To Yourself, You Are Just a Stranger

After reading this book, I think what touches me the most is: "The more you control, the more you will be controlled. When you let go, you will be free.", "A lot of people's anger comes from controlling others.", "The best way to get along with others is to give up all expectations of what the other person is like, and acknowledge what they are. "Many times the reason why we fail is not because of our ability, but because we are not convinced that we can succeed." This is indeed the case. I know where my problem is, but I can't change it, so it's very painful. I think I need to read more books like this to save myself.

This book resonated with me very much, especially what was mentioned in the book: "Only when we learn to observe ourselves in life and face our own imperfections and pain honestly can we understand the body's 'cry'." Just like the girl in the book who became a full-time housewife, her experience reminded me of myself. Sometimes we lose ourselves for various reasons, but only by facing our own hearts can we find the true direction. This book can not only inspire young people, but also suitable for everyone who wants to change themselves.

If you are confused, anxious, and often feel that you are not going well, have no motivation, feel that life is meaningless, and you are not successful in anything you do. Even if you succeed, you still don't know why you are so unhappy, ask yourself if you have loved yourself, if you have neglected yourself, and if you have recognized yourself and what kind of person you want to be. After reading this book, I suddenly realized that I can still live a loving life! What a meaningful thing. I'm so lucky to read this author's book! It's very beneficial. I recommend readers to read it and gain something from it [Sending my heart]

If you don't understand, please read it twice [Sending my heart]

Some of the various examples given by the author refer to me now or in the past, especially the trauma in my heart. I have always been unwilling to admit those two problems. I had these two psychological traumas when I was in third grade, but only 1.5 Of them have been solved until now. Most of the help for these 1.5 Came from my mother, a psychological counselor, although she only recently obtained her junior certificate. She understands me very well, even though we haven't seen each other for almost six or seven years. I think this is the psychological trauma that has stopped my psychological growth. There is also a part of my own reasons for this, which I am unwilling to face, I avoid and deceive myself. Part of the content in this book has the same meaning as the soul-related classes I have taken, and it also contains part of the author's own feelings. However, I think there is not much difference between those classes and this book. The biggest difference is that the fees for those classes are relatively high. I think this book only needs to be read by yourself. You can read it at any time and anywhere when you have something to think about. It is very convenient.

This book lists many examples, covering a wide range of aspects, with clear and convincing views. The first time I saw the title of the book, I was attracted by it. Why am I just a stranger to myself? I opened the book and read it carefully. I found that the more I read, the more I liked it and I had a deep feeling. It clarified some of my inner thoughts and made me realize myself more clearly. [Like][Like][Like][Blow a kiss][Blow a kiss][Blow a kiss]

The descriptions of many details of life pay great attention to the transformation of self-feelings. This may require someone with a particularly delicate mind to think like the ones mentioned in the book. What I feel is that when people's emotions change strongly, all these are useless.

After reading this book, you can re-understand yourself and pay better attention to your heart. It has opinions and cases, which is good.

We may know ourselves, or we may only know ourselves on the surface, and we will not be able to live our true selves better, so we have to live every day, just for a better life and ourselves, so we are always on the road, and we are always getting better.

I seem to have done nothing well since I was a child, so I have always been depressed, especially since the sixth grade. I don't know what else I can do. After all, I can't even play games well. All I do is consume myself. When I read the book, I seemed to see hope, but when I found that I couldn't grasp it, I became anxious. After reading the next part.

To sum up, the most important thing for people is to be themselves. Everyone is unique, and don't lose yourself by being judged by others.

This book can be regarded as the beginning of my journey of finding myself. I have memorized many of the words in it. It is just like what the author said. I believe it and do it. These are my support. I really like the author's way of speaking. It's very real. His guidance helped me meet a better me.

In this complex society, what is needed is to see ourselves clearly.

Good books require countless readings. This book helps more than just psychologically.

It allows me to sort out myself and find myself, and it also allows me to look at problems from another angle when dealing with things in life, which has benefited me a lot. I feel calm when reading. This feeling of calm makes me feel at ease. Every article, every word, teaches me how to love myself. Reading time and time again makes me think deeply about living out myself and deeply facing the importance of life to myself.

(￣▼￣)This book appeared in my life just right

The content is easy to understand and is very instructive when combined with real life. I hope everyone can live the way they want.

People must first accept themselves as they are, then see their own resources, until they can accept and give love without any scruples.

"I hope each of us can live the way we want sooner or later." Perhaps the first step in solving a problem is to accept the problem, do not avoid it, be patient even if you are afraid, face the problem head-on, see the problem clearly, and then solve the problem.

This book is really good and worth your time.

I have read a lot of psychology books, and this one is pretty good. Some sentences are very chewy and can be savored and pondered over and over again.

A book that attracted me. The author's narration nourishes my heart like a stream. Start thinking about how to truly love yourself and how to live your own life well.

I felt a lot and benefited a lot.

I hope each of us can live the way we want sooner or later.

I felt enlightened after reading this book. Begin to realize, practice, and cultivate your inner strength from now on.

Like it very much. I never felt like a stranger before. After this, I seemed to feel that I was both strange and familiar. Many inherent concepts and cognitions formed since childhood are constantly being dissolved and expanded. I am me and I am not me. I can feel a deep tranquility behind the words. 2024.12.6 Check-in completed

A good book, many words in it point directly to the truth of life and make you wake up! Will read it again! !

Excellent, simple language, easy to understand. Very helpful.