Zeng Qifeng SHOU is a popular practical psychology course, summarizing 30 years of clinical experience and taking one year to polish it. The original Zeng's psychology will help you quickly get started with the school of psychological psychoanalysis.
Psychoanalysis is a science of success in the true sense. The greatest success in life is to fully become yourself and have a healthy and strong personality. Psychoanalysis can help us liberate our repressed and distorted personalities and gain true freedom. This book applies four major life scenarios, covering self-awareness + relationship insight + emotional management + scientific parenting; it includes the core concepts of psychoanalysis, specifically solves the most important issues in life, and writes prescriptions for healing your soul; it systematically explains the actual operating procedures of psychological counseling, and is a psychological self-help manual for every counselor and client.
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I read five books in a row by teacher Zeng Qifeng: "The Self You Don't Know", "Fantasy is Reality", "Zeng Qifeng's Psychology Class", "Hidden Personality - How Personality Determines Destiny", and "Moderate Defense: Establishing Nurturing Interpersonal Relationships". The mind is sometimes sober and sometimes confused; sometimes it is taken for granted and sometimes it is not taken for granted; and it feels that they have "over-interpretation", "improper interpretation" and "interpretation with opposites" of human nature; they even inexplicably experience a kind of "sophistication" and "golden mean"... . They seem to be from a side of martial arts... Perhaps, this is a unique "symptom" produced by taking psychology classes, understanding psychology, observing psychological (spiritual) analysis, and constantly conducting self-contemplation at the same time... Haha, it doesn't have to be like this at all! There is no need to practice this martial art! Isn't there something in the book that says, "One of the basic principles of psychoanalysis is to try not to analyze good things... We only analyze bad things. Because analysis has a deconstructive effect... And if it is something that is already good, we will not analyze it"! Therefore, it is good to listen to it broadly, evaluate and understand it, and understand that there are many aspects of psychology (spirit). Even so, I still feel that reading them has benefited my heart: it feels more relaxed, transparent, and calm.
There are many plots in this book that are still unclear. The difference does not mean that it is not a good book. I am most concerned about parenting knowledge and personal growth. There is a sentence in this book that is very touching. What is an ideal life? An ideal life is to have full awareness and full emotions. I think this is what I'm after. The big rhythm mentioned by the author in the book covers the core of many problems. The relationship between husband and wife is the main relationship. In this big link, the family can basically be said to be in a harmonious state; separation is an eternal theme. If separation is not achieved, children cannot truly grow up, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have constant problems, etc... I think what touches me the most is the parenting issue. It seems that I see the answer in the author's point of view. First of all, you must give trust, and don't feel that your children are not good at what they do. , Don't give up the social interaction you should have for your children... This is also the author's idea that separation is eternal... Finally, allow them to have their own little secrets, this is an independent individual...
Seeing this, I also discovered whether I have this compulsive masochistic tendency. Every time something happens at home, I know that it is impossible to change, but I still can't help but quarrel in order to achieve my demands, but every time I fail to achieve it. As the author said, do I fantasize about an ideal father with a broad shoulder, who is always a trash can for my emotions, who can guess the little secrets in my heart at any time, provide me with the necessary material foundation at any time, and can know the hot and cold at any time. Does such a perfect person exist? I clearly know that everyone is an independent individual, but I can't understand it clearly. At this moment, I seem to understand, and this kind of appeal in my heart is also normal. However, when this kind of appeal cannot be realized in reality, the disappointment towards the other party is replaced by self-attack, self-blame, and anger. I actually forgot that it is also an independent individual. Independent individuals have the ability to choose, and with the ability to choose, they have the ability to bear the consequences.
Esoteric books are so profound that I thought I had some understanding after reading them carefully. After reading a book, I realized that there was a lot that I didn't understand because the content of the book is relatively profound. Reading it slowly, or reading it after encountering problems, or reading it with experience, will leave a deeper impression, so I checked it out again the next day, underlined screenshots, understood and found answers. As for my thoughts after reading this book, I probably remember some phenomena about the self, the mask of defense, and the phenomenon of parenting. Reading this book will make people think, and inadvertently gain a third-person observation perspective, as if they have an understanding and understanding of themselves, and have some more directions. If you read this book again with questions, you will suddenly understand. This is a book that needs to be read again. I would like to thank the author and wish him health and safety.
