Only Those Who Can Speak Can Truly Have High Emotional Intelligence (Set of 9 Volumes in Total)

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Good listening to others + appropriate self-expression = the art of speaking with high emotional intelligence. In an era when people communicate with each other more and more frequently, only by mastering the art of speaking appropriately can we communicate effectively, avoid and resolve conflicts, and shorten the distance between people. Sometimes when faced with different opinions, emotions will rise and the desire to express will burst out. At this time, the way to respond with high emotional intelligence is not to forcefully argue, but to find common interests and reach consensus based on understanding and respect. In real life, there are various scenarios where ingenious language skills can be used to solve problems. Speaking with high emotional intelligence is not deception with rhetoric, but sincere expression of oneself and understanding of others. To give a practical example, when I first started decorating, I asked a friend who was a designer to help me. Due to the relationship, I didn't sign a contract, and I was too embarrassed to communicate when I encountered problems. The final result was a piece of cake. This book is a bit long, so just pick and read what interests you. For me, I once again realized the importance of listening to others, so I will wait for others to complete their expressions during the communication process, and give them full attention and response; secondly, I will learn to calm my emotions and express my feelings and needs in appropriate language. [Three core questions] 1. What is truly high emotional intelligence speaking? : Really high emotional intelligence speaking means being able to express one's own thoughts and feelings appropriately while taking into account the other party's feelings and needs to achieve good communication effects. (When discussing things, you should not only focus on expressing your own opinions, but also respect the opinions of the other party, and do not force the other party to accept your own opinions, nor interrupt others' speeches) 2. What are the different manifestations of high emotional intelligence speaking in different situations? : Formal situations may require more rigorous and appropriate language, while informal situations can be more relaxed and humorous. (At work, the language must be professional and accurate, but at private gatherings, you can make some appropriate jokes to liven up the atmosphere) 3. How to improve your speaking emotional intelligence? : Improve by learning communication skills, observing other people's communication methods, and enhancing self-awareness; at the same time, observe the communication effect from the reactions of the surrounding environment. If the communication partner can respond positively, the communication is smooth, and the expected purpose is achieved, then speaking may have good effects. (Self-reflection and review are very important. When you feel uncomfortable, you should try to be "objective" to restore and think about the situation at that time; if you already know that you have a clear lack of ability, you can learn how to listen, how to respond and other skills by reading books or participating in communication skills training courses, and continue to practice and improve in daily life) Content Sharing 1. Really high emotional intelligence is not about smoothness and smoothness, but about humility, tolerance, confidence and structure after possessing good moral character. 2. Being able to speak is a kind of wisdom and a kind of cultivation. It can make you feel comfortable in interpersonal communication, and it can also help you gain more joy and happiness in your life. 3. People with high emotional intelligence know how to say the right words and do the right things at the right time to make others feel comfortable and not feel wronged themselves. 4. Speaking is an art and a skill. It can make or break a person. 5. People with high emotional intelligence will not criticize others easily, but are good at discovering the advantages of others and giving sincere praise and encouragement.

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I especially like some of the plots in it, such as the author talking about how to use humor to resolve embarrassing situations, and how to find common topics with others. And I think the authors are very powerful. Their experiences and opinions are very practical, and they have taught me a lot of communication skills with others. All in all, this is a set of books worth reading and I recommend it to you!

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