If you always feel like something is missing in a relationship and become unhappy and disconnected, this is not a unique dilemma for you. Numerous psychological and neurobiological studies demonstrate that feelings of love and people's resilience in times of stress and trauma are linked to our emotions in childhood and adolescence.
The author combines psychology × neurobiology × psychopathology to deeply analyze the key factors that affect intimate relationships, from a person's infancy, childhood, adolescence, to adulthood, explaining how our psychological problems arise and how they are quietly imprinted in our lives. This book will allow us to understand the connection between the parent-child relationship in childhood and adolescence and the attachment relationship in adulthood, giving us a new understanding of love, marriage, friendship, passion, understanding, communication, intimacy, attachment, mate selection, etc.
Reader comments
"They need comfort, not pity."
"It's your brain that reacts this way, not you"
"I don't understand why in psychology we insist on dealing with the symptoms rather than the disease that causes the symptoms"
"Someone is needed to act as a dependency figure that has not been available in the past."
"The opposite of dissociation is integration, feeling like you are yourself. Feeling that you, your emotions, thoughts and actions are all one. For most of us this is normal, but for many people with split personality it is unattainable."
My substance is the affirmation that changes and remains unchanged, and my essence is the negation that is recognized but not seen.
But that doesn't stop me from being me
The writing style of this book is very unique. It combines knowledge from psychology, neurobiology, and psychopathology, which makes people benefit a lot. The author's writing style is concise and clear, and the content in the book is both professional and easy to understand. For example, it is mentioned in the book that "we would like to thank him for his tireless efforts to spread knowledge", which made me feel the author's humility. I think this book is not only suitable for professionals, but also for friends who are interested in psychology. It allows us to better understand ourselves and others, and helps us build and maintain healthy intimate relationships.
You can watch it, it's pretty good. I learned a little more about psychological trauma in adolescence.
Give different care to each stage of your child's growth, and relax and accept your inner voice.
The analysis was very professional, and I got all the symptoms correct.
"Looking in the mirror", caregiver/companion, attachment...
"They need comfort, not pity." "It's your brain that reacts this way, not you" "I don't understand why in psychology we insist on dealing with the symptoms rather than the disease that causes the symptoms" "Someone is needed to act as a dependency figure that has not been available in the past." "The opposite of dissociation is integration, feeling like you are yourself. Feeling that you, your emotions, thoughts and actions are all one. For most of us this is normal, but for many people with split personality it is unattainable." My substance is the affirmation that changes and remains unchanged, and my essence is the negation that is recognized but not seen. But that doesn't stop me from being me
The writing style of this book is very unique. It combines knowledge from psychology, neurobiology, and psychopathology, which makes people benefit a lot. The author's writing style is concise and clear, and the content in the book is both professional and easy to understand. For example, it is mentioned in the book that "we would like to thank him for his tireless efforts to spread knowledge", which made me feel the author's humility. I think this book is not only suitable for professionals, but also for friends who are interested in psychology. It allows us to better understand ourselves and others, and helps us build and maintain healthy intimate relationships.
You can watch it, it's pretty good. I learned a little more about psychological trauma in adolescence.
Give different care to each stage of your child's growth, and relax and accept your inner voice.
The analysis was very professional, and I got all the symptoms correct.
"Looking in the mirror", caregiver/companion, attachment...