Accompany Your Children's Lifelong Growth

This book has some good ideas that are worth learning from. The benevolent do not worry, the mediocre do not bother themselves. Worrying about the future leads to anxiety, and attacking oneself leads to depression. Keep your thirst for knowledge, enjoy purity, and insist on lifelong learning. Stop complaining and blaming, discover more of the bright spots in yourself and others, and view negative emotions positively. Continuously improve yourself, learn to control your emotions, be good at communication, and become more confident. Use a growth mindset, calm down, read more good books, think more independently, go out more, broaden your horizons, and open books are beneficial. Today's society is full of involution and anxiety. Think less, do more, and try more different ways to solve problems, and you will be less anxious.

It's well written and worthy of every parent's study and reflection.

I have been reading this book for nearly a month. The first book I read this year is very touching. The first few chapters are about cultivating the growth mindset of myself and my children. The last chapter is about how to deal with the relationship between the eldest child and the second child, and the relationship with the teacher. Finally, it is not difficult for myself and my parents to feed the elderly. What is difficult is to be harmonious. For parents who are not parents, I will read it again and again in the future.

The book is very good. You and I understand the three pillars of children: unconditional love, high value, sense of belonging, and lifelong learning; it is more practical. I hope that I can continue to learn, have my own things to do, and educate children more rationally.

After reading the book "Along with Children's Lifelong Growth", it was like a timely rain that gave me a new and profound understanding of parent-child relationship and education. This book emphasizes that the importance of parents in their children's growth is not just about teaching, but also about companionship and guidance. It made me understand that children's growth is not achieved overnight, but a lifelong process. We can't just focus on our children's temporary results or performance, but we must focus on their future life paths. In the book, I learned the key to building a good parent-child relationship. Unconditional love is not unprincipled pampering, but making children feel accepted and cherished regardless of their success or failure, well-behaved or naughty. Giving children a sense of value can help children realize their own uniqueness and importance, and cultivate their self-confidence and sense of responsibility. The lifelong growth mentality is like injecting a steady stream of motivation into children's lives, allowing them to dare to face challenges and constantly surpass themselves. It reminds me that as a parent, I need to always reflect on my actions and thinking. Every move we make has a subtle impact on our children. Only by growing ourselves can we better lead our children forward. At the same time, we must learn to let go of anxiety, believe in the inner strength of children, and give them enough space to explore and grow. This book is like a beacon, illuminating the direction for me to continue on the road of parent-child education. I will put the concepts into practice in my life, strive to accompany my children's lifelong growth, and help them become better and happier people.

This book is worth reading and learning by parents. It can help parents solve some parenting confusions and understand what I did and what happened to my children. In fact, it is cause and effect. Children need to be loved, affirmed and supported unconditionally. Parents wait for the flowers to bloom, become lifelong learners, and gain a happy family. The book has many cases and methods worth learning from. Recommendation index five stars

Very suitable for people with children at home. I ignored this book when I didn't have children. Now that I have children, I have the desire to read this book. After reading this book, I discovered that many questions about life and parenting have answers in this book. Thanks to this book, I can raise my children with a better attitude.

This book is very well written! The analysis is in place, well-founded, clear, philosophical, comprehensive, concise and practical. It can be said to be a practical collection of educational communication! [Like][Like][Like]

The parent-child relationship is the foundation of education. If you don't have a good relationship with him, you will never be able to educate him. In the end, you can only discipline him by forcing, yelling, beating and scolding. You are bullying the younger and controlling the child as a parent. And good education is based on emotional communication, understanding, respect, gentleness and firmness, equal dialogue with children, talking and laughing, discussion and discussion, children can agree or disagree. After you have a very close relationship with him, sharing and communicating together, education will become very easy. Before the age of 10, the relationship between parents and children is vertical, and parents mainly guide and discipline. After the age of 10, there is a parallel relationship. Parents should shut up, step aside, don't preach, be themselves, and respect their children's decisions. Ask him back more often, ask more questions to stimulate his child's thinking, and listen more to his thoughts. Holidays allow children to sleep freely, eat freely, use mobile phones freely, and have free emotions. There aren't many things parents have to intervene in. When dealing with adolescent children, you must learn three things: The first and most important thing is to protect the safety of your children. Article 2: Establish emotional communication with your children. Article 3: Share your parents' growing experiences. Tell me about whether you made mistakes back then, whether you took detours, how you thought when you encountered setbacks, and how you overcame difficulties.

I am very inspired. Parents, like children, also need to learn how to be parents, learn how to communicate, and how to understand the world in their children's eyes. We must grow with our children every day. If you don't accumulate small steps, you won't be able to reach a thousand miles. If you don't accumulate small streams, you won't be able to become a river. Make a little progress every day.

