This is a book about how to understand children from their perspective.
Through vivid examples of parenting in life, this book shows us how to obtain a good parent-child relationship by reading and understanding children. More importantly, when we understand the child's heart, we can truly protect the child's original intention as a guardian and appreciate the wonderful things they show in the process of becoming themselves.
Reader comments
There are many short stories, making it a parenting book suitable for easy reading in your spare time. The underlying logic is organized according to the story:
1. Get to know the child. Children are also independent individuals, and they also have joys, sorrows, and joys. Children will grow if you work hard or not. Children have pure love for their parents, but parents have a lot of love for their children. Face, expectations, etc.
2. Respect children. Children are independent and have their own moods and emotions. Some like it, some are happy, and some are angry. Parents and children can teach their children normal and basic emotional output by getting along with each other. Every child is different. Respect your child's personality and guide him slowly. Don't compare yourself with other people's children. Cherish your child's tantrums, because they love you more and they will express their truest self.
3. Draw clear boundaries. Find out if you are forcing your dreams on your children. Think about whether the class you are enrolling in is what your child wants. Your own dreams come true, and your children also have their own dreams. We can encourage each other and achieve together.
4. Really accompany your children and be an emotionally stable parent. The child is your own. If you care for it with love and accompany it with your heart, a baby nourished by love will be able to move forward courageously in the future without fear of failure. Put down your phone and really play with your child for 20 minutes every day, and he will see great changes. Secondly, you must be emotionally stable and know what you want and do. Being able to teach children the first lesson in life. We parents are the best school district for our children.
After reading this book, it is better to read "It's Better to Understand Children than to Manage Children" for a clearer logic. It analyzes the relationship between children and adults from the perspective of a psychologist.
What this book has brought me is intimacy and friendship. What a surprise. Through this book, I express my love to my lover without hesitation, at least once a week.
I expressed to my friends their place in my heart, and they were touched.
What's more, it's for your own children.
The ability to learn to love turns out to be better than being loved. It feels even better.
Many of the scenes in the book are what I am currently experiencing, or have already experienced. While reading, I reflect on my own behavior, hoping that I can calm down, control my emotions, and let my children be children [Love]
It mainly describes some experiences of children when they were children and how parents responded to them. It gives many examples that we think are normal but have left harm to their children. It is worth reading for mothers whose babies are in kindergarten, which is a critical period for developing character. It is also very helpful for babies who are already in elementary school and need to adjust the way they get along with the baby.
This book provides many real parenting cases, allowing me to better understand the inner world of children. The author's writing style is concise and smooth, making people feel like they are chatting with a friend. The book emphasizes the importance of understanding children, which not only helps us establish a good parent-child relationship, but also allows children to be themselves better. I think this is a very enlightening book and worth reading.
This is the most life-appropriate and realistic book I have read on parenting so far. The author not only writes about herself from the mother's perspective, but also writes about herself from the child's perspective. How to deal with the changes in children on the road of growth. With examples, it is worth learning for us as parents, and I have the urge to read it a second time.
The child's "mirror" is the parents!
It's very beneficial. Children are indeed a mirror for adults. Only by becoming a better version of yourself can you lead your children to a better future. For the sake of my child, I should also work hard to be what I want, so that he can become a better version of himself.
The writing is very true. To educate children well, parents should first set an example.
Good book, vivid examples
Spend more positive energy with your children and always shield yourself from negative energy! Thanks to this book for letting me understand the meaning of this sentence.
A good book with concise and smooth content that fits real life. Gives real ways to educate your daughter. But parents still have to teach students in accordance with their aptitude.
The writing is very good. Things in life are like this. I understand deeply and change it myself.
Refresh my knowledge
Very good recommendation
It is recommended that every parent read this book.
Close to life, only by improving yourself can you cultivate an independent child
To educate children, change yourself first, which is particularly practical.
A very helpful book for parenting
A very helpful parenting book
The book is very good. It talks about common things in life and is easy to understand. It made me get to know myself again, study hard, and change the things I did not do well.
This is a very good book that helps parents learn in depth.
