This Marriage Is so Confusing, and the Marriage Is so Sweet That You Go Crazy

I just saw someone in the comment area asking if it's a double clean. I want to say, can a married person still do it? How did you come up with this question? Why do so many people care about this? As long as it's a good work, isn't it worth reading? The male and female protagonists of this book are each other's salvation. They heal each other together. It doesn't feel boring at all until the end, and it is even unfinished. The characters have high EQ and IQ, and the way friends and lovers get along with each other is very special and very enviable. The author's writing style is very good, humorous, and very touching. A great piece worth seeing.

It took me a few days to read it. The writing is very good and delicate. I especially admire the three perspectives of the male and female protagonists in the story. It is worth reading. Especially those who are immature can find another way of thinking from this novel. It doesn't matter if you don't understand. There are answers in the comments. I believe it will inspire you. When it comes to this, I really have to complain. I saw in the comments that many readers like to "point their fingers" at the author's plots and like to ask why. I feel tired for the author when she explains it time and time again. People are inherently complex creatures, and any choice is possible. There are so many reasons. There are just such people. Don't always think from God's perspective what others should do. It's normal not to understand, but please respect, respect everyone's differences, and respect the stories written by the author! Now let me tell you what I think. I really like the way Ji Fox and Wan Da Mao get along. Smart people don't need so many twists and turns when they fall in love, otherwise it will be too tiring. They are very straightforward, ask questions directly, solve problems immediately, and have no bloody misunderstandings. This is what sensible adults should be like! I remember Wan hope said that if one day she stops where she is and Ji Qingyao keeps moving forward, then he will no longer like her. Isn't this the reality? It's so real that it makes people a little sad. Good love must be mutually reinforcing. If either party stagnates, the two will drift apart. Don't say that if you love someone, you must love everything about him, and you must love him no matter what he becomes. Only immature people can say this. If the love between the male and female protagonists is the best ideal state, then the story of Qu Mengmeng and Qin Xinran should be the norm for most people in reality. Qu Mengmeng is a dodder with no ambitions. She can grow up independently when she has no partner. But after she got married, she gave up her job. Many people said that no one asked her to give up her job and no one asked her to be a housewife. Yes, so what? Her husband has the ability to allow her to live a prosperous life without working. Is it difficult to understand why she gives up her job? Of course, if you don't understand, you don't need to stand on the moral high ground and blame others for what they deserve, saying that she didn't go out to work because no one forced her. Qin Xinran and Qu Mengmeng are very similar. They are both unemployed housewives. The difference is that Qin Xinran has her own ambitions. She just succumbed to the environment and finally fell into the quagmire and almost lost herself. After reading the stories of several people, I deeply felt the importance of effective communication, being well-matched, and having the right outlook on marriage. Another point is that a woman must have herself and her own career to have the confidence to speak. Many people know these things, but how many can do them? Life is a long subject, and I may not be able to find the right answer in my life. What I can do is try to find the answer in the mistakes and become a better version of myself.

I really like the style of this book. Although the setting of a rich young master and a strong woman is indispensable, there are still many things that gave me a refreshing feeling. The discussion on singleness, love, marriage, and women made me feel very close to my heart. Maybe those who like cool writing may feel that the old routine is a bit artificial and pretentious. But for me, who is particularly emotional, it touched me very much. Seeing that there is no major abuse now, the interaction between the protagonists is sensible and funny. The story of the supporting characters can also be deeply felt through the author's short description. I hope there will be a happy ending in the future

Ordinary life is mixed with extraordinary and full of fireworks. Everyone in the book has shortcomings, but they will not make people find these shortcomings difficult to accept. Wan Damao and Ji Fox once had wounds on their bodies. When they meet each other, they heal each other. They are both there. I met the right person at the right time, Su Jiaciqu Mengmeng, Qin Xinran and Shiroda-kun. They all fully demonstrated what love is not a restriction but mutual understanding. They are very warm and may have some regrets, but it is precisely because of these regrets that they are unforgettable.

"When people look at the mountains, fish look at the lotuses, and everything they ask for is unavailable. When I met you, the sky suddenly broke through, brightening the abyss. In that glance, I saw the white hair of Duxue, and glimpsed a glimmer of life." In the world of fireworks, the most ordinary is also the happiest. The characters are very distinct, and everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. After all, no one is perfect. The love between Wan Da Mao and Ji Fox may not be vigorous, but it is a long-lasting love. Love is in every ordinary day. I really like the characters of the male and female protagonists. They see the problem very clearly. They are as real as if they are living well in that parallel world. I really like the author's writing style, which is very literary and artistic. The feeling of narrating it is very comfortable.

