"Parents' Awakening" is a book about parenting from a psychological and emotional level. "Awakening" means staying awake to everything we experience, accepting and dealing with reality as it is, without trying to control or change it. In other words, when we educate our children, we must follow their nature and accept their true nature. Parents' awakening and change are the real beginning of education. Only by settling their own bodies and minds can parents help their children grow into healthy people.
The author Dr. Sabari proposed that parents and children are partners in the journey of life, and equality and mutual assistance are the core content of the parent-child relationship. If parents can give up their vanity, sense of self-importance, and desire for control, and respect their children's nature, they can establish a close and harmonious relationship with their children. If parents are willing to open their minds, learn through practice, and find answers through interactions with their children, they can make progress and expand with their children.
Dr. Sabari uses research results in the field of psychology to encourage parents to use love and sincerity to overcome the dilemma of family education, solve the problem of parent-child relationship, and achieve spiritual awakening. His profound parenting method not only integrates the cultivation of children's body, mind, and soul, but also allows parents to achieve complete growth.
Reader comments
After reading this book after a period of failed family education, I really realized that the problem was with me. Although I was late, I was better than never. Now I am beginning to wake up, learn, and have the courage to start over.
It's all practical information, and the examples are all common occurrences in life. Understand why children make me angry and angry, what are the needs of children behind them, and understand the emotions behind children's emotions. Understand what is the true self behind them. Find out why you are angry first, and then understand the child's true self behind it. When comfort, distraction, and feeding are all ineffective, leave the place and listen to the child crying without getting angry.
This book is really a rare book. Those who understand it will regard it as a treasure. Those who don't understand it will definitely find it cumbersome and useless.
The ideas in the book are very inspiring, such as respecting children's nature, giving up the desire to control, and establishing an equal and mutually supportive relationship with children. I think this not only helps children grow, but also allows parents to grow themselves. I especially like the point in the book about parents and children becoming spiritual partners, which makes me cherish the time I spend with my children even more. However, I also kind of hated the controlling parent figure in the book, because I had my moments like that. But this book made me understand that such behavior is wrong. All in all, I would recommend this book to other mothers to become better parents together!
It is very good and comprehensive. Whether your child is an infant or an adolescent, it is suitable for parents to take a good look at. The examples in the book are close to life, and many of them are examples that I have encountered in the process of raising children. Let children be themselves, stimulate their inner motivation, and allow parents and children to be better versions of themselves. I agree!
Must listen again
Worth pondering for every parent
Super beautiful, highly recommended, can't put it down
Very practical and valuable!
Good, good, good, good
Through this book, I found a breakthrough to resolve conflicts with my children.
Appendix 1 Secrets to Staying Sober in Times of Conflict
It was so well written, almost every point resonated deeply with me and gave me a glimpse into the problems that exist in my family's reality.
It has subverted the traditional concept of parenting and has gained a lot. Some situational short dramas seem to restore themselves in life.
After reading this book after a period of failed family education, I really realized that the problem was with me. Although I was late, I was better than never. Now I am beginning to wake up, learn, and have the courage to start over.
It's all practical information, and the examples are all common occurrences in life. Understand why children make me angry and angry, what are the needs of children behind them, and understand the emotions behind children's emotions. Understand what is the true self behind them. Find out why you are angry first, and then understand the child's true self behind it. When comfort, distraction, and feeding are all ineffective, leave the place and listen to the child crying without getting angry.
This book is really a rare book. Those who understand it will regard it as a treasure. Those who don't understand it will definitely find it cumbersome and useless.
The ideas in the book are very inspiring, such as respecting children's nature, giving up the desire to control, and establishing an equal and mutually supportive relationship with children. I think this not only helps children grow, but also allows parents to grow themselves. I especially like the point in the book about parents and children becoming spiritual partners, which makes me cherish the time I spend with my children even more. However, I also kind of hated the controlling parent figure in the book, because I had my moments like that. But this book made me understand that such behavior is wrong. All in all, I would recommend this book to other mothers to become better parents together!
It is very good and comprehensive. Whether your child is an infant or an adolescent, it is suitable for parents to take a good look at. The examples in the book are close to life, and many of them are examples that I have encountered in the process of raising children. Let children be themselves, stimulate their inner motivation, and allow parents and children to be better versions of themselves. I agree!
Must listen again
Worth pondering for every parent
Super beautiful, highly recommended, can't put it down
Very practical and valuable!
Good, good, good, good
Through this book, I found a breakthrough to resolve conflicts with my children.
Appendix 1 Secrets to Staying Sober in Times of Conflict
It was so well written, almost every point resonated deeply with me and gave me a glimpse into the problems that exist in my family's reality.
It has subverted the traditional concept of parenting and has gained a lot. Some situational short dramas seem to restore themselves in life.