Losing your temper is a common phenomenon in life. Many people have bad tempers, are easily impulsive when things happen, and cannot control their tempers rationally. Especially when things don't go their way or things they don't like, they often get angry easily, quarrel with people around them, and say embarrassing things, which not only hurts others but also hurts themselves. Losing your temper can relieve hatred, but it is also likely to go to extremes and tear people's feelings into pieces. Even if the wounds of the soul are healed, the scars left behind cannot be erased. Many people get into violent fights because of a temporary bad temper. Some cause harm, some create hatred, some regret for life, some have no contact with each other, and some suffer revenge. Some people lost their loved ones and alienated their children because of their bad temper at home; some people offended their friends in society and lost noble people because of their bad temper; some people angered their bosses at work and lost their jobs because of their bad temper. A person is likely to lose all his advantages and his life because of a bad temper. Because people with bad temper often bring trouble to themselves and others, making others find it difficult to get along with them.
Someone has done a survey and found that the vast majority of young men and women take the other person's good temper as one of the conditions when choosing a spouse. We also know from experience that if there are one or two bad-tempered people in a family or a unit, the family or group will often be shrouded in an ominous atmosphere. A person with a bad temper will be regarded as a black sheep by others wherever he goes and stay away from him.
Reader comments
This book uses simple and easy-to-understand language to explain the impact of bad temper on people, which moved me very much. The views in the book are very pertinent. It tells us to learn to control our temper and not be swayed by our emotions. Moreover, the book also introduces some practical methods to help us return to rationality, which is very inspiring. I think this is a very suitable book for young people to read, it can help us grow better.
This book uses simple and easy-to-understand language to explain the impact of bad temper on people, which moved me very much. The views in the book are very pertinent. It tells us to learn to control our temper and not be swayed by our emotions. Moreover, the book also introduces some practical methods to help us return to rationality, which is very inspiring. I think this is a very suitable book for young people to read, it can help us grow better.