Real growth occurs when we learn to embrace loneliness. Million-selling author Li Shanglong is a true coming-of-age gift to himself and his readers in his thirties! Some people face the pressures in life by escaping; some people may seem cynical, but they hide persistent deep feelings and unspeakable pain in their hearts; some people still haven't found perfect happiness even after they risked their lives for love; some people live like a wise man in the world of others, but become a trapped beast in their own life... A book about the growth of love and loneliness of the younger generation. After reading this book, you will understand: when we learn to embrace loneliness, we will eventually learn to grow and love in loneliness.
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The lives of four people went from loneliness, to collapse, to relief, and finally returned to peace and warmth. (After watching Aiqi, I cried. I cried while watching. He took care of everyone around him with warmth, except for the one time when he couldn't hold back his temper with his wife, which caused a lifetime of pain and regret.) I hope the person holding an umbrella for you will always be with you and leave no regrets.
People are happy in anxiety and grow in sweetness; but is it really necessary to love and kill each other in an intimate relationship? I like the present, the present is everything, and this moment is forever. Only if a person pays attention to the present, he will not feel lonely. This is Xiao Rui's heartfelt words, and they resonate with me. If you always think about forever when you fall in love, you will inevitably have small fights. On the contrary, in this fast era, if we can be responsible for ourselves first when we fall in love, we will reap longer-lasting sweetness. This is the insight of the four protagonists in this book after they have experienced it and tried it. I think it is worthy of your and my aftertaste.
When I first saw the title of the book, I thought it was about how to adapt to or overcome loneliness. I think modern people, not just me, should be habitually lonely. Sometimes even in a noisy and lively environment, you will feel isolated from the world. After reading it, I realized that it teaches us how to face family relationships, love, and marriage. There are four people, four lives, and four endings in the story. Their marriages, relationships, and even their original families are all filled with regrets. Maybe this is real life, not perfect. Some people make do with living a lonely life in the excitement, while some people choose not to escape and embrace life and the future. But the most important thing is to accept yourself. So, don't be afraid of loneliness and don't be afraid of love.
The story is wonderful and the plot is good. It turns out that marriage also has such a beautiful side. After reading this, I am more determined to love the girl I like. I will cherish every day I fall in love with her. I love you, my second sister lcy
Huhu, it's such a profound and good book. It allows us to get a glimpse of the unpredictable corner of ordinary life - the impermanence of life. Ordinary life is the best antidote to life. Thank you Aiqi, thank you "Four King Kong". I hope we can live this life peacefully. I also thank the author for letting me read such a beautiful and wonderful story. Thank you! Thank you Baobao for recommending this book to me. I will definitely walk through this journey of life with her peacefully. --2026.3.23 Mr Hu(^～^)
I feel that after reading this book, I learned never to let my emotions control me.
When I was young, I asked my grown-up brothers and sisters, is it always lonely growing up? My brother and sister said that maybe growing up is always lonely, and growing up is always something we do alone. But actually think about it optimistically. To some extent, everyone is going through their own unique growth process, and sometimes they may feel lonely. This kind of loneliness does not mean complete isolation from others, but it means that each of us has our own inner world and personal experience, and these experiences and feelings are unique.
This novel takes the "Four King Kongs" of a wedding (videographer, photographer, makeup artist and emcee) as the protagonist. Four stories about four men (the cheating man, the playboy, the honest man, and the serious man), interspersed with some episodes where they helped others organize weddings. The cheating man finally pulled back from the brink and turned around. He hopes that after the girl forgives him, he will stop looking for unrequited love. The playboy becomes a good man, escapes the shackles of his original family, and bravely talks about love. The honest man decided to live his life alone for religious reasons. I was a little puzzled by the story of a serious man who was widowed, lost his loved one, and got into a ghost marriage. But overall it is a good, innovative and touching story.
The adult world is about licking your wounds and healing yourself.
There are some psychological activities in it that make me want to complain, but overall it is still very contagious, especially the reversal of the story at the end, which shocked me. After all, it is written by a famous writer. It is a very beautiful and friendly literary book. I recommend it to everyone.
