the male and female protagonists still involves an ex-girlfriend, and it is still about the ex-girlfriend's entanglement. The male protagonist's rejection is a bit presumptuous, so he gives the ex-girlfriend opportunities to stimulate his wife's courage again and again, but in the end the misunderstanding is resolved, and the ex-girlfriend leaves boringly.

It's okay, I don't like being entangled with each other after a breakup, it's not good for anyone, it's best to have no contact after the breakup!

The plot of this book is real and touching, and it allowed me to see the sweetness and ups and downs in marriage. I like the heroine Gan Lu very much. I admire her determination and bravery when facing a marital crisis. The stories in the book also made me think about how we should love and trust when our marriage encounters setbacks. This is a book worth reading and recommended to you!

I read this book several years ago, and I couldn't resist reading it again today. I still admire the heroine's calmness and rationality, and her handling of marriage is worth learning from. They say marriage also requires management, and it seems true! 2023.3.20

Very good book, unconventional

I came here after reading another book by the author, in which there are familiar characters, Yi Min's classmate and Suyou. In fact, married life is ordinary and smooth, and the so-called vigorous life is just a passing cloud!