This book addresses the difficulties in parent-child communication and puts forward the "three do's and three don'ts" of listening and expressing, and summarizes this into a set of systematic communication skills - the minimalist parent-child dialogue method. The book also provides tests and analysis of "listening value" and "expressiveness", as well as practical training record sheets to help parents discover problems that often occur in parent-child communication. It then conducts specific analysis based on a large number of parent-child situational conversations, and guides parents step by step to seize the key opportunities for education in the dialogue and truly integrate good educational concepts into every dialogue.
Reader comments
In the field of family education, parent-child communication is an eternal topic and has always attracted the attention of family education experts and parents. The reason is that the issue of parent-child communication is indeed too important. If we sum up this importance in one sentence, we can say that communicating with children is the most basic and important way for parents to establish parent-child relationships and implement family education. This book addresses the difficulties in parent-child communication and puts forward the "three do's and three don'ts" of listening and expressing, and summarizes this into a set of systematic communication skills - the minimalist parent-child dialogue method. The book also provides tests and analysis of "listening value" and "expressiveness", as well as practical training record sheets to help parents discover problems that often occur in parent-child communication. It then conducts specific analysis based on a large number of parent-child situational conversations, and guides parents step by step to seize the key opportunities for education in the dialogue and truly integrate good educational concepts into every dialogue.
I was deeply inspired by reading this book. This is a practical home education guide designed to help parents improve the way they communicate with their children. This book presents 70 communication skills and strategies for children in a concise and concise way, covering situations at all ages. Through rich examples and practical advice, the author guides parents on how to listen, express and understand their children's emotions and needs. The communication skills provided by the author are simple and easy to practice, which helped me establish a more effective way of talking to my children. The case stories in the book are very vivid, allowing me to better understand the child's psychology and behavior. I learned how to build a strong foundation of communication through affirmative language, listening, and respecting my children's perspectives.
A hard fact to admit is that although we communicate more and more with other people in our lives, parents increasingly don't know how to get along with the people closest to us, our children. I want to get closer, but I'm afraid of saying the wrong thing; I want to educate, but I'm afraid it will backfire; I want to understand my children's feelings, but I'm afraid of encountering a blocked heart. This book summarizes and refines the important principles of communication between parents and children based on years of practical experience, and advocates parents to learn to listen to their children and build a harmonious parent-child relationship.
A very practical book
I plan to read it again, take notes and reflect on it, and practice it. It will be useful and help me find my childlike innocence. ❤️
Listen quietly, speak slowly, listen and understand the positive, gentle and firm expressions, and be grateful. Happiness is all quiet, and the years are quiet.
2025 4.5 Fuyang
After a day of listening, I finished the book. The large number of examples in it gave me a lot of inspiration, many of which are very common scenes in life. I originally listened extensively and now I plan to read it again intensively, take notes, reflect on the communication problems between myself and my children and other family members, find ways to improve them, and put them into practice. This is not something that happens overnight. It may take long-term training and repeated practice reviews before you can change your previous speaking habits.
I like the character analysis in the book, which allows me to understand the child's inner world better. The writing style is also very friendly, concise and easy to understand. The large number of dialogue cases in the book are very close to life, allowing me to easily apply these communication skills to dealing with my children in the future. Recommended to all expectant parents!
I have also read the literal translation of this book "How to Speak So Children Will Listen." The author changed the examples to ones that are more relevant to Chinese parents and have more reference value.
Very useful, I feel good after learning it
The writing is so practical
Very practical and explained in detail
Very easy to put into practice
Learn to praise your children more and be more specific. Learn to be grateful for all the good things you have
Sometimes I really can't control my emotions. This method is better. Speak more facts when it's difficult, lose your temper less, and pay more attention to your child's feelings when dealing with him.
It compares the handling methods with more specific and detailed solutions, and also gives the child's inner thoughts when dealing with each situation. This allows parents to know what their children think in various situations, which is very good.
Only with real truths and real methods can it be deeply rooted in people's hearts. Thanks to the author for the great book! It really helps the families who read it.
