Devil's Dating Science

For a man, an elegant and beautiful woman is very attractive to him. However, the gender difference between two people often makes them unable to understand each other's thoughts. "Emotional confusion is the basic grudge in life. From the distress of love for the person you love when you are young, to the marital crisis caused by inconsistent personalities and extramarital affairs in middle age, most people will inevitably fall into emotional traps several times in their lives." When we understand the gap between the sexes, we can harvest beautiful love.

It turned out to be much better than I expected. It is a serious book that teaches men how to communicate with women. This book is written for relatively normal men who are willing to give and want to enter into a serious long-term relationship, but who do not know how to start or date girls. First of all, the prerequisites are set: ① Communication must be based on respect for women and learning to understand women. It's a good thing for women to accept, but don't get upset if they refuse. ② Not for hooking up or playing around, but for finding someone who suits you, for the purpose of love and beautiful intimate relationship. ③Show yourself sincerely and truthfully without lying. Things not to do are: ① Narcissism, only caring about your own needs, and completely ignoring the girl's feelings and concerns. ② The purpose of hooking up is to get to know more people who may be suitable for you. The purpose is to fall in love. Don't sacrifice yourself for the sake of others. Take the number of chats and the number of beauties as proof of your achievements. ③Double standards, which will never establish a real emotional connection, and will also make girls more resentful. In short, this book teaches how to strike up a conversation and enter into a relationship. As for the specific problems after falling in love, it has not been mentioned yet. But if you can do the above: respect, listen, try to understand, and be willing to take responsibility in life and help girls solve problems, the relationship results of such a person will not be too bad.

If you learn it but don't have anyone to work with, your skills are all in vain. This book does not have a rigorous framework, but consists of 50 thematic articles. The content includes how to strike up a conversation, how to chat, how to respect women, how to get along with women, and what mentality a man should have. It is worth reading. It is an insightful dating guide. I feel that the author's experience and reflections are very pertinent. He combines male thinking and female thinking many times to analyze specific chat cases, and provides suggestions and flexible response plans. But I think the most important thing is to be sincere and sincere to win people's hearts.

It is very suitable for the basic practical practice of love and the enlightenment of the relationship between the sexes. There are many technical points and summaries in it that brought back my memories and sighs, and made me think more than once: I wish I had known it earlier. However, however. In my opinion, there are three characteristics of this book. One is the mind. Mentality is the fundamental support for learning and using skills. Without mentality, skills can easily be deformed. The key point of keeping your mind stable is to gradually realize the scarcity of your animal nature and gradually complete it to become a normal person. In other words, let yourself be yourself and live your own life, calmly face the understandability and incomprehensibility of women, and express yourself freely and truly. But this is actually too idealistic. The reality is that you have to hit the wall again and again, get hurt and then heal, and gradually change yourself beyond recognition. The second is positioning. The devil's technique is defined in the book as making people of the opposite sex who may like you fall in love with you through conversational skills, but you cannot make people who don't like or even hate you fall in love with you. Perhaps, under certain circumstances, certain opportunities, and no matter the cost, it is indeed possible to make people who don't like you or even hate yourself like you. It's just that the cost ratio of such pursuit is probably not equal to the final benefit. But if you do this, maybe it can be called true love. Not only does the technology have a position, but the users themselves also have a position - their own conditions determine the conditions of the people they can attract. What needs to be expanded upon is that there is asymmetry in mate selection between the sexes. Men and women with the same appearance, body shape, education, ability, family, etc., Who are similar in all aspects, cannot pair up. The third is order. There is a certain order in interpersonal communication, which can also be said to be the law of social interaction. If you are very enthusiastic but go against the rules to strike up a conversation, you will not be successful. If you are very indifferent but follow the rules to strike up a conversation, you may be successful but it will be boring. To strike up a conversation and chase a girl is to use skills to get your passion in a way that the other party can understand and feel. If you have too much enthusiasm, the opponent will not be able to get it, which is equal to zero. If you are purely technical and have no enthusiasm, the opponent is not a fool. Over time, there will always be something fishy. The four levels of progressive relationships proposed by the author - hookup - acquaintance - friends - lovers, as well as the considerations and goals at different levels are very instructive. Even if you jump through the whole book, as long as you read this part, you have already made money. The four-layer relationship model proposed by the author is of great practical value.