This book is very practical, especially in terms of self-awareness, relationship insights, and emotional management. It has given me a lot of inspiration. The cases in the book and Teacher Zeng's analysis are very interesting and gave me a deeper understanding of psychoanalysis. I especially like teacher Zeng Qifeng. His explanations are very down-to-earth, just like chatting with friends, which makes people feel very friendly. Moreover, this book also introduces the real operation process of psychological counseling, which is very helpful for beginners like me. In short, I recommend it to everyone!
The insights are very profound. Teacher Zeng explained many daily life and pathological phenomena from the perspective of psychoanalysis, focusing on the role and guidance of the subconscious mind behind the consciousness. In the last part of the book, Teacher Zeng also gives understanding and suggestions on many problems and phenomena in psychological counseling. It is very sincere and beneficial!
The author is very knowledgeable about the psychology between men and women. A book well worth reading. Psychological counselors usually have to ask a lot of skillful questions to understand the patient's condition. Are there any scenes where you just sit there without saying a word? I feel like there should be.
Solving doubts and doubts, lifelong growth is the process of constantly reconciling with oneself, and the process of bravely exploring the spiritual journey [Like]
It's very good. People who are engaged in metaphysics said it is very useful. Thank you. I received a good shipment.
Ari 2023-11-17
This book is very useful for people who want to work as a psychological counselor.
A very good book.
Very good, super beautiful
Although I don't quite understand it, there are a few points in it that still inspired me. I gained something after reading it and I'm very happy.
I was fascinated by some of the things described in the book!
Thank you very much for Dr. Zeng's advice. I feel that my doubts in life have become clearer. I hope to read your new book. Thank you! I wish you and your family a happy life! Be happy and healthy!
This is a very interesting book about psychology
Strong professionalism and can provide more perfect solutions to problems
Very logical and thorough after reading.
Very good. Teacher Zeng's book is easy to understand.
A very good book, the teacher is very professional and the language is humorous. More importantly, he can answer almost all of our life's puzzles.
The language is simple, the content is considerate and inspiring [Like][Like][Like]
I read five books in a row by teacher Zeng Qifeng: "The Self You Don't Know", "Fantasy is Reality", "Zeng Qifeng's Psychology Class", "Hidden Personality - How Personality Determines Destiny", and "Moderate Defense: Establishing Nurturing Interpersonal Relationships". The mind is sometimes sober and sometimes confused; sometimes it is taken for granted and sometimes it is not taken for granted; and it feels that they have "over-interpretation", "improper interpretation" and "interpretation with opposites" of human nature; they even inexplicably experience a kind of "sophistication" and "golden mean"... . They seem to be from a side of martial arts... Perhaps, this is a unique "symptom" produced by taking psychology classes, understanding psychology, observing psychological (spiritual) analysis, and constantly conducting self-contemplation at the same time... Haha, it doesn't have to be like this at all! There is no need to practice this martial art! Isn't there something in the book that says, "One of the basic principles of psychoanalysis is to try not to analyze good things... We only analyze bad things. Because analysis has a deconstructive effect... And if it is something that is already good, we will not analyze it"! Therefore, it is good to listen to it broadly, evaluate and understand it, and understand that there are many aspects of psychology (spirit). Even so, I still feel that reading them has benefited my heart: it feels more relaxed, transparent, and calm.
