The Courage to Be Rejected

The first chapter mainly expresses that happiness is happiness and success is success. There are many extended concepts Chapter 2: You are an independent individual. Just do what you think is right. Don't force others to change their behavior, and don't be influenced by others. Just be yourself. Chapter 3: Just try to be yourself and extend your ideas In Chapter 4, it is more appropriate to use the words of the Book of Changes to express that the past is the present and the future is the present. Neither the past nor the future can be changed. You can only grasp the moment. The present changes the past and the future changes. Chapter 5: Interpersonal relationships are the source of problems. Don't try to block this source, but learn from interpersonal relationships to make yourself better. This book is very good, but I prefer Professor Zeng Shiqiang's book on the Book of Changes. For wealth, Poor Dad, Rich Dad and Talmud are better. The concept of this book is very good and it stretches my thinking very much, but I prefer the parchment. Hahahaha, don't hit me. Four-star shock is pretty good.

Realized the true concept of happiness Imitating other people's "happiness" means deep inferiority. "There is no meaning in life." "The meaning of life is what you give yourself." - Adler "Your own value must be interpreted by yourself. Even if you are criticized, denied, or abandoned by secular rules." "As long as you can survive, it must be valuable." "You can live any kind of life, as long as you don't lose yourself. As long as you are still there, it's not a pity to lose anything." "Hope is given by others." "We must never hesitate to prioritize our own happiness." "People don't laugh because they are happy, they feel happy because they laugh." - De Botton These words are deeply touching and have a great impact.

The opinions given by the author are fair, but some people cannot be changed. Like the man in the book who borrowed money to gamble behind his fiancée's back. No matter how gentle, sweet and considerate his fiancée was, he would never quit gambling unless he went through heartbreaking pain.

The author's analysis of the case is very in-depth and can hit the key points. More persuasive to other people's suggestions or advice than most of us. Only with higher cognition can we understand a more different world.

As far as happiness is concerned, it is innate. You will not be unhappy just because you have experienced some unfortunate things, nor will you be happy just because you have experienced some happy things. Your existence is happiness, your existence is valuable.

This book talks about happiness and success, using theories and cases. Reading it feels like listening to stories and philosophy. It also made me discover some things that I didn't understand before. It also expanded my awareness and the courage to work hard to find myself.

I think we need to have the courage to say no. The other day I heard a radio host discussing the sense of boundaries. Everyone must protect their own little world and not let others cross the line easily. We must bravely say NO to unreasonable demands made by others. We should not get too involved in other people's issues.

A very philosophical book that is highly consistent with my three views. It will trigger some new thoughts after reading it.

Yes, the article is easy to understand, and there are many cases and answers for reference. Maybe it's because I've also had the experience of being sick, so I have some empathy. Being alive is a great blessing. Someone must be happy for me. As the saying goes, you can create value while you're alive. Life has infinite possibilities, so live with optimism. Live in the present, don't dwell on the past or worry about the future, just live your life now. 🌟 "Our lives are built on expectations." "Sometimes we have to have the courage to do the opposite of what people expect." This is the "courage to be hated." 🌟Life is everyone's own subject. If you follow the crowd and rely on others to make decisions, you will not be considered mature no matter how old you are. 🌟Maturity means: make your own decisions about your own subjects, be responsible for your own life, and accept your own choices. 🌟Your own value must be interpreted by yourself. Even if you are criticized, denied, and abandoned by secular rules

This book has been searching for what happiness is Don't dwell on the past and don't look to the future Only by doing the present well can you gain true happiness Happiness can be harvested in an instant. This world is too impetuous and disturbed Too many people regard success as happiness and pursue maximizing interests too much. Ignoring the true feelings of every moment and ignoring the spirit became an aspirant Pay attention to the details of life and feel the joy every moment Even if it's not a lot of money, it's delicious food Happiness can also lead to a leisurely life The moment the goal is set, executed, and completed Maybe I can only gain half a moment of joy What comes randomly is the beginning of a new plan. Remember that the future has not come, the past is still the past The current self is the most worthy of attention, live the present moment well Become a brilliant little girl [blowing kiss][blowing kiss]

Combining reality and rational thinking, let us more clearly understand the meaning of our life and how to find happiness~

After reading three chapters, I felt so-so. Some case studies can be used for reference, and some are too subjective. I heard that this book was very good, but the results were not as good as expected, so I looked through the comments and found that there were many people who had the same opinion as me. Finally, I found that I had read the wrong book. What I wanted to read was: The Courage to Be Disliked [face covering]

I used to worry too much, but now I understand that people should live for themselves and not live in the expectations of others.

People must learn to live in their own issues. 2023.2.21

Let you realize that sometimes you don't need to do anything, your life is valuable. It will give you the courage to believe in yourself in interpersonal relationships, so that you no longer regret or blame yourself for what happened in the past, or live in nostalgia for the past because of the unsatisfactory present, and you will no longer be full of fear and worry about what has not happened. Really live in the present and grasp the happiness of the moment.

I think the content and opinions in the author's reply are too beautiful, and the thinking of those who gamble is too simple. Maybe the opinion is more pertinent. Other parts worth reading

I usually read this book while commuting by bus. The case consultations in it will have certain reference significance. Many things are relatively typical, such as parents and children, love, before and after marriage, and work. In fact, you will also have some problems. So, you can still read it.

The feeling is quite great, happiness ≠ success. Yes, cherish everything you have, focus on the present, and plan for the future

"There is no real despair, only prisoners trapped in thoughts"

The language is easy to understand, and I felt a lot after reading it. 1. Although hard work may not necessarily lead to success, hard work will bring us hope. 2. Improve your own value in interpersonal communication, have a positive attitude, and have positive thoughts. 3. And if someone is praised by the world, don't encourage him, and if someone is criticized by the world, don't discourage him. 4. Live well and focus on the present. 5. Life is an ascetic journey. Face the right and wrong in life with a peaceful mind and pursue your own happiness.

After reading it, I thought it was enough to remember just one sentence. Our lives are based on expectations, but we must have the courage to act contrary to people's expectations. People who always act in accordance with social expectations will eventually lose themselves.

Always believe in your own worth.

We should be bold to be ourselves and not be timid. There is nothing wrong with being brave. When we feel open, the world will be clear, and we should belong to a clear world.

The author's analysis of some cases helped me, and there may be similar examples in reality. However, the analysis of individual examples does not fit well with my three views. Overall, not bad, recommended.

What a great book, one of a trilogy that covers both psychology and philosophy. It's worth reading.

This book touched me very much. The viewpoint in the book is very novel. It tells us that happiness is not an end, but a process. We must have the courage to be rejected in order to truly find our own value and happiness. Some of the examples in the book are also very vivid and made me think more about my life. I think this is a book worth reading, especially for those who feel confused about life.

There are many fresh ideas in this book. But the expression is a bit too lengthy. After reading this, I have a more thorough understanding of Miki Kiyoshi's thoughts.

After reading it, I feel much more relaxed when looking at things around me. It also gave me a direction. Very good!

This is a book with a unique perspective and is worth reading in your spare time.

It's so beautiful. I feel like I've been lifted up after reading it. What's in it can give me a good answer to my current confusion.