Shu Ya's mother-in-law and Shu Ya herself were pregnant at the same time and both gave birth. After suffering from postpartum depression, Shu Ya's marriage to her husband, Zhou Wei, ended in an acrimonious divorce. She thought she would never trust a man or enter into marriage again, until she met two other women who were also afraid of marriage and motherhood: Chengzi, still haunted by the wounds of her family of origin, and Su Shan, a misunderstood girl who loves anime and games.
United by a shared belief, the three women begin an unconventional house-sharing arrangement. As they help one another heal, they find new hope in marriage and new life. All three open their hearts, encourage one another, and become self-reliant, each finding happiness of her own.
The government encourages families to have a second child, hospitals promote breastfeeding, experts advise against grandparents raising children, marriage law calls for women to be independent, in-laws expect frugality and good housekeeping, husbands want beautiful wives, and babies need their mothers by their side every moment. Faced with modern society's harsh demands on women, would you feel anxious?
A look at the strength of women in a new era, and an in-depth exploration of choices around marriage, family, and personal careers.
Many parts feel quite real. Shuya can divorce decisively, and her family's support is very warm. Chengzi was hurt by her original family, but she also mustered up the courage to live for herself. It feels really not easy. I haven't seen any stories about Susan yet, but I like Shuchang the most. She dares to speak and do, does not wrong herself, has clear goals, is sensible, and is especially good to her sister and nephew.
I would like to dedicate this book to them who have experienced darkness but are struggling to move forward, better ❤️ ❤️
Real experience makes people afraid of marriage and childbirth. Be kind to yourself and don't have to humiliate yourself to accommodate others.
It's very well written. Even if there are all kinds of birds in the world, not everyone is qualified to be a parent. Parents who give birth to children without raising them, squeeze their children, and always think that they are right are really selfish. People really have to live to learn and establish the correct three views 😳
How should I put it? It writes vividly and vividly about all kinds of things in life. It is very inspirational and close to life. It is very positive. It teaches us to love ourselves on the premise of loving others. Marriage requires two people to work together. If you have grievances, you should speak out and solve them together instead of digesting them yourself. More and more conflicts will add up and the gap will only become deeper and deeper. In the end, both people will become the most annoying thing about each other. (They are not very good at talking.) Overall, it is very good and highly recommended 👍
This is the most realistic novel I have ever read, about the original family of marriage, the various trials and tribulations in life, but they are not afraid of difficulties, bravely face and solve problems, and write a beautiful scenery for their own lives. This book is fully displayed. The three people have changed from a shared relationship to very good sisters. They all work hard for their dreams and have gained careers and beautiful love. It is an inspirational and positive book that is worth reading and pondering many times. It makes people think.
I have read many articles and I really like the positive energy of this article. I like this sentence - any time you want to start over is the best time, and age never stops us from being a better version of ourselves. 💪💪💪
The author's views are very upright and the writing is great!!! 👍 👍 👍 This is the best novel I have read in the past few years. The writing is really good!
This book sets a strong example for weak women. There are so many scumbag men in the world, and many women endure the humiliation, keep silent, and live in an ignoble way. However, this book describes a different female life. I hope all women can live their lives like the heroine!
This book is very close to real life, including the incomprehension, misunderstandings and disputes with my parents before marriage, the daily necessities and all kinds of trivial matters after marriage. Thanks to the author for this book, which allowed me to reconcile with my original family. I also want to be a mother like Shu Ya. Thank you to the author!