Parents Who Grow Up: How to End Family Trauma

People who have not been loved as children, even when they grow up, will still have the desire to be willful and coquettish, to do whatever they want, to want the world to revolve around them, and to want to be noticed. To put it bluntly, at heart they are still a child who loves to act coquettishly, lacks a sense of responsibility and is extremely dependent. The adult society cannot satisfy their infantile desires, so they will project their desire to act like a spoiled child onto the parent-child relationship. When faced with children whose power, strength, and status are not equal to their own, they are more likely to show: Behaviors such as dependence, coercion, manipulation, hidden abuse, repayment of favors, and false reciprocity. The author of "Parents Who Never Grow Up: How to End Family Trauma" proposes that "parents who never grow up" have become a social problem. For example, in recent years people have been hotly discussing the "poisonous father", "poisonous mother" and "poisonous tribe". They not only cause children to lose their childhood happiness, but also leave a shadow on the child's underlying personality, affecting his or her life. At the same time, bad relationships will be passed down from generation to generation. This is a healing manual to help you end family trauma. The author Teizo Kato uses a wealth of real cases to deeply analyze the causes and psychological structure of "parents who never grow up" and puts forward effective suggestions to end this vicious cycle.