Reading Human Psychology

Understanding a person can be based on appearance, expression, language, life details, etc. However, in order to make accurate judgments based on these, in addition to being careful enough, it also requires long-term observation to learn the rules. And this law is exactly what the author in this book wants to teach us. By reading people, we can have smoother daily interpersonal interactions and avoid our own momentary mistakes causing the other party's displeasure. Not only that, the author's method in the book is also combined with the environment at that time, which can make readers more accurate.

It elaborates and explains people's psychological activities from many aspects, providing us with useful knowledge in many aspects of life. Very nice.

It explains people's psychological activities and psychological states from various aspects, providing great help for communication in life.

The author, Song Fei, has about 10,000 hours of psychological counseling experience. He has in-depth research on people's micro-expressions, micro-movements and micro-reactions, and can be keenly aware of the subtle psychological changes of others. She refines and organizes these research results to allow readers to easily understand others and have better interpersonal relationships. This book explains multiple ways to see a person's character through habits, teaches how to treat people with different characteristics, accurately grasp their character and mentality, and then decide to get to know and interact with them to achieve your goals.

I didn't give it full stars because I personally think it's not detailed enough about how to read people through facial expressions and movements. This book is relatively comprehensive.

Read thousands of books and travel thousands of miles, I still want to read them again

Language is an art. Being able to speak, have a conversation, and say nice things is a sign of a person's high emotional intelligence. However, the premise is that you must understand the other person's words, not only the meaning of the words themselves, but also the implication, so that you can get into the other person's heart. A person can lie in words and wear a mask in expression, but his body cannot lie. Observing a person's subconscious actions can help us understand his emotional changes and true inner thoughts at this time, which helps us take the initiative in the psychological game with him.

You think IQ is important, but in fact emotional intelligence is more important. The knowledge you don't know can be learned through various channels, but the ability to observe words and emotions will be a lesson you need to learn throughout your life. Learning to read people will benefit you throughout your life. Understanding others, understanding yourself, and learning to deal with various interpersonal relationships is the essence of this book. When reading people, it is important to develop strong observation skills and precise insights. "The Psychology of Reading People" discusses the abilities in these two aspects, systematically describes the principles and purposes of the psychology of reading people, and reveals the truth behind these appearances from the perspective of psychology from the aspects of appearance, expression, language, subconscious actions, life details, etc. This book also breaks out of the framework of identifying people by themselves, accurately identifies people from their environment, and interprets people's performance on different occasions to understand a person more comprehensively. At the end of the book, the book also introduces several inappropriate ways to recognize people, so that you can truly see people in an impartial and unbalanced way.

"IQ is not everything, EQ determines your upper limit." The author of this book analyzes the psychological knowledge in daily life to us from a psychological perspective, explains it to us in an easy-to-understand way, helps us understand ourselves, build self-confidence, understand others, and help us live a better life. As the author said, "You may not mean what you say, but your body cannot lie." Because body language is formed in early infancy, many body language signals come from behavioral patterns in human genes or experiences in childhood. With the help of psychology, we can understand other people's intentions more clearly.

Moreover, the book also introduces other methods of recognizing people, which is quite interesting. The author's writing style is simple and easy to understand, just like chatting with friends, and the examples are very close to life, making it easy for me to understand. I feel that after reading this book, I will be better at understanding people at work!

It's good to see, and I gained a lot.