The Courage to Be Hated

A very powerful explanation for me.

What an amazing view! Refresh my mind! I feel that this dialogue method is very interesting, and the host is not bored at all when reading in the dialogue format! The emotions are expressed very well! It's very interesting to hear! [Praise]

First of all, the anchor is great. Secondly, I really like the way and tone of the anchor's lectures. I really admire the anchor's examples. He is really awesome and knowledgeable. I like it so much.

Introduction: The Courage to Be Disliked is a book suitable for people who are deeply troubled by interpersonal relationships or who want to improve their interpersonal skills. Advantages: The dialogue format allows you to have a deeper understanding of the knowledge content in this book, and the language is easy to understand. Suggestion: You can pause and think from time to time while reading this book. After all, it is easy to get distracted when listening to a book. You can think about how to refute Adler's thought while reading. In the process of refutation, you can gradually deepen your understanding of the truth, because the two sides of the contradiction develop in opposition, and the development of one side of the contradiction is prerequisite for the development of the other side. Insights: Causality focuses on the past, while teleology focuses on the future. I believe that causation and teleology are not opposites, but complementary thinking tools. Causality helps us understand "why we are here" and accept the objective limitations of the past; Teleology encourages us to think about "where we want to go" and create subjective possibilities for the future. This is a high-quality comment I saw under a video introducing this book so that everyone can have a deeper understanding of teleology.

This book has been highly recommended by people on major variety shows and Internet platforms. To be honest, I just like to listen to some low-intellectual novels, but it's just for my brain. Recently, I feel that my literary quality needs to be improved, so I forced myself to listen to it. After listening to more than 100 pieces, I became immersed and listened carefully. It's good, good. The biggest gain is the separation of subjects. I should be considered a person with high sensitivity and internal friction. Now when I see things, I no longer sympathize with others and put myself into it. I have become indifferent. I haven't finished listening yet. Let's talk about my perception now. Is self-examination by perspective and subject separation seem to be contrary to each other? The education I received since childhood is empathy. How will other people feel if you do this? I am trapped by empathy, so that when I raise demands and questions, I always wonder if it is disturbing to others. Subject separation means to separate your own feelings from other people's feelings. You don't have to pay for other people's emotions, you only need to be responsible for your own emotions. Looks like I have to buy a physical book

If you feel depressed, and this depression comes from interpersonal relationships, then please put aside other people's issues and relieve your own depression.

The anchor explained it very well, but I don't quite agree with the content. Of course, I haven't read the book, so I'll listen to it after I read the book and feel good about it. Come on anchor [like][like][like]

I've always known about this book, but I'm too lazy to read it, but it's so good that I can listen to it. The format of the dialogue is very interesting. The explanations of inferiority complex and so on are presented through debate, and from the perspective of young people, there is a vague feeling of enlightenment, and I feel like I can let go of many things.

I feel that this book really enlightened me. Many of my previous doubts can be solved here. I think if you feel confused in life or encounter difficulties, you can listen to this book and get some inspiration and methods. The language of this book is easy to understand, and it uses dialogue to tell us some truths. The issues he discusses are closely related to our lives.

There is a kind of pua's own idea in the past. You can change your mentality, but the reality cannot be changed. A person's birth, a person's appearance, these cannot be changed. What can be changed is the future and mentality.

I kind of listen to the podcast every time before going to bed. My self-objectification has improved a lot, and I have paid more attention to my inner feelings. My ability to deal with anxiety has also improved, and it is very interesting to develop it through dialogue and argument.

The content is rich, philosophical and thought-provoking. It made me seriously think about my situation and improve my cognition.

No, I feel like some of them don't understand them at all. Is there anyone like me?

Suddenly enlightened, it improved my understanding

Good books worth thinking about

I didn't expect there was one here

Since reading this book, the world has become sober; it is worth reading

Worth watching. Very nice.

I have read this book before and thought it would make me feel relaxed. I plan to read it again recently and read it often. The ideas in it are very good.

Don't interfere too much in other people's life issues, everything will be solved easily. Let go of other people's issues, and your worries will disappear instantly.

I feel that Adler's teleology is quite interesting and worth pondering. From a psychological perspective, we understand the purpose behind a person's actions. In this case, you can start from this perspective and think of more solutions to deal with interpersonal relationships. I read this book first, and then went to read about psychology and life. It should be about some superficial knowledge of Freud's theory of causes. When I read it, I felt that the book was too bad. It seemed to be asking "One Hundred Thousand Whys". For example, mobile phone addiction. He asked you why mobile phones are addictive, and he gave you a rough explanation. It is because it can make you feel happy, and then it becomes a vicious circle, and then it reaches an addiction. I don't know if my knowledge is too shallow and I can't understand that psychology and life.

Not bad, very profound. If you don't understand something, you can listen more.