While reading the book, I kept thinking about the way I educate my children and every detail of my daily life. I also kept reflecting on what I didn't do well enough and how I could do it better. Educating children is a lifelong career that requires continuous learning. Through this book by Teacher Fan Deng, I learned the three pillars of education: unconditional love, sense of value, and growth mindset. We must learn to accept children's imperfections, be tolerant to a certain extent, be patient, discover more of their children's bright spots, and give them the most sincere praise from the heart.

When I read this book, I got that feeling called "I can't put it down"! Reading is growing, especially reading a book like this that resonates with the soul! Knowledge is power. Teacher Fan Deng uses unconditional love to achieve the happiness and courage of every family. He uses cultivating children's sense of value to tap their inner drive to create achievements. With a lifelong growth mentality, he sows the beauty of each of us! Moreover, there are books in books. Teacher Fan Deng draws on the strengths of many schools of thought and is not limited by stereotypes. Once again, he shows us the endless charm and grace of a person who loves reading and knows how to read!

Many people think that this book "Growing with Children for Life" is aimed at some bad habits of children. In fact, there are many shortcomings in being a parent, and you should have a pleasant attitude towards your own parents, your own growth, parenting, and getting along with your parents. A good book, worth reading.

It's very, very well written, and it expresses the thoughts that I couldn't express very clearly. And some points of view are very helpful in clearing up confusion and guiding lost teenagers and even middle-aged us. Thanks to the author, for such a good book [like][like][like]

Very practical example! Use other people's experiences to enhance your own. I really like Fan Deng's books. Easy to understand! Although we cannot remember everything, every time we read a book, some of it has been implanted in our subconscious.

It makes sense and deserves our study and reflection in many aspects.

This book is good. Let me know how to get along with adolescent children and how to get along with parents,

The book has a compact structure, practical content, and is full of practical information without too much nonsense. It will give you a lot of inspiration after reading it. It is a good parenting guide book. The chapters on the three pillars, rebellion and changing the relationship with parents are very exciting. I learned a lot of new knowledge. I highly recommend it!

It is objective and true. I reflect a lot on my daily interactions with parents and children. Knowing it does not mean that I can do it, but at least I understand the reason. Especially the unconditional love for children and the position of parents are very touching. I will review old things and learn new things from time to time.

After reading this, my tense nerves were much relieved. It is true that many times I am too anxious and care too much about the results. In fact, it lies in walking and thinking about improvement while walking. Relax yourself and the relationship between parents and children will be more harmonious. It's a very good book and I will recommend it to my friends.

This book is worth reading many times, and it is suitable to combine the methods and perspectives provided in the book with life, and constantly experience it, so as to realize oneself (as a parent) first of all, self-awareness and self-reflection, and then to accompany the children at different stages.

It's a very good book. I read it in two hours and benefited a lot.

This book is very good and can be used as a reference book for getting along with children. I am glad that my son is now three and a half years old and I have read this book. Reading it once seems not enough, you should read it frequently to alert yourself. I hope I can become a qualified mother.

It's very practical when it comes to the heart. The cases in the book have also made mistakes. In the future, I will use the methods in the book to guide my children to be positive, optimistic, cheerful, kind and brave people.

Well, this is a very good book that is worth reading by all parents, especially young parents who have just had children and don't know how to educate them. Thanks to Teacher Fan Deng for writing this book! I think people who read this book will also thank Teacher Fan Deng and gain a lot. After reading it, I suddenly became enlightened.

Teacher Fan Deng's book on accompanying children's lifelong growth is easy to understand, in-depth and concise. Even mothers without a high degree of education can understand it in one read. It is down-to-earth and integrated into life. Parents who are willing to change can read it. Combined with the cases in the book, they can also think independently, change parents' wrong thinking and behavior, and better guide parents to be positive and good parents. Highly recommended to all parents to take a look, you will gain a lot from it

The best thing I learned from this book is the name of the book, lifelong learning, lifelong growth, the emphasis is on lifelong. It's not learning in school, that's learning. It's about constantly updating your own cognition and ways of doing things, so that you can adapt to the same frequency of society.

This is the first time I read a parenting book. I have benefited a lot. I will try to change my communication methods. Thank you to the author.

Keeping the three pillars in mind, I have a new understanding and confidence in educating children, and I feel less confused and anxious. Thanks to Teacher Fan Deng for his comprehensive analysis, I recommend this book to all parents.

The three pillars of parent-child education mentioned in this book gave me a lot of inspiration. It made me understand that children need unconditional love and a sense of worth, and it is also important to cultivate a lifelong growth mindset. The content in the book is easy to understand. Teacher Fan Deng is just like chatting with us, sharing his parenting experience, which makes people feel very friendly. I think this book is not only suitable for parents to read, but also for us high school students. Understanding this knowledge early will also be helpful for the future.