As a female reader, I just came here to look for some chatting skills. For example, through this, I fully understood what push-up and cut-down are. In good chat, push-up and cut-down should be used together. Some of the other points are of little use to me.

Reading this book is like a sailboat that has lost its way in the vast sea. In the dark night, when the hungry people in the boat are on the verge of despair, they suddenly see a dazzling white light appearing in the distance, which is a beacon of hope.

It's very well written, but it's a pity that it wasn't written by me!

If you are worried about relationships and dating, you might as well read this book. Love and intimacy are also well documented. The book organizes and introduces a series of dating skills and strategies for us, including how to build attraction, how to communicate with the opposite sex, how to deal with emotions and conflicts, etc. We can use these skills to help ourselves build intimate relationships. By analyzing psychological theories and case studies, the author gives some practical suggestions and guidance to help us better understand and cope with the challenges in love.

The writing is really thorough and a breath of fresh air.

It's quite good. This is actually a book about how to communicate and get along with others. When communicating with men and women, you should pay attention to male thinking and female thinking. What you need to achieve when communicating with others is equality and respect. And you won't be able to chase the girl you like after reading this book. What's more important is to choose the right one. Because the right one is the real love

This book is a relatively professional popular science book, so I dare not draw any conclusions without the relevant knowledge and experience. However, I was still shocked by the content and knowledge involved in this book. I didn't expect there to be so much theoretical and practical knowledge about pursuing others. (And I'm also thinking about why I'm studying this before I graduate from high school?) (Weird knowledge has been added [face covering] [face covering] [face covering])

It's wonderful and touching. I've seen a different world through this book. [Stare]

I have read this book intermittently. After reading one side, I felt deeply. I have never heard of most of what is said in the book. I plan to read this book a few more times and then put it into practice. Wish me good luck.

The common feature of many books with the name "Devil" is to reconstruct profound knowledge and knowledge in simple, popular and even shocking language. Although it has not become an established academic discipline, dating is clearly a skill that many young people need to learn in terms of its important impact on contemporary society. This book systematically analyzes the secrets and art of intercourse between the sexes, and proposes a large number of proven dating skills based on real life cases, which is highly practical.

I'm looking for a girlfriend. If I find one, come back and comment.

In one sentence, we need to master proportion, courage and skill.

A lot of benefits, very good

It's too late to see me, if I were 10 years younger [crying][crying][crying]

I'm glad this is the first book I read about dating.

It describes not only girls but also men, and I think this is an introductory book on psychology. Reading this book will definitely help you gain emotional intelligence and make yourself more perfect. I think I have a male mindset now

After finishing this book, I feel it is useful. The author provides a direct perspective on the relationship between the sexes, which can better understand each other's thoughts and feelings, thereby improving the relationship between the two parties. .

This book is very practical! It explains dating skills and methods from multiple angles, and the author's writing style is humorous and the examples are vivid. I particularly liked the part about the differences in thinking between men and women in the book, which gave me a better understanding of how girls think. If I could have read this book earlier, maybe I would have found a girlfriend now! Haha, I recommend it to you!

Master, after you finish studying, you will be too good at talking about what to do if you are treated as a scumbag.

It would have been nice if I had read this book when I was a teenager. I could have avoided a lot of pitfalls. I also understand why most men don't like to read this kind of book. Only people with flaws need to learn this technique of picking up girls. I usually call such people lickers.

Okay, I gained a lot.

Stress state and natural state are not only our attitude towards the outside world, but also determine our psychological state, so language patterns and psychological state also have a certain correlation.

After reading this book, I understand more about the differences between male relationships and female relationships, and it teaches us how to get along between men and women. I have benefited a lot from reading this book. I am very lucky to have read this book during the process of falling in love. I hope that all readers who have read it can also find their own love as soon as possible.

It's a very good book. I learned a lot and understood a lot. I'm going to read it again in depth.

Very good, very detailed and thorough, thank you Teacher Ruan🙏🙏🙏

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