There are many plots in this book that are still unclear. The difference does not mean that it is not a good book. I am most concerned about parenting knowledge and personal growth. There is a sentence in this book that is very touching. What is an ideal life? An ideal life is to have full awareness and full emotions. I think this is what I'm after. The big rhythm mentioned by the author in the book covers the core of many problems. The relationship between husband and wife is the main relationship. In this big link, the family can basically be said to be in a harmonious state; separation is an eternal theme. If separation is not achieved, children cannot truly grow up, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have constant problems, etc... I think what touches me the most is the parenting issue. It seems that I see the answer in the author's point of view. First of all, you must give trust, and don't feel that your children are not good at what they do. , Don't give up the social interaction you should have for your children... This is also the author's idea that separation is eternal... Finally, allow them to have their own little secrets, this is an independent individual... Seeing this, I also discovered whether I have this compulsive masochistic tendency. Every time something happens at home, I know that it is impossible to change, but I still can't help but quarrel in order to achieve my demands, but every time I fail to achieve it. As the author said, do I fantasize about an ideal father with a broad shoulder, who is always a trash can for my emotions, who can guess the little secrets in my heart at any time, provide me with the necessary material foundation at any time, and can know the hot and cold at any time. Does such a perfect person exist? I clearly know that everyone is an independent individual, but I can't understand it clearly. At this moment, I seem to understand, and this kind of appeal in my heart is also normal. However, when this kind of appeal cannot be realized in reality, the disappointment towards the other party is replaced by self-attack, self-blame, and anger. I actually forgot that it is also an independent individual. Independent individuals have the ability to choose, and with the ability to choose, they have the ability to bear the consequences.
Esoteric books are so profound that I thought I had some understanding after reading them carefully. After reading a book, I realized that there was a lot that I didn't understand because the content of the book is relatively profound. Reading it slowly, or reading it after encountering problems, or reading it with experience, will leave a deeper impression, so I checked it out again the next day, underlined screenshots, understood and found answers. As for my thoughts after reading this book, I probably remember some phenomena about the self, the mask of defense, and the phenomenon of parenting. Reading this book will make people think, and inadvertently gain a third-person observation perspective, as if they have an understanding and understanding of themselves, and have some more directions. If you read this book again with questions, you will suddenly understand. This is a book that needs to be read again. I would like to thank the author and wish him health and safety.
This book is very practical, especially in terms of self-awareness, relationship insights, and emotional management. It has given me a lot of inspiration. The cases in the book and Teacher Zeng's analysis are very interesting and gave me a deeper understanding of psychoanalysis. I especially like teacher Zeng Qifeng. His explanations are very down-to-earth, just like chatting with friends, which makes people feel very friendly. Moreover, this book also introduces the real operation process of psychological counseling, which is very helpful for beginners like me. In short, I recommend it to everyone!
The insights are very profound. Teacher Zeng explained many daily life and pathological phenomena from the perspective of psychoanalysis, focusing on the role and guidance of the subconscious mind behind the consciousness. In the last part of the book, Teacher Zeng also gives understanding and suggestions on many problems and phenomena in psychological counseling. It is very sincere and beneficial!
The author is very knowledgeable about the psychology between men and women. A book well worth reading. Psychological counselors usually have to ask a lot of skillful questions to understand the patient's condition. Are there any scenes where you just sit there without saying a word? I feel like there should be.
Solving doubts and doubts, lifelong growth is the process of constantly reconciling with oneself, and the process of bravely exploring the spiritual journey [Like]
It's very good. People who are engaged in metaphysics said it is very useful. Thank you. I received a good shipment. Ari 2023-11-17
This book is very useful for people who want to work as a psychological counselor.
A very good book.
Very good, super beautiful
Although I don't quite understand it, there are a few points in it that still inspired me. I gained something after reading it and I'm very happy.
I was fascinated by some of the things described in the book!
Thank you very much for Dr. Zeng's advice. I feel that my doubts in life have become clearer. I hope to read your new book. Thank you! I wish you and your family a happy life! Be happy and healthy!
This is a very interesting book about psychology
Strong professionalism and can provide more perfect solutions to problems
Very logical and thorough after reading.
Very good. Teacher Zeng's book is easy to understand.
A very good book, the teacher is very professional and the language is humorous. More importantly, he can answer almost all of our life's puzzles.
The language is simple, the content is considerate and inspiring [Like][Like][Like]