When it comes to growth, what can you think of, pain? Or happiness, or gain, or regret and remorse. I can only say that these are actually not the main color of growth. The main color of growth should be loneliness. This is a road that no one can accompany us. This is a road that is destined to take a person's whole life. This book is very useful. It teaches us how to grow and how to deal with loneliness. I highly recommend everyone to read it and find the secret of growth and the meaning of loneliness in this book.
It is a book that I have a lot of experience in reading. This book left me with a deep memory and a lot of feelings. I would like to thank the Four King Kongs and thank Aiqi. Through this book, I understand that everyone grows up alone. Everyone must learn to get along with loneliness, find their true self in loneliness, and live alone with themselves.
This book is very real. The author Li Shanglong uses his unique writing style to tell the story of the loneliness and love that young people face as they grow up. The stories in the book made me empathize and also made me understand the importance of growing up in loneliness. I really like the author's writing style, which is simple yet profound and easy for people to relate to. I recommend this book to all my friends who are growing up.
When I saw Aiqi's wedding: I couldn't help but shed tears...
I don't know why, but this book expresses my deepest feelings. A couple with children is indeed a mess, and a couple with work is really stressful. But a couple with love may not be sunny and sunny, but at least there will be tenderness in the heart.
Come on! All kinds of life
Life is hard, but there will always be someone to hold an umbrella for you
We have been living with loneliness all our lives. The real partner is loneliness. We grow up in loneliness and know our true self in loneliness.
So 🥹🥹🥹Xiao Rui entered the room and couldn't find Ai Tian. The others entered the room and saw Ai Qi's clothes, pants, socks, and shoes under the table. That part was really unbearable [crying][crying][crying][crying]
Everyone has the right to choose their own life. There is no right or wrong. Time will give you the answer. So cherish the time you spent in love and leave no regrets
It's worth watching, I hope it's a little inspiring, cherish the moment
The plot is very touching. I learned a lot, whether it's how to deal with marriage and love, or how to face my own life.
We are all lonely people
Close to life and feel the same
Various aspects of life Various aspects of life
Life is good, live in the moment
I was very touched when I saw the back
I cried watching it in the middle of the night, ugh. Mr. Ai wants to be happy
Learn to grow and be the best version of yourself
Yearning for the ups and downs of love, but also afraid of the backstab of love.
It's not bad, but Aiqi is a little miserable, he can't hold himself back [crying], people, they were all beaten up [almost crying]
The lives of four people went from loneliness, to collapse, to relief, and finally returned to peace and warmth. (After watching Aiqi, I cried. I cried while watching. He took care of everyone around him with warmth, except for the one time when he couldn't hold back his temper with his wife, which caused a lifetime of pain and regret.) I hope the person holding an umbrella for you will always be with you and leave no regrets.
People are happy in anxiety and grow in sweetness; but is it really necessary to love and kill each other in an intimate relationship? I like the present, the present is everything, and this moment is forever. Only if a person pays attention to the present, he will not feel lonely. This is Xiao Rui's heartfelt words, and they resonate with me. If you always think about forever when you fall in love, you will inevitably have small fights. On the contrary, in this fast era, if we can be responsible for ourselves first when we fall in love, we will reap longer-lasting sweetness. This is the insight of the four protagonists in this book after they have experienced it and tried it. I think it is worthy of your and my aftertaste.
When I first saw the title of the book, I thought it was about how to adapt to or overcome loneliness. I think modern people, not just me, should be habitually lonely. Sometimes even in a noisy and lively environment, you will feel isolated from the world. After reading it, I realized that it teaches us how to face family relationships, love, and marriage. There are four people, four lives, and four endings in the story. Their marriages, relationships, and even their original families are all filled with regrets. Maybe this is real life, not perfect. Some people make do with living a lonely life in the excitement, while some people choose not to escape and embrace life and the future. But the most important thing is to accept yourself. So, don't be afraid of loneliness and don't be afraid of love.