I gained a lot from watching it and gained a lot of insights. A very heartwarming book!
Simple and clear, worth recommending! If you have time, you can watch it a few more times
There are many short stories, making it a parenting book suitable for easy reading in your spare time. The underlying logic is organized according to the story: 1. Get to know the child. Children are also independent individuals, and they also have joys, sorrows, and joys. Children will grow if you work hard or not. Children have pure love for their parents, but parents have a lot of love for their children. Face, expectations, etc. 2. Respect children. Children are independent and have their own moods and emotions. Some like it, some are happy, and some are angry. Parents and children can teach their children normal and basic emotional output by getting along with each other. Every child is different. Respect your child's personality and guide him slowly. Don't compare yourself with other people's children. Cherish your child's tantrums, because they love you more and they will express their truest self. 3. Draw clear boundaries. Find out if you are forcing your dreams on your children. Think about whether the class you are enrolling in is what your child wants. Your own dreams come true, and your children also have their own dreams. We can encourage each other and achieve together. 4. Really accompany your children and be an emotionally stable parent. The child is your own. If you care for it with love and accompany it with your heart, a baby nourished by love will be able to move forward courageously in the future without fear of failure. Put down your phone and really play with your child for 20 minutes every day, and he will see great changes. Secondly, you must be emotionally stable and know what you want and do. Being able to teach children the first lesson in life. We parents are the best school district for our children. After reading this book, it is better to read "It's Better to Understand Children than to Manage Children" for a clearer logic. It analyzes the relationship between children and adults from the perspective of a psychologist. What this book has brought me is intimacy and friendship. What a surprise. Through this book, I express my love to my lover without hesitation, at least once a week. I expressed to my friends their place in my heart, and they were touched. What's more, it's for your own children. The ability to learn to love turns out to be better than being loved. It feels even better.
Many of the scenes in the book are what I am currently experiencing, or have already experienced. While reading, I reflect on my own behavior, hoping that I can calm down, control my emotions, and let my children be children [Love]
It mainly describes some experiences of children when they were children and how parents responded to them. It gives many examples that we think are normal but have left harm to their children. It is worth reading for mothers whose babies are in kindergarten, which is a critical period for developing character. It is also very helpful for babies who are already in elementary school and need to adjust the way they get along with the baby.
This book provides many real parenting cases, allowing me to better understand the inner world of children. The author's writing style is concise and smooth, making people feel like they are chatting with a friend. The book emphasizes the importance of understanding children, which not only helps us establish a good parent-child relationship, but also allows children to be themselves better. I think this is a very enlightening book and worth reading.
This is the most life-appropriate and realistic book I have read on parenting so far. The author not only writes about herself from the mother's perspective, but also writes about herself from the child's perspective. How to deal with the changes in children on the road of growth. With examples, it is worth learning for us as parents, and I have the urge to read it a second time.
The child's "mirror" is the parents!
It's very beneficial. Children are indeed a mirror for adults. Only by becoming a better version of yourself can you lead your children to a better future. For the sake of my child, I should also work hard to be what I want, so that he can become a better version of himself.
The writing is very true. To educate children well, parents should first set an example.
Good book, vivid examples
Spend more positive energy with your children and always shield yourself from negative energy! Thanks to this book for letting me understand the meaning of this sentence.
A good book with concise and smooth content that fits real life. Gives real ways to educate your daughter. But parents still have to teach students in accordance with their aptitude.
The writing is very good. Things in life are like this. I understand deeply and change it myself.
Refresh my knowledge
Very good recommendation
It is recommended that every parent read this book.
Close to life, only by improving yourself can you cultivate an independent child
To educate children, change yourself first, which is particularly practical.
A very helpful book for parenting
A very helpful parenting book
The book is very good. It talks about common things in life and is easy to understand. It made me get to know myself again, study hard, and change the things I did not do well.
This is a very good book that helps parents learn in depth.
I gained a lot from watching it and gained a lot of insights. A very heartwarming book!
Simple and clear, worth recommending! If you have time, you can watch it a few more times