Family Awakening

Many parents think that children need to yell. After all, children don't understand anything. As a parent, I thought so at first, but after reading this book, I found that many parents have problems with their education, including me. We should understand the reasons for yelling. This book talks about this reason. Children are also human beings, they also have thoughts and dignity. We should stop yelling, use correct strategies to treat children, and use compassion to communicate effectively with children.

This book is very good. It is different from other family preaching books. It tells you the main principles, theories, experiences, etc. Throughout the whole book. This book educates in a story-based way. It can be read to parents and children, so that both parties can meditate on their own behavior, their own education methods, their own expression methods, and what are the mistakes in their behavior, so they can effectively improve it. This is the case for me. After watching it with my children, my relationship with them has been greatly improved, and my family has become more harmonious.

I didn't read this book to seek parenting experience or solutions to family problems. On the contrary, I found the self that is difficult to discipline in the book. Perhaps new parents will have fewer family conflicts after reading the theories in the book and stop yelling at their children. Children who cannot finish their homework will only write more slowly under the urging of their parents. If I become a parent in the future, I hope to be a parent who can feel my children's emotions and give my children a gentle and powerful upbringing.

That controlling, demanding, angry voice that often rings in my head—isn't really me. Nor is it the true self of any of us. It's just a habitual response to life stress. It is controlled by emotion, and when we are aware of its presence, we can tame it. When we learn to better tame our "self" and prevent it from stimulating irrational emotions with its commonly used contradictory and negative words, we will be better able to build good relationships with others from our true selves. Our true self is our essence, our true personality. It lies deep within us, lost most of the time beneath the chatter and emotional reactions of our ego.

This book is a very practical tool book. In this book, the author provides readers with a detailed and comprehensive introduction to how parents should cultivate their relationship with their children so that their children can grow into their true selves. It is different from other reference books on the market, which are either full of chicken soup or disorganized, making it confusing to read. In this book, the author integrates Western psychology and Eastern philosophy, and provides readers with very practical method guidance based on his many years of clinical psychology experience. The views in the book are also worthy of recognition. If parents want to form a good relationship with their children, it is not just the efforts of the children alone. Parents also need to be wise. Only when both parties make efforts can a good relationship be formed.

A true and objective description of parents' emotions and children's emotions... A good reference for communication... It's not too late to see it now! ! [Like][Like][Like][Like][Like][Like]

I was really scared after reading this book. It turned out that I was just like what was written in the book. When I got angry and scolded my child, I thought it was her fault. Everything I did was for her good. I never thought it was my fault. In fact, what the book said was that fear and anxiety were at work. I always thought that the child was at fault. If you don't work hard, are obedient, and don't do what your parents arrange, you will achieve nothing. After reading this book, I realized that self-feeling is very harmful, so I have to start from myself to change the relationship with my child, let her be her true self and find the best version of herself. I believe that I can do it. Come on😊

Explain in simple terms and use cases one by one to allow parents to understand the essential needs behind the phenomenon. Let parents slowly awaken in the learning process, change themselves through parent awakening, and lead the family to awaken and lead to a happy life. This is an emergency book that conforms to the current situation of the times and is a must-have book for every parent.

Who wakes up first from a big dream, and who knows best in ordinary life? The essence of life lies in developing or educating China. On this issue, China's thinking is relatively closed and narrow. The single-plank bridge and the same road in Huashan have made many people believe that the truth is dead. The pillar must be teachable! The misfortune of Chinese children and the sorrow of Chinese parents!

After reading this book, I always feel conflicted and want to recommend it to more parents, so that parents can get out of confusion and even wrong parenting concepts, face their hearts, and be sincere parents. It has theories, examples, and methodologies, and is worth reading again and again to provide guidance for parents who are struggling and eager to grow.

The logical thinking is clear and easy to understand. After reading this book, I feel deeply and my mind has changed. I deeply realize how I have used wrong teachings in my life and misunderstood the role-playing of rights and indulged in it. I have awakened my consciousness, changed my ideas, and will work hard to stick to the direction of change. Grateful!

I read this book yesterday and it had a huge impact on me. I have to control my emotions when I get home and not lose my temper with my children. However, later I still got angry with my child. I wanted to have a chat with my child before going to bed, thinking that it would be good for both of us. But it didn't achieve the expected effect. Instead, it made me so angry that I could only go back to the room and sulk.

Many of the contents made me deeply realize that my incompetence and rage caused my children to endure pressure and pain that they should not bear. I always dwelled on my children's faults instead of recognizing my own problems and mistakes. Through this book, I deeply felt how I should examine my own behavior and problems, instead of pushing my mistakes and faults onto my children! I hope I can become an awakened parent!

This book provides many ways to reduce family conflicts and can also help us manage stress. It is very practical! Moreover, the examples in the book are very interesting, just like what happened around us, which made me enjoy reading them. The strategy of not yelling or yelling proposed by the author is also easy to understand and practice. I feel that it is very helpful for me to get along with my parents!

It is a very practical book and is worth listening to and reading again and again. Follow and learn how to become a parent who understands your children. It is worth recommending!

Enlightenment and counter-cognition require deep reflection and understanding, as well as awareness and practice. Children only come to this world through us. They have their own path in life. They come for the better growth of our parents.

After reading this book, I am more determined about parenting methods. The answers to questions and doubts play a reconciliation role. What I feel most deeply is that everything comes from fear. Accept your feelings and digest them instead of fighting them! The power of balance and neutrality! Be firm and non-negotiable in rules, and guide rather than control your children! Win-win cooperation is the best way to solve problems!

Some views have subverted my previous understanding. When there is a gap or conflict with a child, stepping out of the parent's self-righteous "truth" and being a "bystander" is a good way to solve the problem.

Very profound, consistent with Adler's social sentiments

A very valuable book. The children are still young. The earlier they read this book, the more rewarding they will be.

The writing is very instructive and operational.

Change parents' perceptions

Real content portrayal

Hey hey ah ok

Very good book

A good book that subverts previous perceptions

Able to make people think about problems from a different perspective

Freeing us and our children from the myths of the past.

Look at problems from a new perspective and discover your own reasons. Parents need to grow up.

That's right, it's a wake-up call. We can't change anything. Children have to be themselves.