The story is wonderful and the plot is good. It turns out that marriage also has such a beautiful side. After reading this, I am more determined to love the girl I like. I will cherish every day I fall in love with her. I love you, my second sister lcy
Huhu, it's such a profound and good book. It allows us to get a glimpse of the unpredictable corner of ordinary life - the impermanence of life. Ordinary life is the best antidote to life. Thank you Aiqi, thank you "Four King Kong". I hope we can live this life peacefully. I also thank the author for letting me read such a beautiful and wonderful story. Thank you! Thank you Baobao for recommending this book to me. I will definitely walk through this journey of life with her peacefully. --2026.3.23 Mr Hu(^～^)
I feel that after reading this book, I learned never to let my emotions control me.
When I was young, I asked my grown-up brothers and sisters, is it always lonely growing up? My brother and sister said that maybe growing up is always lonely, and growing up is always something we do alone. But actually think about it optimistically. To some extent, everyone is going through their own unique growth process, and sometimes they may feel lonely. This kind of loneliness does not mean complete isolation from others, but it means that each of us has our own inner world and personal experience, and these experiences and feelings are unique.
This novel takes the "Four King Kongs" of a wedding (videographer, photographer, makeup artist and emcee) as the protagonist. Four stories about four men (the cheating man, the playboy, the honest man, and the serious man), interspersed with some episodes where they helped others organize weddings. The cheating man finally pulled back from the brink and turned around. He hopes that after the girl forgives him, he will stop looking for unrequited love. The playboy becomes a good man, escapes the shackles of his original family, and bravely talks about love. The honest man decided to live his life alone for religious reasons. I was a little puzzled by the story of a serious man who was widowed, lost his loved one, and got into a ghost marriage. But overall it is a good, innovative and touching story.
The adult world is about licking your wounds and healing yourself. There are some psychological activities in it that make me want to complain, but overall it is still very contagious, especially the reversal of the story at the end, which shocked me. After all, it is written by a famous writer. It is a very beautiful and friendly literary book. I recommend it to everyone.
When it comes to growth, what can you think of, pain? Or happiness, or gain, or regret and remorse. I can only say that these are actually not the main color of growth. The main color of growth should be loneliness. This is a road that no one can accompany us. This is a road that is destined to take a person's whole life. This book is very useful. It teaches us how to grow and how to deal with loneliness. I highly recommend everyone to read it and find the secret of growth and the meaning of loneliness in this book.
It is a book that I have a lot of experience in reading. This book left me with a deep memory and a lot of feelings. I would like to thank the Four King Kongs and thank Aiqi. Through this book, I understand that everyone grows up alone. Everyone must learn to get along with loneliness, find their true self in loneliness, and live alone with themselves.
This book is very real. The author Li Shanglong uses his unique writing style to tell the story of the loneliness and love that young people face as they grow up. The stories in the book made me empathize and also made me understand the importance of growing up in loneliness. I really like the author's writing style, which is simple yet profound and easy for people to relate to. I recommend this book to all my friends who are growing up.
When I saw Aiqi's wedding: I couldn't help but shed tears...
I don't know why, but this book expresses my deepest feelings. A couple with children is indeed a mess, and a couple with work is really stressful. But a couple with love may not be sunny and sunny, but at least there will be tenderness in the heart.
Come on! All kinds of life
Life is hard, but there will always be someone to hold an umbrella for you
We have been living with loneliness all our lives. The real partner is loneliness. We grow up in loneliness and know our true self in loneliness.
So 🥹🥹🥹Xiao Rui entered the room and couldn't find Ai Tian. The others entered the room and saw Ai Qi's clothes, pants, socks, and shoes under the table. That part was really unbearable [crying][crying][crying][crying]
Everyone has the right to choose their own life. There is no right or wrong. Time will give you the answer. So cherish the time you spent in love and leave no regrets
It's worth watching, I hope it's a little inspiring, cherish the moment
The plot is very touching. I learned a lot, whether it's how to deal with marriage and love, or how to face my own life.
We are all lonely people
Close to life and feel the same
Various aspects of life Various aspects of life
Life is good, live in the moment
I was very touched when I saw the back
I cried watching it in the middle of the night, ugh. Mr. Ai wants to be happy
Learn to grow and be the best version of yourself
Yearning for the ups and downs of love, but also afraid of the backstab of love.
It's not bad, but Aiqi is a little miserable, he can't hold himself back [crying], people, they were all beaten up [almost crying]