Regarding the story between the male and female protagonists, I would like to say that this is the real redemption of each other. I'm sorry that I can't think of good words to describe them. I can only say that everything that happened in their past was reasonable and traceable (it may not be right to say this, but it is the fact and it is not caused by unreasonable reasons). They were honest with each other, not holding anything back, and he confessed that she was his antidote and that he would be her answer. There is no better look than this. I believe you will feel something and be touched after reading it. The reason why it is called true redemption is because other novels with the title of redemption are too weak in their definition. Here, perhaps we can get a glimpse of the courage to face it head-on, as well as the reason why people must continue to grow. The author has a wide range of knowledge, involves many nouns, and has a good grasp of details. The plot of the story is well developed, and I look forward to the follow-up⸜₍๑•⌔•๑ ₎⸝

I love it so much. The male and female protagonists are both rational and talkative. Misunderstandings are resolved as soon as they arise. I like this! This is really one of the few dirty articles I have read, but I really love it! No one will hate someone who respects you, understands you, loves you, stays with you, spends money for you, and helps you through difficulties! This is what the male protagonist is like! Simply my ideal type! (Excluding uncleanness) The heroine is also very good. She has her own career, parents who love her, and close friends who accompany her. I really like her family atmosphere. None of her relatives are the best. She is super easy to get along with! So does the hero's family! It's really rare to see a novel in which the male protagonist is not an orphan. It seems that in other novels, only the male protagonist is an orphan, which can bring out their misery [facepalm] (I'm going to be miserable too. I haven't even finished my 8 o'clock DingTalk homework yet (ಥಥ). The teacher is afraid he wants to kill me)

It's quite good-looking. It's not the kind of exaggerated character. The author uses a plain but relaxed and humorous writing style to talk about the pursuit of love. It's not the kind of "woman, you successfully attracted my attention" kind of thing. I hope it can persist and not be unfinished.

Really highly recommended! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! This book is really very good to read. The male and female protagonists are both very sensible and tall adults. There are funny parts and touching parts. Many parts are really touching. The writing is very real and sweet. [Learned][Learned][Learned][Learned][Learned Got it] [Learned] [laugh] [laugh] [laugh] Good look good good look good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good good Look good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good Looks good, looks good, looks good, looks good, looks good, looks good, looks good, looks good, looks good, looks good, looks good, looks good, looks good, looks good, looks good, looks good, looks good, looks good

I read the entire book carefully during the summer vacation and read it every day before going to bed. I found the way Wan Da Mao and Ji Fox get along with each other very interesting, and they communicate in a timely manner when encountering conflicts. I love this. I have read some novels before, and when something happens, I immediately think it is the other person's fault, and I don't communicate and hide it in my heart. I am also a bit bad at expressing myself, and I always like to hide it. Unfortunately, I have a little low self-esteem. When dealing with things, I always consider others first and myself last. When I read the article, I realized, why can't I put myself first? Sometimes if I give too much to others, they will take it for granted, but I can never be neither humble nor arrogant, but put myself in the lowest position (I seem to have gone too far). I envy Wan Da Mao's character. She is confident and always attracts me with her personal charm. I am hesitant in doing things and often criticized. After reading the article, I have learned a lot. I hope I can be as confident as Wan Da Mao and live for myself. The writing style is one of the best I have read on Tomato so far. Every scene is written so deeply that it is deeply rooted in people's hearts, and they unconsciously become involved in the beautiful scenes. This feeling is also felt in the literary works I have read before. Looking forward to a great new work~

It is really a treasured little novel. Wan Da Mao, who is sober in the world, coexisting with wisdom and beauty, meets Ji Fox, who is cautious and possesses a drama spirit. The men are talented and the women are evenly matched. They test each other until they redeem each other and love each other deeply. Such experiences and past relationships are even more touching! The iron triangle of good friends Xige, Dog Girl, and Xin Ran is really touching. The writing is humorous and full of pictures. It's great! And my lovely family and work partners! Why don't you hurry up and wait and see? ? ! ! 😜😜😜

The novel is very well written, I really like it. The author's writing style is superb, his literary skills are profound, his language is concise and humorous, and there are many philosophical quotations. The whole novel is very comfortable to read, and it feels very enjoyable to read. The love story between the heroine Wan hope and the hero Ji Qingyao is very attractive. I admire the way this couple gets along, and I also envy the tacit understanding and honesty between them. Although the plot of the story does not have twists and turns, it is very touching and makes people feel immersed in it. It is very real and close to life. Through the novel, it seems that we can see the template of a harmonious couple, which is inspiring to people. Each couple in the book has a unique style that describes the various aspects of the couple's relationship. What a rare and good book! Like the author 👍🏿 and recommend it to readers. Does the author have any other works?

