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The first time I read this type of book, I came with a learning attitude, because I wanted to change the relationship with my parents. Now that I am twenty-three, I still feel that I am a person who lacks love, is sensitive, has low self-esteem, and cares about other people's eyes. I now have no hatred for my parents, and I no longer care that they did not accompany me in my childhood, and did not accompany me to support and encourage me when I was in trouble. As they grow older, they begin to realize how difficult and helpless their lives were back then. This is my first time as a son, and my parents are also their first time as parents. We can't be honest with each other, and the way we communicate is rough, but I can feel their love. I hope that I can reconcile with my parents in the future, and that my parents can be themselves and live for themselves in the future.

I have always dared not read this type of book. I am afraid of analyzing my childhood and getting to know my parents seriously. My father died of illness when I was 19, and my relationship with my mother also changed subtly. When I blamed my mother for all my unsatisfactory childhood, I blamed myself and took it for granted. After reading this book, I felt relieved. My parents are also parents for the first time. The generations are different. We cannot ask them to be perfect. They are also groping throughout their lives, and they are prone to making mistakes, right? Love her well for the rest of your life, understand her, and spend the rest of your life with her without any regrets!

After reading this book, I felt enlightened and understood that any choices and decisions made by parents are related to the background and position of their times. What we need to do is to respect and understand. We have reasons to pursue our dreams, but we must not forget our roots.

I used to hear my parents talk about how there were a lot of food in the mountains when they were young, such as chestnuts, wild kiwis, and all kinds of wild fruits. They caught loaches and eels in the fields. They thought it was quite interesting, but they didn't know that they were nostalgic for the past.

I like this book very much. Every little story in it makes me feel deeply, and some even bring tears to my eyes. I can also see my own shadow in some stories, and I can relate to my own experiences, and I can also understand some of my parents' practices.

A very beautiful book! Beautiful words, beautiful sentiments, beautiful feelings! I also got to know this excellent host! This is a book that after reading the e-book, I still want to buy the paper book and treasure it. Highly recommended! Well worth reading!

I remember a passage like this: Mom, I have loved me longer than you, because you only started to love me in your 20s, and I have loved you since I was born. You can only love me for decades, but I can love you for a lifetime.

Our parents were young, had their ambitions, and were unable to control themselves over the years. Maybe if we explore their growth stories, then we might not blame our parents so much for not understanding.

"There are too many regrets from what I have read, heard, and seen." "If I can only choose one of the many identities in this life that is perfect, I would choose to try my best to be a good daughter/son." "I try my best to protect the safety of the people I love in the wind and rain." "Actually, only the love of parents in the world is selfless." "There is too much pain and regret in life. The farewell to our parents is a pain that we can never forget. The longing that will never stop. The tomorrow that we never want to wait for." "Realizing that parents are getting older is a vague and long process."

Thanks to the author! You brought your unique insights into these people and things to me who was confused and moving forward in my studies. It gives me more examples that I can use for reflection when thinking about and solving such incidents. People always need to grow through continuous learning and reflection.

I read this book with a relatively peaceful attitude. After reading it, I feel that I have a new understanding and new understanding of the relationship between parents. [Like] [Like] [Like]

1. The content is rich and diverse, the feelings are true and sincere, very down-to-earth, and vividly expresses the regrets and imperfections of life; 2. After reading this book, I couldn't calm down for a long time. Isn't this a very real life, where I am constantly doubting and relieved.

Taking the beginning and end of life as its theme, it tells the story of the different destinies of different people. Good or bad, they finally found a way to get along with their respective lives, which can be regarded as a kind of reconciliation with fate, relatives, and themselves. Everyone has their own path to take, and I don't know which path to take. But it seems that all I can do is concentrate on it and go step by step. The days seem to go by very fast, and before you know it, time slips away like that. There are many things waiting for me to do, there are many things for me to do. I don't know where the harbor is that I'm going to reach, but I can't stop. The knots in our hearts will also be resolved in the long river of time, and the problems we avoid and the secrets we cannot tell will eventually become as light as a feather. Before we leave this world, we are light.

Close people should learn to say thank you to each other. Expressing love is the best medicine to heal wounds.

Through the author's delicate writing, I felt the difficulty of my parents' generation. It turned out that when they were raising us, they were also parents for the first time. They also wanted to give us everything they had, and they were also experiencing their own lives. I hope my parents won't travel far away when they are here, I hope they can be praised for their cooking, I hope they can call mom and dad more often, and I hope they can spend more time with them!

This book touched me very much. It tells many stories about the relationship between two generations. We often overlook that parents also have their own lives and regrets. I have never thought about some of the issues in the book. It made me understand that we need to understand and respect our parents, try to communicate with them, and share each other's lives. This is not only a book about family love, but also a guide for us to learn how to get along with our parents.

I came from Douyin and I am very satisfied. Every section allows people to go deep into it and feel the emotions of the world. This book allows us to travel through different lives, travel through lives similar to ours, and travel through various forms of life.

It's been a week, and I'm about to finish reading the last tenth. It's very well written, and maybe it's because of the real and practical aspects of life. I can't help crying... But... Crying is a good thing. Fortunately, my parents are still alive and spend more time with me. No matter how miserable our fate is, life is still worth it

A very moving book, I often cried while reading it. It allows people to have a more empathic and empathetic understanding of their parents and the fate of all living beings, and to view joys and sorrows, life and death in a more transparent and open-minded way.

I have always kept this feeling for my father. Looking back at his white hair and tired and bent back over the years, I choked up. I want to say, Dad, you are the mountain in my heart.

Cherish the good times now. Our parents have grown up with us. As their children, we must take good care of them, go home often, reunite with our families more often, and don't let them be lonely [almost crying]

After reading it, I couldn't calm down for a long time. The vivid stories in the book inspired me to look at my parents again. At this moment, I no longer resented them. I knew that it was not easy for them to get to where they are today. No one is perfect, accept the limitations and imperfections of your parents and reconcile with them. Mom and Dad, thank you, I love you!

The people we love and everyone who loves us will one day pass away. Life is short, but love is eternal. We will all experience the summary of this book, so we should cherish the people in front of us and not regret it.

5024.7.14.2.00 The love of parents is selfless and great, and sometimes it is silent and heavy. Everyone should be filial to their parents. They have done their best to do good for us within the scope of their ability. People should be content and don't envy other people's families. There are no parents who don't love their children. Any extra words are clichés and it's well worth watching. Not in words.

This book written by Teacher Bi is truly exquisite, giving people a feeling of being refreshed by the spring breeze and empathizing with others. It is very helpful for improving our lives and ideological realm.

I cried while reading. Every story was very touching. I could find scenes similar to my own life experience, which made me deeply moved. After reading it, I understand my parents better and treat them as equal, independent and complete people. Let your parents see the most beautiful scenery and the best things in the world.

When parents are alive, there is still a place to come; when parents are gone, there is only a way back in this life.

I really like this book. I don't know why I cry every time I read a chapter. It's so touching.

2023.2.8 When they were young, they learned to grow up quickly with us; when they grow up, we learned to grow old slowly with them.

Regarding the love, hate and separation between two generations, we always know how to cherish it after losing it. It was only after I became a parent that I understood that aging of parents is a vague and long process. People who don't know how to express love must learn to change, and love must be spoken out loud.