The communication methods provided in the book are very practical, and the cases are very close to life and can arouse thinking. It requires repeated practice to apply what you have learned.
Starting from actual cases, the vivid description is easier to understand. How to analyze the problem and what method to use will trigger your own thinking and improvement after reading it. It is a very practical book.
In the field of family education, parent-child communication is an eternal topic and has always attracted the attention of family education experts and parents. The reason is that the issue of parent-child communication is indeed too important. If we sum up this importance in one sentence, we can say that communicating with children is the most basic and important way for parents to establish parent-child relationships and implement family education. This book addresses the difficulties in parent-child communication and puts forward the "three do's and three don'ts" of listening and expressing, and summarizes this into a set of systematic communication skills - the minimalist parent-child dialogue method. The book also provides tests and analysis of "listening value" and "expressiveness", as well as practical training record sheets to help parents discover problems that often occur in parent-child communication. It then conducts specific analysis based on a large number of parent-child situational conversations, and guides parents step by step to seize the key opportunities for education in the dialogue and truly integrate good educational concepts into every dialogue.
I was deeply inspired by reading this book. This is a practical home education guide designed to help parents improve the way they communicate with their children. This book presents 70 communication skills and strategies for children in a concise and concise way, covering situations at all ages. Through rich examples and practical advice, the author guides parents on how to listen, express and understand their children's emotions and needs. The communication skills provided by the author are simple and easy to practice, which helped me establish a more effective way of talking to my children. The case stories in the book are very vivid, allowing me to better understand the child's psychology and behavior. I learned how to build a strong foundation of communication through affirmative language, listening, and respecting my children's perspectives.
A hard fact to admit is that although we communicate more and more with other people in our lives, parents increasingly don't know how to get along with the people closest to us, our children. I want to get closer, but I'm afraid of saying the wrong thing; I want to educate, but I'm afraid it will backfire; I want to understand my children's feelings, but I'm afraid of encountering a blocked heart. This book summarizes and refines the important principles of communication between parents and children based on years of practical experience, and advocates parents to learn to listen to their children and build a harmonious parent-child relationship.
A very practical book I plan to read it again, take notes and reflect on it, and practice it. It will be useful and help me find my childlike innocence. ❤️ Listen quietly, speak slowly, listen and understand the positive, gentle and firm expressions, and be grateful. Happiness is all quiet, and the years are quiet. 2025 4.5 Fuyang
After a day of listening, I finished the book. The large number of examples in it gave me a lot of inspiration, many of which are very common scenes in life. I originally listened extensively and now I plan to read it again intensively, take notes, reflect on the communication problems between myself and my children and other family members, find ways to improve them, and put them into practice. This is not something that happens overnight. It may take long-term training and repeated practice reviews before you can change your previous speaking habits.
I like the character analysis in the book, which allows me to understand the child's inner world better. The writing style is also very friendly, concise and easy to understand. The large number of dialogue cases in the book are very close to life, allowing me to easily apply these communication skills to dealing with my children in the future. Recommended to all expectant parents!
I have also read the literal translation of this book "How to Speak So Children Will Listen." The author changed the examples to ones that are more relevant to Chinese parents and have more reference value.
Very useful, I feel good after learning it
The writing is so practical
Very practical and explained in detail
Very easy to put into practice
Learn to praise your children more and be more specific. Learn to be grateful for all the good things you have
Sometimes I really can't control my emotions. This method is better. Speak more facts when it's difficult, lose your temper less, and pay more attention to your child's feelings when dealing with him.
It compares the handling methods with more specific and detailed solutions, and also gives the child's inner thoughts when dealing with each situation. This allows parents to know what their children think in various situations, which is very good.
Only with real truths and real methods can it be deeply rooted in people's hearts. Thanks to the author for the great book! It really helps the families who read it.
The communication methods provided in the book are very practical, and the cases are very close to life and can arouse thinking. It requires repeated practice to apply what you have learned.
Starting from actual cases, the vivid description is easier to understand. How to analyze the problem and what method to use will trigger your own thinking and improvement after reading it. It is a very practical book.