This book is really good, not only the plot, but also it can teach you a lot of things, such as marriage, friendship, and many more, including laughter and tears, happiness and regret. The two injured little beasts warmed each other and healed each other, and finally discovered that fate had arranged everything. In response to what Mr. Yang Jiang said, before I met you, I never thought about getting married. After meeting you, I never thought about getting married with anyone else. After we met, I suddenly realized that the person I loved looked like this. Meeting the right person at the right time is probably the best form of love.

I really like this kind of male and female protagonist. There is no bloody sadomasochism. If any problems arise, they will communicate and solve them. They are sensible but affectionate. Because I love you so much, I know respect and understanding. This is how marriage should be. The author's writing style is really good. He is as mature and gentle as a gentleman, caressing the readers' hearts. You used to love that person with full expectations, and imagined your future. It was true when you fell in love, and the scars were also true. You were tired and bruised and dared not love, but in your heart you still looked forward to meeting the person who traveled across mountains and seas to meet you. Maybe that person got lost and made you wait for a long time, but you have to believe that there will always be someone. The light that belongs to you has come to you. Before it comes, you must live well, be healthy or let the wounds of your last relationship fester and worsen on you. The light that guides you in the direction is not your tetanus antitoxin shot. Please love yourself well and wait for the light that belongs to you in your best way. Whether it is love leading to marriage or marriage first and love later, I hope that we can all be like dusty travelers who have a home and no longer wander alone. I hope that we can all be treated gently.

It's really a book that I experienced The characters created by the author have very correct views. For example, the author himself has very correct views. This world is both beautiful and noisy. The source of all happiness depends on whether the person around you is the one who resonates with you at the same frequency. I really appreciate this author. In life, she is definitely a very wise person. In this book, what attracts me most is not only the lifestyle of the two people, but also the way the male and female protagonists deal with problems. Communication is really crucial in married life.

Sisters, please read Kangkang's book! The author's three views are truly righteous! Each couple here has their own way of falling in love, even if it is dull, it contains deep happiness, which is the most anticipated happiness in reality. Wan Da Mao and Ji Fox are each other's salvation. Wan Da Mao is like a little sun, shining warm light into Ji Fox's heart and dispelling the haze caused by the past. I once again lamented the greatness of words, conveying a lot of positive energy and learning a lot of truths. Anyway, in general! It's so beautiful!

A very good book with correct views. How many people in love have broken up their families and suffered unbearably due to insufficient communication and understanding. I very much agree with the relationship between the male and female protagonists in the book. Only by being open and honest, communicating in a timely manner, and facing things together can we achieve long-term happiness.

This is really a good book, with detailed descriptions of characters and what life is like. There are not so many domineering CEOs and petty wives in reality, they are just girls' fantasies about love. This book describes the beauty of love, the reality of marriage, and the fact that life cannot escape the ordinary life. Wan Da Mao and Ji Fox, they all had their youth and experienced vigorous pain and joy, but now, they are chasing life. They keep the past pain and joy in their hearts and feel grateful. Because of them, they are the better people they are now. The most important thing in the adult world is not to reminisce about the past or look forward to the future, but to grasp the present moment. All people and things at the moment, both good and bad, are worthy of our careful savoring at this moment. The author's writing style is superb, and his gentle and delicate logic is perfectly grasped [love] [love] [love] [love]

It's really good. This book is more realistic than the kind of book with common plots and clichés. There are many things in this book. If you think about it through the words, you will find a lot. For example, everyone has their own choice and has no right to interfere or say; love is about mutual growth, not fetters. It is not a circle and there is no need to trap yourself. The correct view of love is to do whatever you want. I will always support you and will always be by your side. It has been too long and I have forgotten what I want and the correct way to love.

I really like this book! The stories in the book are like the author sharing his views on marriage, life, love, and hate with readers, and I also like and agree with it. I feel that the whole story describes the life that ordinary people long for. It is plain, without a big bowl of blood, but with countless little troubles, but also with the warmth of human fireworks and relatives and friends. There will be dissatisfaction or even major setbacks in life. After encountering these, everyone will be scarred, and most people will choose to continue to move forward in the world with these injuries. Whenever this happens, we look forward to the appearance of someone who can "resonate at the same frequency" as us. It would be even better if this person is a lover, who can stay with us for a lifetime and experience the regrets and beauty of the future together. Sometimes I feel that the dialogue between Wan Da Mao and Ji Fox is very similar to two selves having a dialogue, and then reconciling everything through candid exchanges again and again. After reading this book, I am looking forward to love again. Although I don't know when I will meet someone who is as compatible and understanding as Wan Da Mao and Ji Fox, it still does not affect my yearning for a beautiful relationship. I also like and agree with many of the views on marriage in the book, which describe exactly the kind of intimate relationship I yearn for, with mutual dependence, mutual independence, shared responsibility, and joint growth. How wonderful. In fact, I didn't believe it when I first saw the introduction, but it is undeniable that my expectations were very high, and I was very interested in the love of wise men. After reading it, I looked back and found that the introduction was not crooked at all and far exceeded my expectations. I will always be moved by plain tenderness. The author writes really well! Looking forward to new works~(●'◡'●) By the way, there's also the foreshadowing written in the introduction. It's really cool to recycle it at the end! ! I like this kind of perfection so much🥰

It was well done, a two-way redemption, but the male protagonist was really separated in the early stage, but considering that he was PUA, it was excusable. Fortunately, he opened his heart step by step and did not miss each other. In fact, when I saw the female protagonist's future fantasy partner, I knew there was a foreshadowing. Hahaha, I didn't expect it. It turned out that the two of them had met many years ago. It was fate. Perhaps the most troubled person here is Shi Le. He ruined two people because of his youthful frivolity and jealousy. In the end, he did not have a happy death. Tsk, how should I put it, it is hateful and pathetic.

It's a very nice book. The author's writing style is very good. The plot is compact and not procrastinating. There is no bloody plot. Moreover, the author's views are very upright. There are many philosophies in it. It is very transparent and you can learn a lot.

It's good to read. You can learn a lot from this book, as well as how to deal with people in marriage and life. It's a very good book. I wonder if there is a physical book that I can buy. Well, I love this book. The author writes so well! ! !

The author's writing style is very good and his views are very correct. Pretty faces are all the same, but interesting souls are unique. He is probably also a wonderful person in life. Collect first, prepare for the second brush [laughing][laughing] The second brush is over. Among all the books Tomato has read, this is the one in which the male and female protagonists are the most compatible in every aspect. What a great writing style. Only through personal experience in life can you write such a wonderful article. Collected it, I hope I can write more good works in the future [Like][Like]

I've finished reading it. The story is really good, the three views are really positive, the author's writing style is super good, everyone has their own ending, the characters are very distinctive, and the emotions are delicate. Some of the contents really moved me to the point of bursting into laughter. It's really, really, really beautiful! ! ! But don't rush to a conclusion when you read some content and you can't figure it out. If you keep reading, everything will suddenly become clear! ! ! (Also, this title bothers me a lot. I obviously added this book to my bookshelf around March, but then removed it from the bookshelf because of the title, and later added it back. Then I didn't read it until I read it two days ago. It was so good!!! The author said how nice the original title of the book was, "Who Sees a Floating Fish Peering into the Lotus". Oh, it really is, but the content is really good, it is really a very delicate book, and it is very worth reading.)

It is a book worth reading. I think it can be made into a movie. The male protagonist and the female protagonist can be together. I think first of all, they are of age, and both parties have financial resources and experience, so they can be together, redeem each other, communicate in a timely manner if there are problems, and have normal outlook on life. Their personalities are quite suitable. If you want to live like them, you must first have finances and ability before you can talk about relationships. It is very important to be well-matched.

This is a must-do book, very close to life. There is no identical love in the world. Feel the sweetness and sadness by yourself, and don't envy others. How can you encounter the same emotions when you are unique? Live your own life, like the heroine, independent and tolerant, but with your own principles. If you like the author, even if you are broken into pieces🧩, I will put you back together again and again.

It's really beautiful. Come on, Dada. It has given us the most ideal model of getting along with each other in marriage. Most of the quarrels and conflicts in marriages come from one's own hesitancy to speak, and using one's own thought to understand the other person's thoughts to solve the problem, but that is not what the other party wants. Communication is really important.

Ji Huhu and Wan Damao are a couple whose feelings have been hurt. They both value feelings and are very down-to-earth. Wan Da Mao was wronged and seriously injured physically and mentally, but he was still able to actively receive treatment, stand up bravely, and live a meaningful life. He was not tired of worrying about others. He was living a good life on his own and was planning to give back to the society and seek a better future. We have no choice in many things and can only take things as they come. We especially like Wan Damao's attitude towards life. This book gave me a refreshing feeling, as many people and things were new to me. A pretty good book! ! !

It's really beautiful [adoration][adoration][adoration] The love, family affection, and friendship in it are really enviable, and many of the views expressed by the author touched me. A good friendship means understanding each other without having to talk to each other; a good love means mutual progress and understanding; a good family relationship means giving strength no matter where you are. In a relationship, we will worry about gains and losses, and we will go on firmly with each other, do not run away from problems, and dare to speak our thoughts, which will better help the continuation of love. Experiencing love teaches us how to love others and guides us how to love ourselves, so don't be afraid of the coming of love.